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Archived questions from: March, 2017 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

I slept with my business partner. Have I lost him as a friend? now he does not even reply to texts

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2792 days ago

31 March 2017 (F) - I made the stupidest mistake in getting reluctantly involved with a married man. We made love and after sex after that fatal night he stopped talking to me then he said he was just wanted to be friends. I was okay with that being business p...

An old Uncle muses

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30 March 2017 (M) - My style of posting has been going through some changes and I thought I should share what's going on and why these changes. I'm rapidly moving into empty nest. I have 2 Daughters still living at home and they are both looking for their on place. ...

I'm ok with my sexless relationship but my friends think it's weird

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2679 days ago

30 March 2017 (F) - Hi there , I have been with my partner a year and a half yet in all that time we have only had sex 10 times we cuddle kiss hold hands but nothing more he was honest from the start and said he wasn't very sexual, this is ok with me however my friends ...

My wife is still trying to contact the guy she had an affair with

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2799 days ago

30 March 2017 (M) - What is going on with my wife? She had an affair with another guy that we both know, and I only found out about it after more than a year and a half..before the start of her affair we argued and fought alot ,but at one point for no apparent reason ...

I'm in a sexless marriage due to my wife's depression and now menopause. What do I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2776 days ago

28 March 2017 (M) - My wife had 10 months off work with work related depression now the menopause has struck We have not had sex for nearly 2 years and even sleep in different rooms at times as she is in bed by 9pm most nights due to the medication. I am now becoming ...

Am I shallow for not wanting to have sex with her because she has herpes?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2800 days ago

28 March 2017 (M) - I have a friend of around two years whom I am very close to, we were considering a relationship but due to the distance between us and financial difficulties on both ends we decided to just stay as friends for the foreseeable future. Despite t...

Sex isn't going well with her, any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2679 days ago

28 March 2017 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been seeing each other for the last few weeks. We have had sex twice, and both times there were problems. I have had a problem maintaining an erection during sex. When I do have one and enter her; She is so tight it hurts ...

Girlfriend doesn't make any real effort to lose weight despite wanting to

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2777 days ago

28 March 2017 (M) - I've been in relationship with my girlfriend for about 7 months now. I liked her for her personality and character but her weight had always bothered me right from the start. She was actually slim just under 2 year back(she looked amazing) but gai...

Should I ask him how he feels now? Or wait a while before I ask?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2793 days ago

27 March 2017 (F) - Hi, I have a relationship issue and would love some advice! For the past nine months I have been in an ambiguous relationship with my housemate. We started sleeping together last summer. I knew he had fancied me for a while and he even starte...

I stayed through fear, now worried my life is over and his is just beginning again

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2679 days ago

27 March 2017 (F) - Ok I need some help to deal with something that I know is really silly so I need some support here please . I've been with my husband and father of my children for twenty years . Over the course of our marriage he has had a problem with pirn and ...

My boyfriend thinks I've gone off him but we don't have a bed of our own!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2793 days ago

27 March 2017 (F) - Hi I've been with my bf for almost a year now. We used to have sex and I used to make him excited but we recently moved in with my sister and her daughter so we share the living room. We have sex yeah but its not ideal considering its either on the ...

I want more sex but he would rather masturbate to porn with young girls with boobs!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2793 days ago

26 March 2017 (F) - We have lived together 2.5 years. I'm 44 with 2 grown up kids living at home, he is 40. He works 10.5 hour days with an extra hour on top for travelling and claims to be too tired for sex. We will usually have sex once a week, sometimes twice a week ...

Phone sex with boyfriend turns out awfully wrong

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2793 days ago

26 March 2017 (F) - I don't know where to start but I've been in a relationship with my man for 5 years and he was never very colourful or expressive when we have phone sex. We recently got into a long distant relationship for 3 months since I'm studying. So these ...

Do men have different personalities with women they casually have sex with?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2793 days ago

25 March 2017 (F) - And by different, I mean, do they not care to be fun (with personality) outside the bedroom because he knows you're just a casual thing and not someone he wants to impress? For example, there's this guy who I began dating a while back and we went...

Does it sound like my boyfriend wants to get me pregnant?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2785 days ago

25 March 2017 (F) - So I think my boyfriend wants me to get pregnant , without actually saying it . This is more of a question for the guys since they may know more about how they think. First of all we haven't been dating for long but he's already talked about get...

Please explain medical issues of virginity

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2793 days ago

25 March 2017 (F) - i had sex first time before one year, in a day about 3 times and i lost my virginity , i bled a medium... and want to know that if i will sex after two years.. should i bleed again or not? and what should i do to bleed again?...

Her past bothers me, though I do like our sex life!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2794 days ago

24 March 2017 (M) - Hey guys, I've been dating a girl for a few months and it's going really great, but her past has come up more than a few times (mainly by me) her lifestyle bothers me a bit she's 22 and loves to club. Has had 12 sexual partners her last dude wa...

