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Archived questions from: June, 2014 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Job interview coming up soon. Feeling stressed, worried and overwhelmed. How do I deal with this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3787 days ago

30 June 2014 (F) - I feel that I need some advice re. my stress. I have a job interview in a few hours and I feel overwhelmed with stress and worry, that I'm in tears and feeling nauseous . I don't have time to go and see a doctor at the moment. But I don't know how...

My ex boyfriend wants me to drive him to his work.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3787 days ago

30 June 2014 (F) - so me and my ex have broken up but its only been about 1 month or so... he says in a another relationship already like he has a new girlfriend... now he has been contacting me saying that he loves me even when we talk on the phone its love you... ...

I don't want to be under his mother's control.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3787 days ago

30 June 2014 (F) - Hi, I live with my husband in holland. He is from kurdistan in iraq, he is going to kurdistan because he cannot stay here any longer he wants me to go there and said we can stay there a few months and then go because I said I dont want to live ...

Why don't I get offended by insults? and why do girls seem to get over-offended?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3788 days ago

30 June 2014 (M) - I find it unusual that when people (purposely) try to insult me, or tease me, or offend me, it fails. I haven't been offended verbally by anyone I know. Or maybe a different version of offense. I got ticked when someone replied to my post a few da...

My parents are so strict I am getting teased about it!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3783 days ago

30 June 2014 (F) - OK, so I need some advice. My parents are really, really strict and I've NEVER been on a date before. Even when I hang out with friends, I'm not allowed to do it unless they drive us there and back and they're really strict on the amount of time. ...

Is my boyfriend interested in sex but just not with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3787 days ago

30 June 2014 (F) - I have been with my bf for almost 4 yr our sex hot and heavy in the beginning now its no where to be found the occasional cuddling, peck on the lips. Sex we don't talk about it, I have to ask for it and Im sick of that I am attractive and I feel ...

How do I shake this guy and stop this cycle?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3787 days ago

30 June 2014 (F) - So I met this guy at a party and I flirted with him a lot, talked to him most of the night but I didn't make out with him or anything. I think I mostly played with his hair and may have rubbed his leg a few times but I mostly kept my distance. I ...

Should I get away from her? I'm having trouble keeping my emotions at bay

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3788 days ago

30 June 2014 (M) - We've known each other for about a year now. In the beginning, I always thought she was pretty but never felt any real attraction to her, mainly because I was seeing someone else. She also said that she thought I was cute but she too was with ...

Am I wasting my time? Is he using me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3788 days ago

30 June 2014 (F) - Okay so in march I started speaking to this guy, he's really nice and stuff. Anyhow we finally met in April at a house party and one thug led to another and well - we had what you would call a 'one night stand' however afterward due to him being in ...

When ever I have sex with my husband I feel dirty!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3787 days ago

30 June 2014 (F) - I love my husband and I am attracted to him, but every time we have sex I feel dirty and cheap afterwards. We only have sex about once a month and it's lights out him on top. I still feel dirty and horrible afterwards. It's affecting our marriage, ...

My boyfriend wont take responsibility for his actions!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3788 days ago

30 June 2014 (F) - Hi all. When my boyfriend has had too much to drink he can be very argumentative, he misunderstands things I say. Last week he asked a stupid question and I gave a stupid answer, he got angry, when I tried to explain he said he never said that. Then ...

How can I overcome my jealousy and my fears that he might cheat and my insecurities?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3770 days ago

30 June 2014 (F) - Please help guys. I need to stop being so insecure all the time with my boyfriend, I'm so scared im going push him away. I just get so scared he's going to cheat on me or whatever do something. He hasn't really given me a reason to doubt him he t...

I think I'm falling out of love. What can be done to improve the situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3751 days ago

30 June 2014 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost a year now but it doesn't feel like we're dating anymore. we dont go out much, we never really did, but we would always go to each others houses and hang out have sex and chill. i keep urging him to do ...

Was I right to throw the creep out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3772 days ago

30 June 2014 (F) - When your kids hate the guy you are dating....watch out. No telling what they will do. I had been seeing a fellow for about 6 months or so, and my two girls could not stand him. He was trying to play the concerned parent part. He never lived in...

Did I make a mistake in getting with him again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3789 days ago

29 June 2014 (F) - I feel I made a mistake in getting back together Hi guys, It's early morning and I really need a place to vent. I've recently got back together with my ex. It's been a week since we've been together. I broke up with him last time ...

He didn't check up on me when I was in the hospital

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3788 days ago

29 June 2014 (F) - Hey everyone... I'm really going through a lot right now and it's hurting me. So me and my boyfriend been going out for a while now but he broke up with me because he said we have different personality, but we started talking again and tried to...

LDR issues. Do I confront her over her Ex issues ? Do I insist on seeing her to work things out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3786 days ago

29 June 2014 (F) - LDR issues.Do I confront the issues? Do I insist on seeing her next weekend? To try to work things out with her? For years I ignored the feeling in the back of my mind that I may be gay. However about 3 months ago a friend signed me up to a gay dati...

