A
male
age
30-35,
*inetiesKid
writes:I've been seeing this girl for 2 and a bit months, and already I see it taking a nose dive towards another failed relationship.Well, she wanted me to go to hers last night because she had the house to herself, as much as I wanted to see her pretty face, I had my best friend round my house and I didn't want to ditch him because with me, friends come first. So, instead she got some dude that lives near her to come round, which of course I was cautious about, but I didn't do anything about it because we're not even in a relationship yet, but I was on the phone to her earlier and she said he came onto her and shoved his hand down her trousers and refused to take it out until she gave him a firm hit.I may be being paranoid here, but one doesn't just randomly shove their hand down there without doing something first, like kissing or something..I tried getting more details out of her on the phone tonight, but all she said was he just shoved his hand down there..This is driving me mad, because I don't want to seem like I'm trying to control her, or be too clingy, I mean she's just going to think I'm calling her a slag, when I'm not, it's just getting to me and if I'm not given some reasurance I'm going to explode.So, how do I tell her how I feel without her getting the wrong idea?Any answer is appreciated, thanks.
View related questions:
best friend, kissing Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, cheesy18  +, writes (30 November 2009):
 Well one your right most guys dont just shove their hands down girls pants with out some sort of lead otherwise it would kinda be raped and i guess she wasnt leading on to that when on the phone with you. So you're kinda seeing her and she invites another guy over. no offence but when i'm home alone and the guy i'm seeing isnt there i dont call another guy i call my best friend unless i'm looking for something that night"nudge".
so with telling her how you feel be straight out i'm definitely one for honesty you can sugar coat it if you want but saying the basic "i feel like we've been falling apart and i'd rather end things now rather than later".Done relationship w.e over.
|
