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writes: My boyfriend wants to make out and do other sexual things all the time. He said he will wait until I want to do them, but then he will go and bug me about doing stuff with him. I don't like to do that kind of stuff, and I don't want to. I tried telling him, but he just doesn't get it. What do I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2008): it doesnt sound like you like him very much either. maybe you should find someone else.. someone you love&&lust.
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reader, bubbloo24  +, writes (11 November 2008):
 I had a boyfriend like this when I was 15 and I regretted losing my virginity to him plainly because I just let him do it when I didn't really want to.
Sit him down and say you feel a bit rushed and forced into things that you feel you are not ready to do. Tell him that if he doesn't stop trying to get you to do stuff, then you will have to end the relationship. Not through your own want but because you don't feel comfortable because he doesn't stop it when you've asked him.
If he has pushed things too far in the past, personally, I would end the relationship now.
I also think that if he doesn't listen to this request from you when you have so blatantly sat him down to talk to him and are clearly worried about the situation, you again, should end it.
He may well take on board what you have to say of course and make take things slow, in which case you can see how it goes etc.
Don't let him force you into anything you don't want to do, sweet. It's your body. Make a stand and don't break down.
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