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Archived questions from: December, 2008 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

My girlfriend is in love with her ex

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

31 December 2008 (M) - Alright, here's what's going on... My GF and I have been going out for a while now, and she just told me that shes still in love with one of her ex's and she cant be with him (he lives far away) I asked her this morning if she still loves him and ...

Help! I'm stuck between 2 guys!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5795 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - My problem is very long, I apologise in advance. Basicaly I'm stuck between 2 guys. Guy A I met about a year and a half ago, when I was 14 (and so was he). After a while, about the end of august, we decided to go out. As most couples are at 14, thin...

Considering going to a swingers club for my husband... is it a stupid idea?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5795 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - Confused, been with my boyfriend for 3yrs off and on and he's been tryin to get me to meet a girl to have a 3 sum.he said it's his fantasy and that I should try it cuz maybe I will like it. I've never experienced it before and from me hearing it so ...

She proposed to him over the internet and they haven't even met yet!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5796 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - My ex boyfriend has meet this girl on the internet, well dating site, they started going out the day they started talking she asked him, anyway she seems madley in love with him, talking about moving down to where we live, she lives in Scotland, we ...

Myboyfriend is living with his ex, its killing me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - Hi, I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for approx 20 months. I love him very much and we get on really well. However, I am really struggling as he lives with his ex (they have lived together for 20 years now). I trust him and am ...

Do you believe in trusting gut instincts? I predict an affair!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5767 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I went to see his long lost sister who brought one of her friends, let's call her susan (who is married and has kids), but I couldn't help but get this feeling that something will happen between my boyfriend and this Susan. I have ...

Not in love with my wife and having an affair but can't leave because of my kids.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

30 December 2008 (M) - I have been having an affair with someone for 3 years. I have two children aged 7 and 5. I am not in love with my wife any more. I want more than anything to live with the girl I am having the affair with because I am in love with her but I don't ...

What do I have to do so he realizes that she is not meant for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5797 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - So the first day of class this semester, i got my eye on this one really cute guy. I guess he noticed, because that weekend he started texting me. He got my number from one of his friends that i was good friends with. We texted that whole weekend, ...

Do I stay with her or do I run?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

29 December 2008 (M) - There's this amazing girl, mind blowing girl that I have fallen for. I was her first love and she was mine, without going into detail, she now has a boyfriend who she loves and I'm back out of the blue. She has admitted that she loves me and can...

I am afraid I have ruined my marriage with this affair, what to do?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3265 days ago

29 December 2008 (?) - Hello Cupids I apologize in advance as this may get a bit long, and any advice is welcome so please do reply if you have any thoughts. I will try to keep it clear and organized but my head is a mess so sorry if this story seems messy too. I ...

He talks about having sex with me. Is that all he wants?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5797 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - dumped my ex because I wanted things my way and got angry when he didn't do what l wanted. l realized my mistake and apologized.I told him l wanted him back.he told me he had moved on and is now dating an ex of his-said I am the one who pushed h...

I have to choose between two guys!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5797 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - Hello, I need some help and advice. I have to decide between two men and I just dont know what to do. One is my ex. We dated for almost a year, and I know that is a short time but we had chemistry and nobody like him ever made me feel like ...

Why did I ever let myself be fooled with flattery etc?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5798 days ago

28 December 2008 (M) - I have been with my partner for the past 4 years. We have 2 children and another due in 6 months time. A few weeks ago at the beginning of december, I was at the usual office party and a co worker came on to me strong and told me she was crazy ...

I love my wife but not in love any more... plus another relationship, what to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

28 December 2008 (M) - I've been married just short of 3 years to what works out to really be my high school sweetheart. She is a wonderful person and loves me very much. I also love her but after 15 years of being together 3 married and 12 dating on and off I don't think ...

He is a Flirt: how to make him stop?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5798 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - I am concerned with my boyfriends flirting. I have never questioned him until now (6 months into the relationship). I recieved a forward from HIS myspace to a girl. And was one line that made me happy and several that just had me heart broken. ...

My husband is a crossdresser, I dislike this and suspect he is gay, any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - I need any advice I can get, I realize my situation isn't the norm so it really doesn't matter if you've had personal experience just tell me how you would handle my relationship? I'll try to make my very long story short and to the point but it m...

I am torn between two men...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3543 days ago

27 December 2008 (F) - I am torn between two men. The back stories are so incredibly deep that I will give just the basics. First guy: The man I'm currently with. We've been off and on for 8 years, but currently living together. We have been getting along great. He ...

He's leaving on an internship. Should I trust him living with another girl?

