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writes:my boyfriend always falls asleep after sex, he's really good in bed, but I can't seem to orgasm while having sex and so he cums and falls asleep and I'm left frustrated and horny, what should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank u all for the help, we talked, well kinda, anyways, its all better now and I am much much much happier and no more frustration, yay.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (12 November 2008):
 You have no idea what a man who is "really good in bed" means, and you do not have one. He is average at best, and unfortunately for most women, average equals unsatisfactory. There is really nothing physically that you can do about it. He is typically clueless, and the only way he could improve as a man who knows how to please a woman is if he realizes that he is only average - and only if he wants to improve on sexual male performance, knowledge and understanding. This is not taught in high school or in college.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe always brings me to an orgasm during foreplay. Just not during sex. and latley all the foreplay is coming from me and I don't get anything in return. Could he be getting bored maybe?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2008): We've all been there! Could you start of earlier in the day? Maybe first thing in the morning?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2008): O, that's not good at all. That doesn't mean he is good in bed, he is actually very very bad in bed. tell him, that's the only way. He is being very selfish. The fact that he falls asleep after sex is normal, I do the same thing, and I am a woman. Then he should satisfy you before his orgazm.
As a boyfriend he supposed to care about your pleasure in a first place. That's a very important issue you brought up, but you have to discuss it with him, don't be shy about it.
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