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writes:Well, here's the thing. I know I am really attracted to guys. When I see a really hot guy, I automatically have a picture of a perfect penis in my head and if I'm near a bed, I'll hop into it and start to masturbate immediately. But lately, whenever I see a really hot girl, I see them naked too. I started searching these feelings on the internet. Well like obviously they told me I was like a lesbian, but I don't think I am. I'd rather have sex with a guy and be giving them blowjobs than licking a girls vagina. I mean I know thats not the only way but, you know?? So anyway, if I'm just in bed, sometimes I get these feelings to masturbate. If I have my computer, I look up blowjob on google a lot for images. Now a lot of the times, it's just focused in on the penis, but sometimes it's both the boy and the girl, and I get a bit distracted away from the penis to the boobs. I mean there are many times where I just close my eyes and imagine feeling another woman's boobs, but I don't want these feelings. I want to be straight. Please Help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2009): I feel ya sister
I get those random horny moments if I see a hot girl
but I mean, I have a boyfriend and he pleasures me well...
but sometimes I wonder what it'd be like to be with a girl...
I masturbate at the sight of guys and girls too
you're not alone
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2009): Don't worry, I get those feelings alot too. I think everyone does. I believe that the reason we get a feeling of pleasure from looking at other females is because: A - We subconsciously try to imagine what guys are thinking should they see that (or feel it) as usB - It is a thing of beauty to covet, We imagine being her and want to grab that body for our ownC - It reminds us of sex and corresponding pleasuresI hope that helps. If you were lesbian, I don't think those feelings would disturb you. This is natural.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2009): Don't get caught up in labels. You are a sexual human being, and get turned on by all sorts of things... leave it at that! The other people who gave advice seem to think you will grow out of it, or that you must be straight. Only you know. And if you don't know - that's fine too! There's nothing to say you can't explore different feelings you have. Just enjoy them. There's nothing wrong with looking at blowjob pics online, or thinking about girls when you masturbate etc. You are normal and whether lesbian or straight or bi or whatever mood you're in at the time, all that matters is that you realize it's OKAY.
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reader, didda123  +, writes (21 February 2009):
 I believe you are straight so don't worry too much.
You are just young and everything has not settled down with your body and hormones as yet you seem to have all the correct signs though you are finding the male body attractive so why the worry.
Many women look at the female body and in particular the boobs and can get turned on by this you are drawn to look at the boobs in the situation you have described because they are erotic to you and you know the sensation you could be feeling from that area i actually do this myself and i am totally hetrosexual.
I honestly think you have nothing to worry about so please just relax.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2009): Why do you think you're not straight? You're just fascinated with your own body. There's nothing wrong with that. Also, looking at porn confuses your thinking. And at your age, you're discovering your sexuality and how it feels. Don't worry so much, you're normal and straight.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2009): you are not a lesbian. I have these feelings aswell, its only because we are thinking about sexual things, and these sexual things make us turned on. Maybe u, like me, are imagining u are that girl, with these amzing boobs, and thinking about what the guy thinks of these, and so this turns u on. You maybe bisexual, though i dont think so, unless i am, which i am 99% sure i am not lol
I hope this helps, and tbh, although they dont like to admit it, many girls hav these same feelings too. so ur not alone girl!xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2009): Question: Why do you want to be straight?
Advice: Don't force yourself to be something you're not. Experimentation is fine. Labels are unnecessary. Live life as it's given to you.
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