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Archived questions from: June, 2014 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

My ex boyfriend wants me to drive him to his work.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3787 days ago

30 June 2014 (F) - so me and my ex have broken up but its only been about 1 month or so... he says in a another relationship already like he has a new girlfriend... now he has been contacting me saying that he loves me even when we talk on the phone its love you... ...

Need opinions on situation with boyfriend and other women

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3790 days ago

29 June 2014 (F) - Boyfriend (now ex) is mad at me for reading a facebook message a girl sent me outlining her relationship with him. This girl has been stalking me online for over a year. My boyfriend is incredibly funny, family oriented, loves his mom, nice at...

Lost him before I could express my feelings, what should I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3790 days ago

28 June 2014 (M) - I met this guy off of a hookup site about a year and half ago. We met up countless times over that period of time and i began to catch feelings for him. I kept them quiet because he was on dl and i wasn't sure if he as looking for a relationship. ...

My Gf never initiates sex. Makes me feel I'm the only one who wants it. How can I encourage her to initiate sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3790 days ago

28 June 2014 (M) - For the ladies, Ive been with my babe for 4 going on 5 years and we had sex about 2 months ago and both lost our virginity to each other. Awesome! But the whole time we have been together I always (if not mostly) initiate our intimacy and as her ...

He used to like me. I really like him but he has a Gf. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3791 days ago

27 June 2014 (F) - I really like this guy but he has a girlfriend. He used to like me but he hasn't given me any signals or anything! I don't know what to do anymore! I love him and I don't know if he will ever even like me. Have any suggestions?...

I've fallen in love with my FWB and yet I still kissed his cousin!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3792 days ago

27 June 2014 (F) - An year ago, I went with my then 3 month old friend with benefits (lets call him A) on a vacation to his hometown. We were FWB but we were firstly very good friends. The whole 3 weeks when on by perfectly, lots of fun, sex, doing nothing, going da...

My boyfriend broke up with me out of the blue!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3792 days ago

26 June 2014 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for a little less than two years. We met at work and were friend for a year before getting together. I moved to another town for grad school 7 months ago, but we still see each other at least once a month and ...

He brought an 18 year old home and wanted a 3some. What to do to cope with my bad feelings over this?.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3792 days ago

25 June 2014 (F) - I am dating a guy that I am crazy about, I am not what you would call a woman that has had the greatest track record with men, two divorces and several lost relationship problems in between with men and woman. Needless to say, been single for a wh...

Can we be more than friends? I think I'm stuck in the friend zone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3794 days ago

24 June 2014 (F) - I have a male friend who I am very fond of, well being truthful I am madly in love with him - but we are just friends. He was dating and has recently broken up, I have been a shoulder for him to cry on and tried to be there for him. The problem ...

Who shall I choose? My long term partner? Or the married guy from work whose wife treats him badly?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3786 days ago

23 June 2014 (F) - I've been engaged for 6 months to a man who has doted on me for the last 4 years. He literally would do absolutely anything for me. We have a wonderful life together...we always cuddle, text, call, miss each other and go travelling lots, his hous...

How do I get his attention on me rather than her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3796 days ago

22 June 2014 (F) - Hiya, Long story short I like this Boy he likes me back but when I asked him out he said no coz he didn't want a gf at moment!! So my best friend and my crush as good friends and someone said to me they should be together and not me and him and I...

I have become 'the other woman' to my ex and I don't like it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3796 days ago

22 June 2014 (F) - I'm in a situation where I'm the other woman I feel terrible and I never thought I would get into this situation. Basically my ex and I broke up about 5 months ago we have a child together. He came up to see our child and things ended up ha...

I'm dating her but my gut tells me there is something amiss with her male best friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3797 days ago

21 June 2014 (F) - I have been dating this single mum for about month now. Everything is going alright, obviously haven't let the child or anything crazy like that yet, but I have an issue. She has a male best mate, obviously this girl is bisexual, and this make be...

