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female
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30-35,
*pendy
writes:He accused me of cheating when I wasn’t.. he didn’t contact me till 2 months later he called me I told him 2 call me back because I was out.. he called me back and was asking me how my boyfriend was doing (as if I have one) I told him I don’t know. He said he's not trying to get into my knickers he was just ringing to see how I was doing and that he's got a girl and he's happy and that we can still be friends. I asked him why he didn’t contact me after we made up after the argument and he said I didn’t ring him and I wasn’t expecting him 2 do the same thing so obviously I know what that means. He said when he called me earlier I was with a guy and I could’ve told him instead. But I wasn’t with a guy. He then told me to look after myself and hung up. Am soo heartbroken it hurts so much. I was finally moving on. I was loyal to this guy, I never ever cheated on him when we were together. I don’t know why he insists that I cheated on him soo much.!! Why did he treat me this way? What did I ever to him for him to be soo cruel. Am back to the broken heart again, I was finally picking up myself and now he’s ruined it all for me all over again.. Why did he have to call me after 2 months and ask me how my boyfriend is doing and telling me he's got a girlfriend? Why would he do this? please answer thanks...x
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2009): why he kept going on about you cheating was because he was probably the one who was doing it he was accusing you to get rid of hes guilt and the reason why when he phoned you and asked how your boyfriend was because it would of been easy for him to tell you about hes girlfriend and why he phoned you because he probably realised what a idiot he was accusing you when he knew you didnt do anything wrong theres nothing wrong staying friends with him just as long as you keep it as friends cause your only get hurt again and then you can brag how good your life is and he will realise what he had missed out on. take carexxx
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reader, lodge123 +, writes (21 February 2009):
Trust me, he loves you. He probably loved you so much that he started to question himself, if he was good enough etc. He wants you, I promise you because at the moment I am so scared of losing my girlfriend to someone, even though we are madly in love. He's just really confused and I am really sure that you can make it up to him. If I was you, I would call him and tell him you love him still and wanna be with him. I bet he hasn't got a girlfriend. He just wants you to want him... and you do, so go get him!
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