My addictions are affecting my life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2806 days ago

23 March 2017 (M) - Hi, I'm a 22 year old gay male and I think I may have a problem. I've been dealing with feelings of depression and loneliness ever since the 7th grade. Although it is a lot better now because I am more independent, they always come back. I feel ...

Am I a sex addict? 101

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2794 days ago

22 March 2017 (F) - I just turned 31. I think about sex atleast every 30 minutes. I mentally undress every woman i See or imagine them having sex although im actually not interested in women sexually. My partner count is about 73 men and 2 women. To me a man has to ...

Does this help a man with ED to feel better? What could possibly have allowed me to continue to enjoy knowing my wife was having an affair?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2806 days ago

22 March 2017 (M) - I am a 50 year old married man who has had erectile dysfunction problems since before i married my wife.. She was very beautifull when she was younger but that doesnt make a difference when you have ED.. When she was still in her twenties I f...

Family conditioning has defined sex as inappropriate and dangerous. How can I stop feeling afraid pf physical sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2795 days ago

22 March 2017 (F) - Ever since I was young, sex was explained to me as something that was inappropriate, dangerous, and could generally be used against me. Both of my parents were always adamant that men couldn't be trusted, and that I needed to be cautious and awar...

Am I a repressed sex addict?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2808 days ago

21 March 2017 (F) - Dear cupid, I am 30 year old woman and I have bein single for most of my life, happily single I should say. I had my first kiss at 15, lost my virginity at 18. These were two kinda isolated events more like a box to tick, virginity gone what's n...

I just don't want sex. What can I do about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2795 days ago

21 March 2017 (F) - Hi Please help me. I have been with my partner for eight years. But over the last few years and particularly this year I have lost all interest in sex. I do have a hormone disorder and suffer frequent cystitis so I know that this probably contrib...

Is being too fast rude?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2805 days ago

21 March 2017 (F) - Would you consider it rude if a guy gets off within two minutes if it's the first couple of times you've done anything together? I started dating a guy a couple months ago and we started taking out to the next level recently. So far we've done it ...

My husband is giving me all these std's , do you think he cheated?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2800 days ago

18 March 2017 (F) - Do you think my husband cheated? Hi! so, nine days ago my husband went out with his coworkers to have some drinks and he didn't call me to say he'll come home late or what he would be up to. This left me with a bad feeling because It was weird, you ...

Second cousin is pregnant and I'm the father. How do we break this news to the family?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2800 days ago

18 March 2017 (M) - My second cousin, Brooke, and I have always been very close. We never officially dated but on rare occasions, we did become physical. When we were both 14 years old, she was my first kiss. Most of the time we are not physical. We just spend time ...

I'm not a virgin. How do I hide this from my husband on my wedding night?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2808 days ago

18 March 2017 (F) - how can i hide from my husband on first night that i m not a virgin...

My boyfriend would rather satisfy himself with a rubber vagina than have sex with me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2800 days ago

18 March 2017 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for 6 and a half years this last month I've had to beg him to have sex with me when he's drunk he will have sex with me but other then that I have to beg him an the other night I was cleaning out his closet when I ...

Can a true relationship be achieved without the affection and the touchy part?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2801 days ago

17 March 2017 (F) - our sex life has slowly deteriorated. He blames it on my weight gain but many people including male friends and family have advised me that the weight is not the problem. He won't see a doctor cause he blames it on me, however he is 11 years olde...

Beating myself up because I may not be her best lover

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2801 days ago

17 March 2017 (M) - Here goes. My fiance and I have a good sex life when we have it. She was diagnosed with breast cancer 2 weeks after we started dating. Since then sex is not what it could be. Which is understandable seeing what she has been through. I never...

Does he still want to see me? He said that we would not be compatible long term, but he does like me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2801 days ago

16 March 2017 (F) - Dear Cupid I need some advice, I've been seeing this guy for about a month (I'm 19 and he's 25) and we were getting on really well, he takes me out and treats me really nice, we just clicked. We're very similar and we've both noticed this. We'v...

It was his first time. But straight after we finished he called his best friend to tell him we'd had sex. Made me feel like an object. What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2801 days ago

16 March 2017 (F) - Hello, I'm a 16 year old girl. When I was 14 I had a relationship with a boy which lasted about 1,5 year. At the time my parents were breaking up and everything was falling apart. I got sexual abused and that boy destroyed me and I felt like de...

How does her doctor know if she has herpes I if he's never done a test?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2801 days ago

16 March 2017 (M) - My question is about herpes, I met a woman she told me she has genital herpes, she is now on valtraxs, the doctor didn't even checked her out down there , she says she has had it for over a dozen years, my question is if he doesn't do a blood test, ...

Sex makes me feel so disgusted in myself, but only afterwards because in the lead up it is always what I want to do at the time. I feel like a horrible person but equally I do not know why I have this light switch effect. Any advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2812 days ago

15 March 2017 (M) - I feel as if there is something wrong with me and I am frustrated with myself for feeling the way that I do. When I am seeing a new partner, as soon as we have sex I suddenly become completely disinterested in anything intimate with them. This ...