I can't control my jealousy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3795 days ago

21 June 2014 (F) - I am having trouble accepting how sociable my boyfriend is. He sometimes meets friends who are girls one on one for a drink, and he has a night out coming up with some friends he made at work (all girls apart from one guy) he is a very sociable ...

Her ex is my friend, they're still friends, and I'm having trouble dealing with it

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3797 days ago

20 June 2014 (M) - Curious for general perspective, and especially grateful to hear from anyone who is dating, or has dated, a guy, while you (the girl's) "ex" or old hookup buddy stayed around as friends to both sides. Assuming your new relationship is/was healthy, ...

I've been defriended on facebook and don't know what to do about it!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3799 days ago

19 June 2014 (F) - I am not sure what's happened. Between yesterday and today the only thing that's changed is I texted a group text "Hey guys, are you going to the party?" No response. Then today I find myself defriended by a person I had a connection with. Sure...

I'm tired of the tension that comes from my family not liking him, and I've kinda fallen for someone else

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3800 days ago

19 June 2014 (F) - I've been dating this guy for a year and the majority of it has been long distance relationship. I love him so much and his family is awesome and so sweet and they love me. my family however does not like him and feels he doesn't treat me right, he ...

Are there rules for people when they start dating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3801 days ago

17 June 2014 (F) - Hi there. I'm in my first relationship and I was wondering if there are rules about what is acceptable with friends of the opposite sex when you're in a relationship. Like can you meet up one on one but only if it's in public or something? Is any ...

Should I be worried about my boyfriends female friend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3802 days ago

16 June 2014 (F) - So about two months ago my boyfriend (and his brother) met this girl in his degree. I know he tried to set her up with his brother, but it never came to anything. Anyway I guess they see each other around, they're Facebook friends and she has his ...

She hasn't called me for three weeks, does she hate me now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3804 days ago

14 June 2014 (?) - iam having a sad love life.it all started when my age was 18 and my girlfriend age was 14.not we have crossed two and half years of our love life.at first everything was going fine,but when i finished my school life,i had selected a college,faraway ...

Should I try consoling her or should I let her get through her grieving alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3804 days ago

14 June 2014 (M) - My friend (ex crush) have been down in the dumps lately. It wasn't until recently that I found out she broke up with her boyfriend. I confessed to her my feelings a few months back but she said that she only saw us as friends. It was difficult at ...

My last relationship was an open relationship but my reputation in my small town is ruining my chances in my current relationship with an amazing girl

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3805 days ago

13 June 2014 (M) - My last relationship was an open relationship, we had one night a week that was open to other, we tried swinging, and had more then one threesome, it started out fun and exciting but quickly turned bad. Living in a small town people know your bus...

My girlfriend is on exchange and has become close to a male friend. Am I being oversensitive?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3806 days ago

12 June 2014 (M) - Hi guys, just a question about a girlfriend on exchange. My girlfriend and I have been in a relationship for 3 years, and while we've had rocky moments, we've been fairly stable all along. Recently though, she went on exchange for 6 months wi...

The new guy that I can't trust, or the old guy who hit me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3796 days ago

12 June 2014 (F) - i had a bf whose name was Rahul of 4.5 years with whom i was sexually involved.he used to love me a lot but we broke up because he had hit me physically four times and used to abuse a lot.then i found a new guy whose name is Ajay,he is very caring ...

Should I stay in contact with the guy I have a crush on in case things go wrong with my current partner?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3808 days ago

10 June 2014 (F) - My age is 28 years old. I have a partner; we have been living together for a few years. However we have relationship problems and family tensions; and we have given ourselves a one year deadline to sort out our problem. This has been discussed by ...

My wife is leaving me for another man! How best to be a good father to my son during the impending divorce?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3807 days ago

10 June 2014 (M) - I am 32, and my wife's 29, and have a 5-year-old son. Last night she admitted to me she's leaving me for her co-worker, he's 42, and has three children, aged 12, 14 and 16, he's married but left his wife for her. I feel crushed, heartbroken, my ...

Am I wasting my time with this girl?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3808 days ago

10 June 2014 (M) - So there's this girl that I like and I've taken her out a couple of times now and just when things were looking up, she goes camping with her friends and sleeps with another guy when she was drunk. The next day this guy texts her saying he really ...

