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writes: I'm in love with a guy who has a bbaby mama. She threatens him with not being able to see his baby if he leave her. He's not happy at all but he's scared to leave... I love him so much I have his name tatooed on my body and I want to become his baby mama as well as his wife, what should I do??? Please help me!!! Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2008): So this guy is living with his ex and dating you? Do you think he's giving you a line so you're his gal on the side? If he Really wants you, he'd get his own place, and get fair visitation rights for his children.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2008): Let your man know that in a court of law he has just as much right to his child as the mother unless she can prove that he is an unfit father, she has no right to keep his child away from him. He does not have to have a boyfriend girlfriend relationship with her to see his child, he can also go to the local court house and file papers that will allow him the right to have visits with his child if that's what he desires but that might spark a custody case and they can be long and brutal. Hope everything works out.
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reader, Teacake +, writes (17 November 2008):
Talk to your mother.
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reader, samsmommy +, writes (17 November 2008):
Ok well first of all the baby mama does not make the decision whether or not he sees his baby, the courts do. So just the fact that she even threatened that is ridiculous. He needs to just leave her and take her to court, and he DEFINITELY needs to mention to the judge that she made those statements. Whether he wants full custody or joint custody, telling the judge that she said that would help his case.
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