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Archived questions from: June, 2019 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

How can I not let my past affect my dating life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2008 days ago

30 June 2019 (F) - I'm trying to make sense of my nonexistent dating life. What I've noticed is that as soon as someone wants to get serious with me, I run away. Sex is easy, but when someone shows me they want more, then I back away. Back story: My parents have a c...

Why did I put up with my ex for so long when he did terrible things to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2006 days ago

29 June 2019 (F) - I been off and on with my first love for 19 yrs. In the past he dated other girls and would come running back to me when the relationships failed, I went back each time I think I just wanted closure because I kept asking him lots of questions about ...

My boyfriend's grandma doesn't like me or approve of me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1903 days ago

29 June 2019 (F) - I’ve been with my boyfriend for 2 years now and we have decided to get married. The thing is I feel like his grandma doesn’t like me at all for some reason and he kept saying she did. Then today, his sister was talking about babies and I just made a ...

More roommate problems in sobriety

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2005 days ago

29 June 2019 (F) - *There are names and places in here and I want to let you know that I have changed them for privacy and used them for clarity* I wrote this post http://www.dearcupid.org/question/everyone-around-me-seems-to-want-to-sabotage.html over a year ago,...

My ex and I had a big fight and have to be together for a week and a 15 hour car ride. How do I handle this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2008 days ago

29 June 2019 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles. Thank you for taking the time to read my post. its a bit long. I'm feeling a bit bewildered, hurt and pretty angry all at the same time. I have just had the weirdest experience with my now ex, all of 20 minutes ago, best ...

Am I cheating? Am I doing the wrong thing?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2006 days ago

28 June 2019 (F) - i never think that i will experience this in my life. im married to my long time boyfriend that actually we arent compatible to be together. we dont really know each other as we seldom meet back then we dated. we now have 8 months son. prior to ...

My husband has a massive problem with texting women endlessly, no amount of counseling has helped yet I can't leave because of certain situations

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2011 days ago

26 June 2019 (F) - After 16 years of marriage I’ve hit a cross roads and I have no idea what to do next, so over the years my husband has been texting and emailing other women, it’s always in secret but strangely it’s never sexual, he meets woman at work or online and ...

I escaped an obsessive ex only to get married to a man exactly like him!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2012 days ago

25 June 2019 (F) - I don't even know where to start...I guess I'm going to tell you about this in two parts. When I was in high school, there was this guy, James, who was new in school and he wanted to go out with me. I refused because I wasn't interested. He p...

My insecurities are making me wonder if I should make things official with him or just break up?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1987 days ago

24 June 2019 (F) - I've been dating a guy for about 9 months who's 20 years older than me. I've been taking it slow because I was married for 7 years before this and I've been a bit nervous about a new relationship after my husband cheated on me (resulting in the ...

My husband's behaviour towards my daughters has grown terrible

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2009 days ago

23 June 2019 (F) - I’ve been with my husband for 8 years. We have a 3 year old child together and I have two girls from a previous relationship ages 9 and 10 who don’t see their biological dad. When my husband and I first got together he was excellent with my girls an...

My girlfriend and my friend/roommate are way too close for comfort! Should I be concerned and who should I be upset with?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2013 days ago

22 June 2019 (M) - I've been seeing this this young girl for couple months now. Very passionate with each other sex is great! She says I love you and so do I and I do love her.we started out as friends.. anyway, recently I moved in with my friend into a two-bedroom ...

Pregnant and boyfriend wants space?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2015 days ago

21 June 2019 (F) - hello, Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 years now, in the start of the relationship everything was perfect, he was the exact man I was looking for after coming out of a terrible long term relationship that ended badly. We ...

Do I tell my husband that his adult daughter is putting terrible things about him on social media?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2014 days ago

21 June 2019 (F) - Do I tell my husband or not that his adult daughter is putting nasty things on social media about him, things like he's not been around for years and other horrible stuff, which is untrue we took her out for dinner last weekend! I am assuming it's ...

How do I handle my husband's annoying best friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2017 days ago

20 June 2019 (F) - My bf of 5 years has a friend who I can get on with but he's a bit annoying. Recently his friend came to stay for 5 days and it was very testing for me. It's one of his best friend's so I just smile and get on with it while he critisizes my cooking ...

How do I give him enough space while maintaining the relationship & managing my own insecurities?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2018 days ago

20 June 2019 (F) - My fiance recently decided to go to therapy. Our relationship has always been good, however a couple misunderstandings caused my insecurities and defensiveness to rear its ugly head. I didn't handle it well and it caused my fiance to push me away ...

Should I stay and see how we can manage this for the sake of love or should I walk away?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2020 days ago

16 June 2019 (F) - Hi there, I am in a very difficult situation right now, due to the fact that my boyfriend is dealing with something very hard for him, my boyfriend is older than (quite older) I am 30, he is 47, he is divorced from 6 years ago, he came to this ...

Ten years together and yet I still don't feel like part of my boyfriend's family.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2019 days ago

15 June 2019 (F) - My boyfriend and I are close to being in our 10 years of being together. I love him deeply and I am happy to marry him. There is just one thing that bothers me. His mother and brothers do not care about me at all. I understand that family means ...

Is it okay to not want to contact my only remaining family?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2022 days ago

14 June 2019 (F) - Hi, I’l l try and keep this short. I am not angry or sad. If anything I feel at piece. However, recently some mutual friends have started pressuring me into reconnecting with my family and I know they mean well, but… I just do not feel th...

I think my boyfriend is cheating and lying to me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2022 days ago

13 June 2019 (F) - hello to all ill try to make this long story short, i am in love with a man whom ive been with for two years, we have had some break ups along the way because he was unfaithful and got someone pregnant, he wanted to work things out so he asked for ...

