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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I was dating this guy for a year and everything in our relationship was great. We were loving and romantic to eachother and the physical part was good too. Then during the last month of our relationship he was acting weird like not saying i love you as much and stopped responding to my txts, and after hanging out he would kiss me on the check when i left his house. There was this one girl he was talking to and i started wondering if he had feelings for her. I asked and he said that he liked her and she liked him (the other girl got dumped by her boyfriend of one year about a month ago) he then said he wasn't sure if he wanted to be with me anymore cause he said we didn't have a connection anymore. (we never had sex, i would never let it go that far) So it took him a whole week to decide who he wanted to be with. He picked her and dumped me at the homecoming dance. We tried being friends but it made him end up hating me over a dumb rumor his new girlfriend was spreading saying I was telling everyone that he cheated on me. Which never happend. So i completely ended all communtication with him. But we have one class in school together but i never tried talking to him.I was doing really well with everything. Then one day out of the blue before our orchestra concert he txted me saying he was sorry and he just wanted to be friends. So i went along with it for awhile cause i thought we could really be friends, but i thought about it some more and said we couldnt because i was scared that feelings might come back. Then he said it was fine. Then two days later i sent him a txting telling him to meet me at a food place so we could talk about things. Well he did end up showing up and we talked and apologized to eachother. Then he invited me over to his house and we were having fun. Then things started to get weird because he didn't want me to leave. We ending up laying on his bed together and just talking. He kept saying weird things like "oh i don't know why but im turned on" and i kept saying it was akward but he kept saying that nothing with me was akward. Then asked if i was rub is stomach (i always did this when we were dating) and at first i said no, but he kept asking me so i did. Randomly he ask me what i was thinking about and my heart was beating really fast and then i tried kissing him and he kinda stopped me and said he didn't want to lead me on. So after that i said i was sorry and he said its understandable and it didn't matter. We could still hangout ect.Then the next day i txted him like hey and stuff and he kept ignoring my txts all day and didn't really acknowledge me at school all that much. Then later that day when i went home i figured out that his new girlfriend dumped him. So i want to know if he was just using me to trying to get physical pleasure or if hes having second thoughts or what? I really don't understand whats going on. and whenever i try to talk to him about it he just ignores me and acts like i don't exist.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2009): When we started dating he was 15 and i was 17 he is a grade lower than me in school. Now im 18 and hes 16
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reader, rcn +, writes (2 December 2009):
 OK, what is your real age? what is his age? reason being, teens to adults act different ways at different ages. not saying their isn't an exception, but in general with high school and early teen boys and girls seek affection and avoid it in different ways that the reasons are more common with the age group.
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