My lesbian girlfriend of 4 years had unprotected sex with a guy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3808 days ago

10 June 2014 (F) - My girlfriend and I have been together for four years (since she was 17 and I was 18). We have been through a lot together and it's been a rocky relationship to say the least. Her family is extremely religious but they have started to come around, ...

Fell in love with a guy at school, but we both have significant others

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3798 days ago

9 June 2014 (F) - Am a varsity student.When I came to university,I met guy and fell in love with him.The problem is that I have a boyfriend back home(whom I have fallen out of love with him) and this guy I fell inlove with has a girlfriend back home too.So I don't ...

He wants proof I am telling the truth or he'll take the kids from me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3810 days ago

8 June 2014 (F) - OK so I've been with my boyfriend for 9 years and we have 2 kids. I went through a massive depression stage and I completely lost myself. I was drinking heavily. Well I was staying at his family's home in a different city while he stayed at his ...

I have a girlfriend and a crush

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3810 days ago

7 June 2014 (M) - Hi reader. I'm in a situation that I would like to ask advice about. I will keep it simple. I have a girlfriend. Been together for 1.5 years. I also have a major crush with another girl at work. I don't know what to do. The crush won't go I have ...

How wrong was I? Was she wrong? And is it healthy for someone to move on that fast?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3808 days ago

5 June 2014 (M) - So this girl I dated for 2 years her and I broke up like 3 weeks ago. Before we broke up I was a real jerk to her for example when she would ask me a question I would answer it like I didn't care. I didn't do anything that bad I would never cheat on ...

I need help to process this. My husband had oral sex with the daughter of his ex:

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3809 days ago

5 June 2014 (F) - I have been married for 3 years and have been having this issue his his ex girlfriend and her daughter. When we got together he was living with her and her daughter and they have been together for 16 years. They had an open relationship to a cert...

Is he treating his friend unfairly now that we are back together?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3813 days ago

5 June 2014 (F) - Hi everybody, I'm not sure If I have a question or whether I would just value your views on this matter. Me and my boyfriend got together at 18 and have been together just under 5 years. Back last October our circumstances changed drastica...

I know I should just suck it up, but I am JEALOUS!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3813 days ago

5 June 2014 (F) - Hi there, I have come here to get feedback on what really is just me being silly, but I can't seem to help it. I'm 21 years old and my boyfriend is 22. We're both postgraduate university students. We've been together for two years and during that ...

Friend with benefits has an ex visiting from overseas and told me not to contact him or visit him while she's here! What should I do?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3814 days ago

4 June 2014 (F) - I have been seeing and sleeping with a man for just over 9 months now. Just out of the blue, he told me his ex from the USA is coming over to stay with him for a month. First he said it was without warning, and then his story changed, saying it was ...

I have lost a good friend in favour of my relationship. How can I make both people happy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3814 days ago

4 June 2014 (F) - I have a problem which is eating me up so I really need some advice as I don't like turning to those around me. I have an amazing, gorgeous, hilarious boyfriend. We're different, but we work. I love him, completely, and although he tries to hide it,...

Should I keep him as a friend? Why did he tell me he had sex with her? Should I have a relationship with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3815 days ago

2 June 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have feelings for this guy. We've been friends for years and his gf and him are on a break because she had to go to uni for 9 mnths now. We have been spending time together as friends. I have visited his apartment. We kissed and...

My "best friend" intervened behind my back. My Bf believed her lies. How can I get him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3816 days ago

2 June 2014 (F) - My best friend broke me and my boyfriend up because she was jealous of our relationship. We had dated for a while and we were happy and everyone knew it. I was his first real and his longest relationship. I was also the first girl he really l...

How / Where do I begin asking questions about his past?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3813 days ago

2 June 2014 (?) - I am a school teacher that recently moved to China for employment, and have a boyfriend living in the USA that is ten years older than I am. We have been dating for one year, and he has a lot of baggage. He has two children from his marriage and ...