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female
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anonymous
writes: I'm really confused. My boyfriend is really frigid. He wont kiss me unless I ask, he refuses to have sex with me and I'm always the one that hangs up last, or suggests sex, or makes the first move in anything. I've tried asking him why this is the case but he always just shrugs or says i'm just tired.I'm really confused. We have been dating for about a year now. At the start I thought maybe he just wasnt ready or was nervous but this has gone on for way to long.Is he just not into me? How can I get him to open up and feel more comfortable around me?Please Help x
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2008): Stop trying to get him to do anything... If he doesn't want to then move on. Maybe he's gay or seeing someone else. You should not have to convince your boyfriend to be intimate with you.
As a last resort...on the weekend get really sexy for him and see waht his reaction is. If he still is not moved to get it poppin then you need to get going!
Good Luck!!
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reader, saltwater +, writes (17 September 2008):
Either he is extremely shy or introverted...
...or maybe you should go and seek someone who actually deserves you and treats you how you deserve to be treated and who isn't "tired" all the time.
"refuses to have sex with me"
If that's the case and I was you, I'd be off.
Take care.
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