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writes:I'm wondering if any straight females out there find themselves constantly being attracted to/falling in love with gay men? Right now I'm hopelessly in love with a friend of mine who happens to be gay and it's just the most hopeless situation! Where does this come from and why am I always crushing on guys who like other guys?!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2014): There's actually a name for that but I'm too lazy to look it up and it's more common than you think.
Gay men are very "safe", in general (although it's a bit of a stereotype) they're very well groomed, have an understanding and empathy with women that most straight men don't have etc.
Most of all though it's the forbidden fruit thing, you literally cannot nor ever will have them and that makes them ultra hot.
OP at the end of the day they're men, the fact they're gay doesn't make them any less appealing and in fact there are lots of ways that makes them even more appealing.
It's normal and it's fine.
You just have to treat it like any other crush and do what you have to to get rid of it.
Admit it to the guy so he can give you closure and if you have to create a bit of distance too.
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