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27 December 2008 (F) - Alright, so my guy and I have been dating for almost 2 years and this summer he is going away for an internship for two and a half months. Last summer he had to go away for a week for an orientation for this internship, while there he made a lot of ...

I don't know what to do so that the whole family stays together...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5799 days ago

27 December 2008 (F) - hello everyone! i need ur help on this. Wednesday is new year's eve and im in a tough situation: a very long story short, my father is cheating on my mother, we all know that, she even know it and decided to stay for me and my sister. where i live e...

I'm not sure if I like Sophie or not, I'm confused, any help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5799 days ago

27 December 2008 (M) - hello everyone, im scott, and sorry if this takes long, but ive made one big mistake, I have a 3 yr old with my ex we where together for 5 years, well we split in jan this year, i then started going out with this really nice girl sophie my whole fa...

Is my imagination playing tricks on me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5797 days ago

27 December 2008 (F) - I have a crush on a guy, and recently found out he feels the same, however i am currently seeing someone. He knows i am seeing someone, and is leaving me to sort out what i want. Thing is, i have been with my guy for over a year, and still can no...

Was the other guy a rebound guy for her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5800 days ago

26 December 2008 (M) - Don't really know what to do here. A girl and I had been getting close for 2 months but were never official. She had slept with the same guy 5 different times during the 2 months and finally got caught. She came to me crying saying that she ...

He loves her, he loves her not...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5802 days ago

25 December 2008 (F) - He loves her, he loves her not... Hi, I'm female separated from my husband for more than 3 years. I met a wonderful man who encouraged me and gave me my self-confidence back and now i'm going to go through divorce proceedings which is time co...

Me and my boyfriend have been talking about having a threesome.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5801 days ago

25 December 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been talking about having a threesome. neither one of us know where to start. Any suggestions on where we can we go and find a person (female) that will be willing to join our threesome? We live in Boston....

I'm in love with 2 men - my hubby and a single womanizer who pursues me mightily.

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5794 days ago

25 December 2008 (F) - I'm in love with 2 men - my hubby and a single womanizer who pursues me mightily. Hubby has a low libido, womanizer is older but has an enormous libido. I've always known the womanizer would find someone else, and looked forward to that day. ...

In love with brothers, and stuck in a mess!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5802 days ago

24 December 2008 (F) - Hey I met a guy 6 months ago, our feelings grew quickly towards each other and we fell in love although we couldn't be together due to us being long distance. We keep in touch and plan to be together next year as intense as this sounds i...

In a very complicated situation with a friend, his girlfriend and a crush!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5803 days ago

24 December 2008 (F) - Ok, well i really need some advice to a complicated situation! Well theres this guy who i met last year. Me and him became really close and we became bestfriends. In the beginning i liked him but he had a girlfriend. After awhile i just kind of ...

Another girl: she lives far away so should I be concerned?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5800 days ago

24 December 2008 (F) - my boyfriend just recently went on a cruise with his family. while he was on the cruise he met a girl that he was interested in and spent some time with while he was there. she gave him her phone number and e-mail and i found out about it when he ...

Are there any support groups for females like me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5802 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - my husband and i are thinking about including another female in our relationship. is there anyone that this has worked for? every thing i have ever heard or read the husband leaves the wife for the new female. also are there any support groups for ...

How can I advice my friend? I fear this girl is playing with him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5803 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - i have a friend who got involved with the ex girlfriend of the guy that stole his girlfriend.as complicated as this is.i think he loves this girl.but now that other guy wants her back because they have child together. instead of this girl tell...

Apart for 12 years, still a great relationship but now he has baggage, do I wait for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5802 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - Hello all, I need help determining what I should do about this man. We were together about 12 years ago when we were both in our teens. The relationship then was fun, passionate, spontaneous, and all other things that kept a smile on my face. Its ...

My husband wont give up either his mistress or me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

22 December 2008 (F) - My husband and I got married at an early age. We have 5 siblings. My husband is a good provider the only problem with him is he has another woman with kid already. I;m trying to talk to him to settle his problem. I asked him too choose whether I or ...

Confused - Pregnant wife, in love with another?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5804 days ago

22 December 2008 (?) - My wife is pregnant after many years of trying (together over 10 years). We have not been getting on for some time, but tried to work through the issues and kept trying to get pregnant.... This year one of my close female friends and I admitted our ...

Threesome Question: will he fall for her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5805 days ago

22 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend wants to have a threesome, and I am completely for the idea- it sounds like fun, and I've always been down for it. I love him, he loves me, and we both want this. The problem is who to have it with. He wants to get a friend of his ...

