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writes:I am a 50 year old married man who has had erectile dysfunction problems since before i married my wife..She was very beautifull when she was younger but that doesnt make a difference when you have ED..When she was still in her twenties I found out about an affair she was having, and allowed it to continue for almost two years..During this time we even verbally fantasized in bed about her having a well hung virile stud on the side, who took care of her needs regularly, which in truth was really happening, but she didnt know that i knew this...To this day i still fantasize about this secret two year affair of hers over twenty years ago..It's like a loop of images that run through my head, although one part of me says that it was wrong to allow her affair to continue, and that I should be over it by now, and not get excited by thoughts of it...Why did i let it continue? Why do i still have this exciting thoughts?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2017): I think it's possible for some women to age beautifully. And if a woman was beautiful younger, then she can certainly be beautiful older. In fact, more beautiful in some ways.OP, you may get off knowing your wife had sex with another guy. Some men get turned on by this. Certainly not unheard of. You probably were living vicariously through your wife. Maybe picturing yourself pleasing her? Or thinking about these thoughts made you feel more manly, made you realize you are a sexual being after all?Now, were you able to have sex at all with your wife during her affair? I am not familiar with ED. Can you ever maintain a hard on long enough to have sex? Or are there periods you can and periods you cannot? I am not sure if there was no sex at all with your wife or you did have sex and the thoughts of her and another man turned you onto having sex with her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2017): You say she WAS beautiful when she was younger . Is she no longer beautiful . Is that contributing to your ed ? I ask because as a woman in her 50s who's husband also suffers ed I wonder if it's because he no longer finds me beautiful either . I think about finding a man who will ( if such a man even exists ) but don't want to break my marriage vows
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