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writes:I was in a twenty year relationship and was married to this man for fifteen years. I felt him drifting away just before the holidays. Friends and family were shocked when he announced that he had met an important friend, and no longer wanted to be with me. I ask that he return the house keys, pick up his personal items and told him that I would go and let him be happy. He simply said that he did not want that and hug up. I do not understand his thought process. I think that I should press the issue and move on so that I can begin to heal? He has told me that he is going in another direction and will not return to me this time. Your thoughts? Please help I am hurting.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI am still left with more quetions than answere. But Iam on the mend. I am in the process of forgiving me for allowing him to control me nad my joy. I will get pass this, be a better person, not the same however I will be someone that I like and enjoy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you Gina for your comments. Yes he has done this before. He does it around the same time over the past seven years. Each time I need his encouragement he walks. This time feels different it seems so final.
It hurts because I would have never done this to him. I do regret that I did not see that just maby he has not been content. One his health problems mounted things became strained. But I would have supported him. He seems to have issues that I am six years younger that he but it has not been a problem in the past.
Again your response touched my heart. Thank you.
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