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*ittle_goth_bladez
writes:Well i have a problem with a girl in my year (9) and ive liked her for 2 years and im starting to get pretty peed off with everyone because they say get over her and i cant everyday its 'get over her' i cant understand everyones hate for it but she hates me and today i was sat next to her and she was making it obvious she wanted me to hear that she was flirting with another boy i find this offensive and since i started likeing her ive been tormenting myself with dreams of going out with her dreams of killing myself over her and ive gone into a state where i cant concentrate on school my family or anything and ive been in a bad state of depression yet my friends think iys *funny* to take the mick outta me and it seems everyone hates me how did my life get like this
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reader, little_goth_bladez +, writes (18 September 2008):
little_goth_bladez is verified as being by the original poster of the questionjust to let you all know i am not gonna kill myself i thought hard about that last year and know shes rubbing the fact she has a boyfriend in my face ive started talking about it to my sisters best friend she helps soooo much but she says go somewhere calm and serene but i cant but ive startedto fall for now the girl who hates me and my sisters friend dumb luck i say how awful
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2008): It's not worth it to kill yourself, I went through a lot of that when I liked someone, but right now all you should do is concentrate on school and whats really important no girl is worth it if she's gonna treat you like that and a lot of my friends treat boys like crap so I see lots of things and you need a girl thats gonna be worth it and you need to be happy cuz depression is never the answer trust me!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2008): 1. Killing yourself is not the answer to anything!!!!
I've been depressed many times over failed realationships and unfortunately it took me years to realize that the only person in this world that should have the ablity to make me happy is me....
You are entitled to your feelings thoughts and emotions. However Be careful not to let them overcome you.
Friends sometimes can be judgemental when they're just trying to help. So don't be to hard on them but let them know to just back off a little. They'll get the point.
As for the girl...Most of the time we don't get what we want in life you have to understand that at an early age. But there's always another option. I'm sure you've seen that she's not the only girl in your school. You never know... When one door closes another one opens.
Life is too short to dwell on things that are out of our control.
My advice is study really hard and get a good education because nowadays the smart guys get all the girls :)
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