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*ikki12
writes:my partner ( now ex ) and i have been together for 6 years on and off we have finally split up for what i thought was for good and that i wanted now he has really gone and moving on i feel that i have made a massive mistake but when we were together i was so unhappy i really dont know what to do !i dont think he will come back. i think he will finally move on this time i am just so confused.help?
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (17 November 2008):
 Hi,
I carried on with a man for nearly 11 years, always hoping that things would get better, but they never did. Sometimes they were a little better, and others! really bad. I left him a couple of times, but went back when he assured me he would change (he never did).
When I finally left him for good, I broke my heart. Even though it was my choice, and I knew it was for the best, it still hurt terrible.
But I am so glad I did!! Dont waste any more time on someone that doesnt make you happy. Ever heard the saying "Flogging a dead horse".
You will get better, just give yourself some time honey. XX
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2008): It's normal to feel devastated after a break up. Everything seems so final and over, and you feel a great sense of loss and grief.But if you were unhappy in the relationship, there is no sense in going back to it. It won't get better, you will only end up spoiling whatever beautiful memories you may have. Grieve for a while, keep the memories of the relationship safe in your heart, and move on. There are many more things, people, and experiences waiting for you in life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2008): You are going to need to give us more info
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