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30-35,
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writes:Hey. I'm bi, and I'm in year 12 at school. At school, there is this girl i fancy in year 13. I'm really attracted to her, and I can't stop thinking about her. I want to be with her. I don't know about her sexuality, I just know that she's quite boyish. I don't know what to do. I want ask her if shes bi or a lesbian, and if she is, whether she'd be interested in me. I don't know her at all. The only time I've spoken to her was randomly in the school reception, and she wanted to sign her name into the register, and she wanted to know the date, and I told her and she thanked me. That's the only contact we've had. I do look at her, and I think she has noticed this, and looks back. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2009): ive just gone through the same but im male and it was my best mate.
i asked him in a p.e. lesson after hes touched me any way we got sent on a crosscountry run for talking so sat on the bank were no one could see us he told me that he loved me and he was trying to hint that to me after we held hands and made out( hes a great tonger!)my point is this is she worth it do people tease you becaure gay then think to yourself is she worth the risk of getting bullied thats wat i to myself before i ask my boyfriend out it turns out hes totally in to me and now we are very happy my point is she might feel the same way goodluk hope my edvice helps!
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reader, pancakes rule  +, writes (30 November 2009):
 depends, if she says no, is she the type who might bully you or tell everyone. Do people know about you.I know myself that when you're still that young and still at school, people can be immature about this topic.If you think any of those factors are unimportant to you or that no one will make a big deal out of it, then go for it, what do you have to lose?My advice would be that instead of just asking upfront, maybe try talking to her more and build some kind of a friendship first, or aquaintince at least.good luckxx
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