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writes:Am a varsity student.When I came to university,I met guy and fell in love with him.The problem is that I have a boyfriend back home(whom I have fallen out of love with him) and this guy I fell inlove with has a girlfriend back home too.So I don't know what to do,should I leave the guy back home or both of them?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2014): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you,you have helped a lot.I have decided to break things off with the guy at home,no use keeping him whilst I don't love him.With this guy here with me,I don't wanna dump him,I soo love him but I decided to take a break in our relationship.
Thanks to you and your advice
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2014): Well, at the moment University-Guy ISN'T really available to you as he already has a girlfriend so don't dump Home-Guy for University Guy. Dump Home-Guy because you no longer love him and don't want to be with him anymore.
Don't have anything more to do with University Guy unless he dumps his g/f. Don't be his "affair" or "friend-with-benefits"
And don't expect him to dump his g/f just because you've dumped you b/f.
My advice - neither guy. But I'm aware it's a tough call.
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reader, petina1  +, writes (9 June 2014):
 Under no circumstances have both of them. Someone will end up getting hurt in the long run and I can promise you, it will be you. Let the guy back home go free. You aren't doing him any favours hanging on to him for the sake of it. Find out if the uni guy likes you enough to fall out with his g/f back home for you. If he cant let her go, then look for someone else. Hope this helps.
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