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Archived questions from: October, 2016 (see latest in Teenage category)

Teenage: Help and advice

Like the attention but hate the thought

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2970 days ago

31 October 2016 (F) - So im 18 years old ive been working in a restaurant for the last 2 years. Recently we got a new chef a married man with 3 kids , he's lovely and very easy to get on with ?however he is very flirtacious and tends to make a lot of sexual comments for ...

Why is he paying child support to his ex if their laszy 17 year old daughter is living with us?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2973 days ago

31 October 2016 (F) - I'm back again for more advice. A little update on my last situation because this kind of involved it. I am still with my fiance, although the wedding date is no longer may 2017. I felt like we have issues that need worked out before that happens. A ...

Boyfriend's parents disapprove but mine don't!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2970 days ago

31 October 2016 (F) - I just moved to America a few months ago and soon after met a boy I really really like. We started dating and just recently hit the 6 month mark. The problem is his parents. His parents a originally from Korea and are very traditional. Since he...

I want to dump him but don't want to hurt him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2974 days ago

30 October 2016 (F) - I go out with this boy and he loves me so much and I don't want to hurt him, but I don't love him as much. I want to dump him but I'm afraid that he will hate me and possibly regret ever going out with me. Any advice?...

I gave him my number, he hasn't called and I can't call him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2974 days ago

29 October 2016 (F) - I met a boy when we were both on holiday and I gave him my number. We were in a place with no mobile signal and no wifi so he promised to text/call me when he got home. I know that he got home 5 days ago and he still hasn't got in contact with me. I ...

What's up with this man? Why does he try to look good when I'm around?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2975 days ago

29 October 2016 (F) - Hello there! 3 years ago, a male in his early twenties was hired in my school as an teacher. I met him because he became an assistant moderator for the club I went to. During the first year, we treated each other as friends... but in the second year ...

First time sex wasn't good for my g/f and I want to help next time be better

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2975 days ago

28 October 2016 (M) - My gf and I attempted sex for the first time… and it was a little rockier a process than we had initially anticipated! When i tried to go in, it wouldn’t go in past the tip. In addition my gf was not getting to feel it that much. I felt really ...

I broke up with my ex, like a new girl but don't know if I should date her because it would ruin any future my ex and I might have

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2976 days ago

28 October 2016 (M) - I'm 18 and in my first year at uni. Me and my long term (1 year and 3 months) girlfriend moved to different areas of the country for uni (about 1hour 30mins by car apart) and due to a number of reasons (including distance, lack of time for each ...

Trust ring--what should I have engraved on it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2965 days ago

27 October 2016 (F) - I lied to my boyfriend, and I made many mistakes. I'm getting him a promise ring and I want it to make up for all of that, to show him he can trust me and I won't ever make the same mistakes again. What should be engraved on the ring? ...

I'd like to get to know this girl better but I'm unsure how to do this

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2976 days ago

27 October 2016 (M) - I'm a guy, sophomore in high school, and took this girl to the homecoming dance. I asked her the night before just kind of randomly but she agreed to go so we went out to dinner and had fun at the dance. We spent the whole time there together and we ...

I want to date him but I'm almost 18 and he's 9 years older

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2977 days ago

24 October 2016 (F) - Hi I'm a 17 year old female (18 in November) from the UK. I have a male "friend" who I want to date but he's 9 years and five months older than me, he knows I like him and feels the same way. He feels guilty about his feelings for me and is ...

Is she into me? I just can't tell?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2977 days ago

24 October 2016 (M) - Ok so there's this girl at school she's gorgeous, tries hard at school, works at the animal shelter, she's super nice, everything she does is just adorable, she's also really quiet and shy, she's the definition of an introvert. We're like opposites ...

Dating but can't hang out. We text and he gives me butterflies. Why is this happening?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2977 days ago

23 October 2016 (F) - I have been dating this guy who ive know most of my life for about 3 months and were both 15.. The relationship is going good but we never can hang out because im busy and my parents wouldnt allow me. weve met a couple of times while at a mutuals ...

Why is my dad so hard on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2982 days ago

22 October 2016 (F) - Hello :) Recently I moved to another country to take up a different course for university. And well my parents left 2 weeks after my course started and well the first week my dad called me everyday and as time went by I had a lot of work and I wa...

How do you turn foreplay into sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2983 days ago

21 October 2016 (F) - My bf and I are going to have sex and wanna make sure it goes smoothly .what all happens in foreplay? How long does it last how do you turn foreplay into sex??...

What's the best way to tidy up down there?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2985 days ago

17 October 2016 (F) - Im worried i have too much hair down there that when my boyfriend sees it hes going to be put off. Im quite young but im getting to that stage in my relationship, i dont care for your judgement about my age, where my boyfriend is touching me. But ...

I saw her first!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2986 days ago

17 October 2016 (M) - I'm so pathetic. Here's why. No better place to begin from, well, the beginning, so I'll start there. I've lived in the same town all my life. For the sake of anonymity, we'll call it Hopetown. (Try and stalk me if you want to, that's not the real...

Is it OK to have feelings for a second cousin?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2987 days ago

16 October 2016 (M) - Okay, so I'm at the age of 19 and I have found myself falling for my family member named Rachel. She is not far behind me in age, in fact, less than a year younger. We both attend the same church, a Pentecostal church and she happens to be my second ...