Should I be concerned that he doesn't like me any more, or that he just doesn't want to be with me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5801 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - The guy I'm seeing, went shopping with this girl who is in fact going with another girl, but when they got back from shopping she tried it on with him, he said that nothing happened and all that did happen was that she just sat on him, apparently ...

Had sex with ex now wondering if it was wrong

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5805 days ago

21 December 2008 (M) - friday nite i had a friend of mine round, she used to be my girlfriend but i dumped her, anyway we ended up having sex and after she stayed for an hour, we where on my computer both looking at it laying on are bellies and just talking, then all of a ...

I got emotionally attached and now I feel hurt and used!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5800 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - So i met a guy who has a girlfriend who is about 3 months pregnant. He started calling me alot always wanting to hang out. I hung out with him a few times and he was always trying to kiss me but i wouldent let him. I was not attracted to him and i ...

How do I move on from being in love with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5806 days ago

20 December 2008 (F) - This is the first time ive done this so please bare with me. Im 27 yrs old, im currently married, have been for 6 and a half years and i have 2 kids. For a little over a year my husband and I have had our ups and downs and I suffer from depression. ...

Girlfriend or the ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5806 days ago

20 December 2008 (M) - I need help, I'm stuck between my girlfriend and my ex. Me and my girlfriend have been arguing non stop for months on end and its just getting worse and worse but i still love her a bit, but me and my ex have been talking recently and she said ...

How to tell your ex you still love him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5806 days ago

20 December 2008 (F) - Hi, I posted a Q earlier about what to do about my ex. An idea was to just tell him how I feel, but I’m not sure how to. Just briefly what happened, was that I broke up with my bf 2 months ago (been together for nearly 2 years). I thought it would ...

My ex has a new girlfriend but still wants to sleep with me! Does he really care for her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4511 days ago

20 December 2008 (F) - I recently just got out of a 7 year relationship with my boyfriend. I cheated on my boyfriend with a co-worker of mine and he ended our relationship. Its been 6 months since our relationship ended and he is currantly in a new relationship. He got ...

Am I right that a threesome could ruin our relationship?

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20 December 2008 (F) - The man I see regularly (kind of date) has told me that he enjoys threesomes and wants me to join him and an old girlfriend he has.. I said no (even though Im tempted). I always been against that sort of thing. I keep on avoiding the subject.. I ...

Local guy verses far away guy...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5794 days ago

19 December 2008 (F) - hey. It's one of these questions again... There's this guy who lives around about 160 miles away from me. We met on holiday and really liked each other. We have been friends for over 2 years and I have really come to like him a lot, so much so ...

I felt hurt and humiliated - is it normal to think that my marriage could be in trouble?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5807 days ago

19 December 2008 (F) - I would like to know if I'm just being over sensitive or would you also feel real hurt if it's your birthday and you invite a couple of your close friends to have dinner with you and one of your husband's female collegues was also invited and he ...

Break up for school and having feelings for someone else.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5720 days ago

18 December 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years now and it's been a good relationship but the problem is he wants to break-up because school is coming up and he wants to focus on it so he wants to have a break till his school is finished which is ...

How can I stop thinking about my coworker, when I like her more and more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5808 days ago

18 December 2008 (M) - hi, well where to start. i really like this girl at work, and i'm not sure if likes me back. we are quite good friends, flirt around, etc. however, i don't really want anything to happen between us because i'm very busy all the time at work, an...

I never have the chance to talk to my girlfriend in private because of her friends!...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5808 days ago

18 December 2008 (M) - Hello I'm a 23 years old guy with a big problem well at least to me ! .. here is the whole story .. i used to go to some uni where i met this amazing beautiful girl whom i liked and loved but the problem is .. she's always with her friends .. our ...

I saw the text, I heard the lies, someone help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5808 days ago

18 December 2008 (F) - I guess it is my turn to have a question answered. The following text between my boyfriend and his ex.. HIM - you coming home tonight or tomorrow just wondering cuz i don't remember HER - Tonight! On the road now! Him - Cool drive safe ro...

Do I leave her? Do I fight for her? Am I just lonely and find our relationship comforting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5808 days ago

17 December 2008 (M) - I am a married man of 11 years with two children under 9 years. My wife and I are on the verge of a divorce and are waiting until after the holidays and figuring out the logistics of the house, finaces and child care. Nine months ago I met a younger ...

Should I go for a ride and kiss my friend or stay with my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5809 days ago

16 December 2008 (F) - Hiya, I have been with my boyfriend for over 6 months now. At the beginning of the relationship it was like the rush of something new and the heart beating fast and everything, now its just like he is there when i need him whilst i concentr...