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writes:I broke up with my boyfriend 2 months ago. I left him for his cousin and it wasn't working out, plus I found out that I'm pregnant and that it's most likely his child.(my ex) I want him back. Will he take me back? How can I get him back?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2007): Being pregnant is not a good enough reason for wanting the baby's father back. It's most unlikely that you'll be a happy, stable family unit and he'll probably feel trapped into it.If I were you I think I'd consider an abortion because it's a brave man who takes on another man's child and you could be left all on your own (with a baby) at the end of this. If the cousin discovers you're carrying someone else's baby he'll probably be off like a shot anyway. I know I would be!Best of luck - you're going to need it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2007): First and foremost your ex should be the last thing on your mind.
You definitely need to decide who the father is first, then what are you going to do. If he takes you back, it doesn't mean everything will be peaches and cream.
You also have to remember that you dumped him with the "grass is greener" mentality. He is done. Most men would keep on moving, especially when a relative is involved.
You need to do take the time to take care of yourself emotionally and physically. You are highly emotional at the moment and this back and forth will only confuse you more. Step back and give yourself a chance to get over the both break ups and used to being pregnant. If you're keeping the baby, which I assume you are, I would suggest you focus on this and providing good care. Your emotional and physical health is a good start for being a great mother.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (16 August 2007):
 Yikes you are in a real pickle there, missy. You better make sure you know who the father is, what if it's the cousin's baby? You can't go up to your Ex and say the baby is "most likely" his now can you? As far as getting him back you'll have to take your chances (which your current predicament indicates you take chances all the time).
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