Can she still be a virgin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2813 days ago

15 March 2017 (M) - I know a girl when she was young she did not know what sex means or what it could do to her. She was used by three men sexually eight times, but they never penetrated her vagina and she never remember seeing blood. Can she be still a virgin or get ...

She gives me false hopes and is still chatting with her ex! Advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2802 days ago

15 March 2017 (M) - Hello DearCupid readers, I am 30. two and a half months ago I got in contact with a woman, who is 24 and she has a 2 year old daughter. We first talked online and then started seeing each other offline, since we're both in the same city. In...

Boyfriend wants me to indulge in an MMF threesome with his best friend

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2813 days ago

14 March 2017 (F) - My boyfriend of a year recently asked me if I would be into a MMF threesome with one of his best friends, although his words were "tag team". He revealed it was one of his fantasy's, and asked me if I would be into it. At the time I said I don't ...

Does he like me or just want sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2796 days ago

14 March 2017 (F) - Just when I'd totally shut my self off from dating then the world gave me this guy. I have known him since 2012 but I always ignored him and blocked his calls. Recently I haven't been going out much and he suddenly contacted me. I decided to hang ...

How can I stop coming on so strong?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2810 days ago

14 March 2017 (M) - Hey everyone. So I've been posting here for quite a while about all of my struggles with attracting women. I think I may finally realize what's been going on. I come on too strong and over analyze things on pretty much every attempt. It's just who I ...

How easy is it for some men to cheat?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2806 days ago

13 March 2017 (F) - How easy it is for some men to cheat? Do you think my man cheated on me based on this: *He's had sex with approx. 30 girls that I know about... *They are all types of faces and bodies and most of them he says he considers them ugly. (Ma...

How do I get her to want sex more?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2797 days ago

13 March 2017 (M) - I am in a relationship with a sag woman, I'm a virgo. We have been together for 7 months and about 2 months ago we had sex for the first time. We both seemed to enjoy it and I was able to make her orgasm ( better then last lovers according to her) ...

Lesbian, Bisexual or Heterosexual or all three? I’m confused, any chance of talking some sense into me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2815 days ago

12 March 2017 (F) - I used to identify as a lesbian, and had only had serious relationships with women, however I fell madly in love with my male best friend, who has now been my partner for the past three years. We have an excellent relationship and have many exc...

The guy is turning into an alcoholic. Should I keep it to myself that I'm pregnant, and raise the baby without him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2807 days ago

12 March 2017 (F) - I don't know what I want to do at this point. I think I may be pregnant with the guy I'm currently seeing. I feel like he's going on a downward spiral at the moment. He had a weekend out with the boys and he got really drunk and now he is gettin...

Am I expecting too much of my wife? I desire to make love to my wife, but she says it stresses her out when I initiate

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2811 days ago

12 March 2017 (M) - I have been married for over 21 years. The last three years have been quite challenging as my wife, who is 3 year older than me, is going through menopause and hormonal changes. I am empathetic and offer my support and encouragement as she goes thr...

Why cry? Was she feeling guilty? My LDR is currently studying overseas. She has started a new friendship there but promised me that they would not have full sex

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2813 days ago

11 March 2017 (M) - Hello guys, My gf is studying abroad currently in a relationship with someone else, we were arguing cause i was asking how far their relationship is. The sex) She promised she wont have sex with her current BF but then when i asked if she did to h...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2813 days ago

10 March 2017 (F) - Should I bring it up or let it go? My husband is very busy running three businesses. He gets very stressed with it. Sometimes he masturbates to porn to relieve tension - I know all this, it's not every day or all the time. Sometimes I use his ...

Fun with cyber sex? Or more?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2818 days ago

10 March 2017 (F) - I met this guy through a dating app and we clicked! We spoke for a few days on that app. At that moment, I was still getting over a tough breakup for me. I hadn't exchanged numbers with this guy yet. One day, don't know what got into me then but I ...

My Long Term girlfriend has just been diagnosed with Herpes. Should I bail?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2818 days ago

8 March 2017 (M) - The question i'm posing is whether or not i should leave my girlfriend of almost 5 years. I know that herpes can lay dormant for a long period of time, and i know there is a POSSIBILITY that either of us could have had herpes with no symptoms for ...

Does my Bf really care, after 8 months together if he'll unwilling to hold hands in public and only becomes more demonstrative when he wants sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2813 days ago

8 March 2017 (F) - My boyfriend and I been together 0ff and on, but now we been together for 8 months and when we out and about he dont hold my hand. He still tell people that i am his friend and we live together and he only holds me when he want sex. i can sleep na...

Does he have a sexual addiction to anal? The business card has raised questions for me. Should I ask him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2822 days ago

7 March 2017 (F) - Hey Guys, From some time in my 3 years of ”Inconsistent” Relationship with my bf, we had sex once a week (we could not do it more ”due to schedules and his medical studies”) Besides not having much sex, he also happened to have, well I could de...