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*mbrellacorp
writes:I need help, I'm stuck between my girlfriend and my ex. Me and my girlfriend have been arguing non stop for months on end and its just getting worse and worse but i still love her a bit, but me and my ex have been talking recently and she said maybe we should give it another go, and i really want to but I don't know which one to choose, i like them both but my gf argues with me constantly about stupid little things and then it turns serious and we dont talk for weeks on end, please help people.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2008): the ex is an ex for a reason,she dumped you because she choose to believe someone else instead of you,stay with your girlfriend and try to work things out
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reader, umbrellacorp +, writes (20 December 2008):
umbrellacorp is verified as being by the original poster of the question Sorry forgot to add why she dumped me, me so called mate told her loads of shit and she believed it but she came round and found out the truth, I was a good boyfriend.
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reader, Bliz  +, writes (20 December 2008):
Hey stuck-in-the-middle,I would suggest a third option of a time out. Things sound like they are getting a bit intense, and you seem like you are unsure which option to take.Take a breather and think about it. After that time, I'd say your options are:1) working things out with your current girlfriend. You say you still love her a bit. Should that fail (or should you be unhappy with her), try option 22) breaking up with your current girlfriend (in a stand-up and respectable way). Then taking more time to yourself. Do not rush into a relationship with your ex, it will undoubtedly hurt your girlfriend (insult to injury), and likely hurt you (after all, you and your ex broke up for a reason), or for that matter, your ex. I can't say much on your ex, because I don't know why you two broke up, but maybe your best option is to keep in touch, but only if you can do so as friends. If things are right with you two later, then by all means get back together. But, to repeat, do not get involved with her right away!Hope that helps,Bliz
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reader, Bliz +, writes (20 December 2008):
Hey stuck-in-the-middle,
I would suggest a third option of a time out. Things sound like they are getting a bit intense, and you seem like you are unsure which option to take.
Take a breather and think about it. After that time, I'd say your options are:
1) working things out with your current girlfriend. You say you still love her a bit. Should that fail (or should you be unhappy with her), try option 2
2) breaking up with your current girlfriend (in a stand-up and respectable way). Then taking more time to yourself. Do not rush into a relationship with your ex, it will undoubtedly hurt your girlfriend (insult to injury), and likely hurt you (after all, you and your ex broke up for a reason), or for that matter, your ex.
I can't say much on your ex, because I don't know why you two broke up, but maybe your best option is to keep in touch, but only if you can do so as friends. If things are right with you two later, then by all means get back together. But, to repeat, do not get involved with her right away!
Hope that helps,
Bliz
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