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writes:Since my last writing, I was a bad girl and figured out how to hack onto my boyfriends computer. Looking at the history on his computer it said he was looking at gay porn,BIG women porn, and old woman porn. He said that that is just what comes up with a general search but i don't believe him cuz i looked at a second more detailed histore of the computer. Am I just crazy or is he looking at all this and what should i do? Not positive about this one but i think he also jerks off when i'm home which hurts cuz it makes me feel like he doesn't want me. Make me feel better please cuz its eating away at my soul.
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reader, bharat mehta  +, writes (10 December 2009):
 I am male, and I wish to say something not as a representative of 'male' but as a thinker.
To-day, I do not see porn picture, because I know the reason what is 'unattractive' in it. But, once I had seen, not as a admirer but as a curious person with the question, what is there to see? 'seen' and found, 'nothing there to see, save few mechanical action and unwomanly and unmanly body of a person...everything in it is not representing 'sex' but 'against sex' Just as, prostitute do not represent 'burning sexual desire for sex' but 'faking the desire of sex' and most men feel it as 'alive!!!!"
But, I do not know, how to say this truth to our culture, so any women or men who wish to be cultural leader in this realm, can share my 'ideas'
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2009): Hi. I think its true that many men look at porn. Its so readily available online, i reckon every man and his dog have looked at it! It doesnt mean hes in love with any of the women or gay, i hope! Hes just being nosey or curious and getting thrills from it. He might also be mastabating while watching it. That seems to be the usual reason they watch it. The other day my daughter found a porn magazine her boyfriend had hidden. She hit the roof and still hasnt come down. Shes convinced hes a raging pervert and should be in a park somewhere in a dirty rain mac. So you arent alone. Many, many women have a huge problem with their men looking at porn. Id say, tell him not to watch it on your pc at home because you dont like the thought that hes at the pc mastabating while watching other women. It is a yukky thought so its not an unreasonable request.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (3 December 2009):
99 percent of men look at porn. Men respond well to visual aids. It has nothing to do with you at all. I think you should say to him you're upset and need some reassurace, but it genuinly has nothing to do with you. He loves you, it's just that porn offers a very quick visual thrill.
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reader, Dazed_and_Confsued +, writes (2 December 2009):
Masturbation is perfectly natural and normal. Most people do it regardless if they're in a relationship or not.It's not you, some people just do it because they're bored..He wouldn't be in a relationship with you if all he was into is older, larger women. You obviously bring something to the table. It's just a fantasy, isn't there anything out of the ordinary you've fantasized about or someone out of the norm you have secretly wished to be intimate with?
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