My boyfriend constantly quits jobs and I'm tired of picking up the financial slack

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2021 days ago

13 June 2019 (F) - Been together almost 5 yrs. We live together and have a joint bank account. I have been working for the same company for 2 years now, full time, doing about 50 hrs per week. About one year ago he suddenly quit the job he had been with for a long ...

I broke it off with my lover but miss him terribly.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1946 days ago

13 June 2019 (F) - I am in a marriage and I’m very very happy with my husband we’ve been together for the past 20 years, we decided that due to our own dysfunctional upbringings we would create a wonderful loving safe environment for us and our children to live in ...

I feel I have no say in how we spend our holidays becuase I have no family

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2025 days ago

12 June 2019 (F) - I wrote last week about going on holiday to see my partner's family and the fact that we had to keep to schedule and had no time alone even though I was ill. I appreciate everyone's advice. Some said I should have my own staycation meaning stay at ...

Why does my boyfriend have to say hello to every young blonde woman that he sees?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2023 days ago

12 June 2019 (F) - I been with my boyfriend for two years now but every time we are out walking when a young woman passes by he says hello I don't understand this as I don't say hello to random young men or women passing by and it really winds me up. He says he's just ...

My boyfriend's family are very badly behaved with me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2025 days ago

11 June 2019 (F) - Hello, I have a question about how I should handle my feelings toward my boyfriend's family. We have been dating for seven years now. I am 23 and he is 26. When we began dating, his mother did not like me at first but I learned it's because she is a ...

How can I help her deal with an abusive ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2027 days ago

10 June 2019 (M) - So I've recently met a girl and we have started seeing each other. It's going well and I like her a lot. She recently confided in me though that her ex boyfriend was abusive towards her. She told me that he was generally a very angry person who ...

Why did my boss act so strangely when I put in my resignation? Did he think I was his stress shock absorber?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2028 days ago

9 June 2019 (F) - I have just recently left a job in a toxic situation and been offered one in a more mentally healthy environment, It has taken me over six months to find the new job and I have suffered considerable stress as financially could not just walk out ...

He doesn't have the guts to fully accept me in his life yet won't let go of me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2028 days ago

9 June 2019 (F) - Please could somebody help with the below before I lose my mind? I apologise in advance if this gets long winded! I’ve been with my partner 8 years. There is a 15 year age gap - he was divorcing when we met and his family frowned upon this. For t...

Should I be worried about the fact that my husband is constantly texting his co-worker and even sent her mom flowers on mother's day?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2024 days ago

9 June 2019 (F) - My husband has been texting his female coworker. She is single and their conversations seem to be innocent and friendly. My only concern is that it seems like they text all day. He is also not very open about it. I didn’t even know they have been ...

How do I fill this need to be the nurturer in the relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2028 days ago

8 June 2019 (F) - I have an emotional dilemma. I am 24 and have a wonderful boyfriend who has a huge extended family (all of whom are lovely people). He had quite an idyllic childhood. My childhood was less happy. My mother died when I was 12 and I suffered sexual ...

How do I stop overthinking my insecurities and thinking my boyfriend is cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1608 days ago

7 June 2019 (F) - Hi guys. I just wanted to come on here and get everything of my mind. Il try to give as many details as possible I’ve been with my boyfriend for a little over a year now and although that might not seem like a long time to some, and like we have...

Our vacation centers always around my boyfriend

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2029 days ago

6 June 2019 (F) - I've been with my bf for nearly 5 years. He's from a different country so we don't get to go on vacation unless it's to see his friends and family. I don't mind but when we do go we don't get time to relax. I've gotten sick on this trip to the point ...

Abusive actions, abusive words, messaging other women—I feel I just don’t know him anymore!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2032 days ago

6 June 2019 (F) - Hi, I’ve been with my boyfriend for over 8years. We have talked about marriage and having children and settling down. We currently live together. For the past few months however I just haven’t been happy. We’ve been arguing a lot and we just feel...

I’m upset that his ex has been put back on his work team!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2032 days ago

5 June 2019 (F) - Please help - I don't know whether i have a right to feel upset and hurt. My partner and I work for the same company - logistics - he manages ( he is one of the managers, with one of his own teams) on the customer services side - I work for the clie...

My wife has put our marriage in jeopardy because she's been hiding things

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2033 days ago

4 June 2019 (F) - I have been poly and pansexual since I can remember. I met my wife 4 years ago. She is also pansexual and poly, but unexperienced in the lifestyle. We have had threesomes together (all with men) in that time, and even found ourselves a boyfriend, ...

My fiance's boss seems to be crossing normal professional limits. How can she draw the line without antagonizing him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2033 days ago

2 June 2019 (M) - Hello. I have a situation. My fiance (gf of 7 years, 2 years LDR) got a new job in a multinational company a month ago which was a dream come true for her. Her job profile, work culture, everything is perfect. Here's where the problem arises. Firs...

My boyfriend is illegally in my country, wants to marry me so he can stay on and is planning our wedding which is going to happen in a week!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2033 days ago

1 June 2019 (F) - Hi everyone, I have a situation. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and he does everything for me and my kids. We first met online, he had come from a far country to visit me and he decided not to go back to his country. So now he has ...

I'm worried that my new job is danger because of 2 conniving co-workers

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2036 days ago

1 June 2019 (F) - Hey guys so I just got a new job and at my job there are two girls one of them who is my supervisor who plot against people and get them fired one of the girls has the hugest crush and I think shes sleeping with the CEO of the company and I think a ...