Four months of dating and he's giving me mixed signals

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3788 days ago

29 June 2014 (F) - Hello uncle and auntie's, I have posted a concern before regarding my four-month relationship with this guy. This guy and I have been together for four months and everything was going well it's just that he has and ask me to be his girlfriend. ...

My boyfriend hides couples photos of us on facebook but the ones with his ex girlfriend are there for all to see!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3789 days ago

29 June 2014 (F) - Hi there, nothing major. just a quick question. My boyfriend keeps hiding photos of us together from his facebook timeline thing. This is going to sound very petty, but I'm just a bit worried that he's embarrassed about me or somethin...

Am I crazy to want a partner who desires me and finds me attractive?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3789 days ago

29 June 2014 (F) - I have been married 16 years and have been bothered by something that may seem trivial to some people. I am aware that all people will notice other attractive people but my husband seems to have a real issue with this and I have talked to him about ...

My Dad trusts me abroad so why doesn't he extend my curfew at home?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3789 days ago

29 June 2014 (F) - I'm 21 and I live with my parents in a big expensive city in the U.S. I have a ton of loans from school that I have to start paying off in 6 months (I just graduated) so moving out of my parents place would not be a smart thing to do. I work part ...

I worry I might be too desperate!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3789 days ago

29 June 2014 (M) - So a few months ago I met this girl on an online dating website and we hit it off so quickly. Everything was perfect and we had so much fun. About a month ago, we decided to start dating exclusively and thing went ok for a while. But recently we've ...

Need opinions on situation with boyfriend and other women

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3790 days ago

29 June 2014 (F) - Boyfriend (now ex) is mad at me for reading a facebook message a girl sent me outlining her relationship with him. This girl has been stalking me online for over a year. My boyfriend is incredibly funny, family oriented, loves his mom, nice at...

Would this be classified as cheating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3790 days ago

28 June 2014 (F) - Hi everybody! Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Me and my boyfriend were together for 5 years before the relationship ended. It was mainly my fault, I was writing my university dissertation, revising for exams, working to help my parents ...

Just discovered my boyfriend lied about having a child

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3788 days ago

28 June 2014 (?) - I APOLOGIZE THIS IS LONG BUT I'M BEGGING FOR INPUT ON THE SITUATION My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months and he is an ex army militant. In our early days I noticed he had a tattoo with a female name followed by a date which whe...

My online boyfriend shouts at me and hangs up, but I am lonely without him

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3788 days ago

28 June 2014 (F) - I am in a relationship with a guy. We came to know each other through online dating website. It's been 1 year we have still not meet each other. In the initial 2-3 months he was very loving. He made me feel true love. He has been going through ...

My story: Oh dear, I just realised what a narcissistic and manipulative person my ex-boyfriend was...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3787 days ago

28 June 2014 (F) - Holy crap - it just dawned on me how much of a 'what label should I give it? - manipulative, narcissistic, controlling' - boyfriend he was to me at the time! Now I was no angel but looking back over the course of our relationship - it starts at t...

My Gf never initiates sex. Makes me feel I'm the only one who wants it. How can I encourage her to initiate sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3790 days ago

28 June 2014 (M) - For the ladies, Ive been with my babe for 4 going on 5 years and we had sex about 2 months ago and both lost our virginity to each other. Awesome! But the whole time we have been together I always (if not mostly) initiate our intimacy and as her ...

What are your opinions on this close friendship my BF has with this long term friend who's a girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3790 days ago

28 June 2014 (F) - Dear cupid, Ok so am new to this however I will appreciate the advice you guys give me. I am currently with a guy i am in love with. We celebrated our 3yrs anniversary of knowing each other earlier in June. He and I are very happy together now b...

I am primarily attracted to men who don't seem to find me attractive and it hurts. I'm well educated, articulate and curvy. What do I need to consider or do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3787 days ago

28 June 2014 (F) - Hi everyone, I'd really value your thoughts and advice on my situation. First I'll give a bit of background to give you a better picture. I'm a 24 year old black girl from London and I am primarily (but not exclusively) attracted to white ...

How do I handle this situation? My mother in law and sister in law chose to get my son's hair cut without our permission. Am I over-reacting? It will grow. It's the disrespect that irritates me

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 3788 days ago

28 June 2014 (F) - Hello Agony aunts, I have a major issue that I need advice on. My husband and I have a 2yr old son. He is currently in our hometown visiting family. My mother n law and sister n law decided to get my son hair cut( this was his 2nd cut) without...

If we break up will he give up on our daughter too? I am tired of his abuse and his behaviour

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3790 days ago

28 June 2014 (F) - I know he treats me bad but sometimes some people re abusive because they love you too much, this is my baby daddy and he is emotionally abusing me. He left me pregnant and came back when baby was 3 months blaming me for making him leave. We ...

Am I in a hopeless position re my Bf and confused? I very lonely here, my family lives overseas

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3790 days ago

28 June 2014 (F) - Being with this Muslim guy for about 4 months. Is the second time he break up with me saying that he's a bad guy and I am too "drama" for him.. But he changes his mind 10 min after and is like everything is fine.. Then he says he wants to be only...

