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writes:He loves her, he loves her not...Hi, I'm female separated from my husband for more than 3 years. I met a wonderful man who encouraged me and gave me my self-confidence back and now i'm going to go through divorce proceedings which is time consuming because my husband refuses to agree to a divorce.The man I met stays very far away and we communicate by the online messengers, calls and email.recently he acquired an admirer who works in the same place as him and has shown great initiative to go out with him. Initially it was in a group but lately she has been asking him out on personal meetings and outings. He is also lonely as he has not so many friends where he is. He told me about her and how he felt that she was very interested in him. Since I'm not "available", it wasn't up to me to demand anything from him. He goes out with her but always tells me that he wished he were with me instead of her. He says to me, even without me asking that he has absolutely no interest in her whatsoever. the wierd thing to me is : if he isn't so interested, why encourage her? Any ideas?Anony
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (25 December 2008):
He's going out with her because he is there and he has no real reason not to.
You may not be divorced yet but I think you should tell him how you feel about him.
Tell him if you want to be with him. I am sure he understands that your marriage is meaningless at this point.
Good Luck!! xx
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