I can't approach him andask if he wants me as bad as I want him...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2987 days ago

15 October 2016 (F) - Hi agony aunts. I feel like I'm getting mixed signals from this guy and i dont know what to think or do. I'll list the things he does just to make it clearer: -always really flirtatious, compliments me etc -genuinely laughs when we talk, like not o...

How do I make the first time a good time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2990 days ago

13 October 2016 (M) - Me and my girlfriend are planning on doing it and i want to make it as good for her as it would be for me. I heard that it hurts like realllly bad so i just want to know if there's anything that would help it feel better if not almost completely ...

My boyfriend cant make up his mind!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2992 days ago

12 October 2016 (F) - Me and my ex broke up about 5 months ago. A month after we broke up he went out with one of our mutual friends and of course that bothered me but I just kept telling myself if they are happy then I'm happy. A month into that relationship they broke ...

Why should we wait when we want to married now?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2992 days ago

12 October 2016 (M) - I met my girlfriend when we were both in grade 3. We have been. Friends every since and started dating when we were 16. I recently proposed to her and she said yes but we have gotten many mixed responses from family and friends. I did ask her ...

How do I know if she wants me to touch her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2993 days ago

11 October 2016 (M) - while i was sitting on her bed. I could feel her breast on my leg while she laying down, she didn't even move. She is like 36a for her breast size. Next she putted her breast on my shoulder, when she hugged me from behind. I must admit it felt ...

How can keep him interested in me and not compare me to the others he was with ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2994 days ago

10 October 2016 (F) - I've been dating my bf for 5 months. He is 19 and I'm 16. I'm still a button and he has been really patient with me. He isn't a virgin, he's the total opposite. He has had sex with 11 different girls, 3 of those girls would hook ups at parties. He ...

Does this guy just want to hook up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2979 days ago

9 October 2016 (F) - I like this guy (A) but I'm a little confused about his feelings for me and whether or not I've blown it with him. Throughout the last year we'd shared a bed many times but never slept together just spooned. A couple months ago we went on holiday ...

I can't pronounce my boyfriends name right

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2995 days ago

9 October 2016 (F) - My boyfriend is Mexican but speaks English very well and he has a name that rolls an 'r' and I am absolutely shocking at Spanish and rolling 'r's. I can't pronounce his name right!! So I say it the way every other person says it, without an accent, ...

It seems like the right time but I'm scared

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2997 days ago

7 October 2016 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for a while and i love him a lot and i really want to have sex, and im sure he does too.. but im so nervous and i don’t have a lot of confidence. So i need help.. how can i be more confident of my body??...

How can I ensure, if I see the Doctor, that the Doctor will not tell my mother that I took a morning after pill?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2993 days ago

7 October 2016 (F) - Basically I took the morning after pill a couple of days ago, I went to boots and spoke to the woman there, getting the pill for free, the woman asked if I had a GP and I said yes but she didn't ask for my Gps details she just took my basic ...

Should I tell my b/f I don't like his haircut?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2997 days ago

7 October 2016 (F) - My boyfriend got a TERRIBLE haircut, it looks ridiculous and I'm not tying to be mean but it's the worst haircut I've ever seen. I didn't tell him I think that either. He doesn't really like it either but he's trying to grow a man bun, and I ...

Losing V card in a hookup good idea?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 2978 days ago

4 October 2016 (F) - I've been considering this a lot...I was thinking a hookup would be a good idea. I like the idea because I don't want to be romantic with the guy or see him again. BUT everyone says it's a horrible idea to have a hookup to lose your V card and you ...

Why am I never enough for boys , please read!! need advice

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2997 days ago

4 October 2016 (F) - Hi, my story is lengthy however I need advice seeing as I constantly am allowing myself to be in situations where I feel less of myself. I am 19 years old and I was never a huge relationship girl in high school because i valued relationships and ...

How do I make my cousin love me back?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 2901 days ago

3 October 2016 (M) - Hey guys and girls im 14 year old and im 9th grade i love my girl cousin and she lives in another country so only 3 times i saw her 2006 2011 2016 so this year i loved her so much and we had really really good times but she went to her country back ...

I can't date my co-worker but I think he likes me too. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3000 days ago

2 October 2016 (F) - I've been working at my retail job for almost 2 years, I am extremely close with everyone who works there and love going to work. Over the summer me and a group of people hung out a lot and this one guy in particular (lets name him T) started ...

My mother was ok with my brother's Gf visiting but she is not as welcoming towards my Bf. Why would my mother react this way?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2999 days ago

2 October 2016 (F) - I'm 13 with a 14 year old boyfriend who's parents are super chill and unrestrictive of most things, but mine are sometimes restrictive sometimes not which can be a real pain in the rear. My older brother, who is 16, had a girlfriend when he was ...

Seventeen, and my fear of rejection is so strong that I discourage guys when they make a move. How can I learn to trust myself and stop being this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3000 days ago

1 October 2016 (F) - Hiya I'm 17 and I've never had a boyfriend but have had "situations" that could have led to a relationship. Problem is I suck at opening up to guys. Well opening up to anybody in fact. Probably because rejection in any form terrifies me so I'd ...

How can I start talking with her, without coming off as desperate or creepy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3003 days ago

1 October 2016 (M) - There's this girls I like. Or I should say really like. I've asked my friends what I should do, but the advice they give me keeps on contradicting what they're all saying, so instead, I'm asking a bunch of strangers for advice. What I need help with ...