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writes:Is this love or convenience?I asked my gf of two years to marry me and move to a different city. She said yes after thinking about it for two days. When she announced her resignation from her employee, she was relieved that her employer wanted her to stay a full month. Subsequently she said it might turn into two months due to the time it will take to replace her. In the meantime, I am supposed to drive her belongings to the other city while she stays at her old job living in hotels. She also said she would not visit on weekends to save moneey. Is this someone who is in love or leveraging the opportunity for other reasons? Reply to this Question
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reader, sappygirl +, writes (18 September 2008):
 She already quit her job, and is moving to a different city where she doesn't know anyone. All for you and your relationship. What more do you want from a girl?
Getting married is a big step, and i didn't get your question.
"leveraging the opportunity for other reasons?" what is this suppose to mean? What opportunity is she getting out of this? How does this benefit her?
She seems very practical which is good. Either case, you guys are going to be married..which is suppose to be forever, and if you can't sit down, communicate and work on something like this, then maybe you shouldn't get married at all. Marriage is more than LOVE. it's a based a lot on communication and trust. If you don't have that, you don't have anything.
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