A
male
age
51-59,
*KW
writes:OK, you guys were right. I've been a fool.My wife didn't just sleep with this guy once, she's carried on at least ten times with him. What hurts the most is - we had a deal on the table. I would forgive her her one indiscretion, and she would for give me being a total cold asshole to her. The score was 1 - 1, we were equal. All this time I'm trying hard and she wasn't giving me a chance. She carried on bumping into this guy on her nights out, she knew which clubs he would be in, and she ended up going home with him.I don't know what to do now...we have two children and a mortgage...how do people get over these things? How can I think straight enough to make a decision? If I decided to stay with her, how do marriages survive this kind of thing? Reply to this Question
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reader, benefattore  +, writes (24 November 2008):
 You don't get over it. You get a divorce and find a decent wife. She obviously doesn't love you anymore, she has zero respect for you, and could care less about her children. If I'm lying, then YOU tell ME why she'd do that to her marriage.
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