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writes:Hello :) erm well i'm really worried about my boyfriend. We've been going out for 10 months but he seems to be changing a lot and NOT in a good way :( The thing is, since he started college he has been very quiet with me, very sarcastic and seems completely uninterested. I'm like a year older than him so i've finished college, and i know how he feels etc, but i don't understand what i've done wrong to him :( I love him sooo much and i've tried talking to him about it but he just won't discuss any of it!! It's not the same with him anymore, whenever i say 'i love you' he ignores me sometimes, which is not like him at all :( He says i'm the love of his life yet he doesn't want to know me, and it feels like he doesn't want to be with me :( Please help! any advice would be grand :) xxx Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionaw thank you for that :) i'm just gonna try and do what he wants me to do for a while, leave him be and speak to him when he needs me :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2008): I think you should give him a bit of time, (Coming from a guy)Who knows he could be going through some rough stuff, He could be depressed or a variety of other things. I myself have Bi-polar disorder,If I'm having a bad day and don't have medication, I will honestly not feel like talking to anyone.And I will admit, I have ignored many people, And been a dickhead to my best friends and even lost a few friends because of it. I'm not saying this IS whats wrong by any means! haha, Just saying it could be a possibilityI dont think you have much to worry about, You seem like a sweet girl, keep your head up :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for the advice you two :) x
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (17 September 2008):
Tell him to knock it off if he doesn't want to lose you.
He may refuse to talk about it but if he come out and say "you are making me unhappy and I don't want to be in a relationship where I am made to feel unhappy" then he will have to come up with something.
Ask him what has changed and why he is like this.
Tell him that if he doesn't talk about it then he is going to lose you.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Soph-x +, writes (17 September 2008):
Well first of all..
maybe u neeed to spice it up a lil.. why dont u do something use havnt done before.
Stop bein so nicey nicey when u dont get nothing in return because it gives them power..
ur the woman u got more considerable feelings.. men have their moments they become in their own selfish bubble.
dont change for nowun
ask him has he beeen 100% faithful coz maybe he has sme sort of guilty conscience. .
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