He's lost his job and now I feel like we're over. He's cold and distant. Is this relationship over?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3789 days ago

27 June 2014 (F) - He's lost his job and now I feel like we're over? My bf was the sweetest, caring and very attentive when he had a job. But he's lost his job 6 months now and he's just so distant and cold. He hardly calls or texts me. We argue every time w...

Is this the right course for me? Disabled wife, no sex for years. Now I have a platonic female friend

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3786 days ago

27 June 2014 (M) - I am a married man with a disabled wife, and I suffer from extreme caretaker's depression because of it. Recently I ran into a divorced lady of about my age, who used to be friend of my wife's (they turned out to be very non-compatible a...

Serious relationship for 2 years. Yet he flirts. He says he doesn't want to be mean or hurt their feelings. But what about my feelings?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3790 days ago

27 June 2014 (F) - As much as I love my boyfriend I seem to have a problem with something - the way he acts with other woman. My boyfriend is what most people would call a 'natural flirt' and honestly it bothers me a lot. We live in a small town and he knows a lot ...

His lack of ambition and drive bug me, but only when I'm hormonal

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3791 days ago

27 June 2014 (F) - This probably will sound crazy but I need advice. My boyfriend and I have been together close to 5 years now. We are very similar in many ways. However, he is very, very lazy. He doesn't do anything all day when I'm not with him (we don't live ...

My mother seems to undermine me ....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3791 days ago

27 June 2014 (F) - I am finding that every time I have a telephone conversation or see my Mother I am left either slightly bewildered or depressed and down. This situation has gone on for years and I have tried lots of different approaches. She lives with my Dad ...

This married woman thinks she is a beauty queen!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3784 days ago

27 June 2014 (F) - I would like to have your opinions on this woman. She is married but because she is unhappy in her couple, she feels she can cheat her husband. Well, she thinks that she is a beauty queen even though she is not. She says that she can have any man ...

What's this woman's problem with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3791 days ago

27 June 2014 (F) - Can i ask a question here for other women please, i usually dress with jeans and a low cut top, or if am wearing a skirt i make sure my chest is fully covered, so i don't think i dress trashy at all tbh, i look around at girls my own age and are all ...

Don't give me a lecture because I am only in it for the money!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3790 days ago

27 June 2014 (F) - We dated for two years and he was a lovely person we separated because of me...i was not reliable. However his back, wants back... I dont really mind him being around because he is good to me. And doing financially badly, i wouldnt min...

I bent over backwards to make it work, but he still dumped me!

This question has 52 answers - newest was posted 3752 days ago

27 June 2014 (F) - My bf, of 4 years, and I just broke up like 20 mins ago. I saw it coming for months now. Since January nothing had been the same. He was distant, disrespectful and basically seemed to live to make me miserable. I tried to work things out for the ...

I always crush on guy who like guys, not gals!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3791 days ago

27 June 2014 (F) - I'm wondering if any straight females out there find themselves constantly being attracted to/falling in love with gay men? Right now I'm hopelessly in love with a friend of mine who happens to be gay and it's just the most hopeless situation! Where ...

I've fallen in love with my FWB and yet I still kissed his cousin!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3792 days ago

27 June 2014 (F) - An year ago, I went with my then 3 month old friend with benefits (lets call him A) on a vacation to his hometown. We were FWB but we were firstly very good friends. The whole 3 weeks when on by perfectly, lots of fun, sex, doing nothing, going da...

My boyfriend broke up with me out of the blue!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3792 days ago

26 June 2014 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for a little less than two years. We met at work and were friend for a year before getting together. I moved to another town for grad school 7 months ago, but we still see each other at least once a month and ...

My best friend showed me a picture of my boyfriend kissing another girl and he had the audacity to tell me I betrayed this relationship because I choose this "other source" over him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3791 days ago

26 June 2014 (F) - My best friend showed me a picture of my boyfriend kissing another girl. When I confronted my boyfriend he demanded who had told me. I ever gave him the name. He then told me I betrayed this relationship because I choose this "other source" over ...

I fell pregnant, he left me and now I'm having to deal with a miscarriage on my own

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3791 days ago

26 June 2014 (F) - Hi, I had been in an unstable relationship with my ex for 2 1/2 years. He cheated and lied to me god knows how many times and for whatever reasons when he promised to be a better man i always took him back. The final straw was when he turned u...

Did something die in him and he's just in it for the sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3788 days ago

26 June 2014 (F) - I apologize in advance for the lengthiness of my story. I just really need to vent as a sort of closure. Any advice or opinions would be greatly appreciated. I've been seeing a guy for the past 7 months. I know him for over a year as a former cowo...

I called off the wedding. But how do I get past the guilt if I leave him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3791 days ago

26 June 2014 (F) - I was until recently, engaged to be married. I called off the wedding because my fiancé yells a lot, is very stressed (life choices, poor planning, disorganization, plus regular stresses of job, kids, etc.), blames me and others for everything, ...

He's showing no remorse and says my insecurity is the issue. Am I over-reacting over the video?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3792 days ago

26 June 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been off and on for the past 3 years. Within the past 5 months we have finally decided to get serious. We've been living together for 3 months. In the past out relationship has majorly been unstable because of his lack of ...