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writes:Hello guys,My gf is studying abroad currently in a relationship with someone else, we were arguing cause i was asking how far their relationship is. The sex) She promised she wont have sex with her current BF but then when i asked if she did to him what we used to do before we had sex (it was her riding me without let me out in, hand job or shove me with her vagina slowly but always with clothes on and just made both us orgasm/cum).She never wanted to answer me directly and just by this i knew they did made each other cum even without having sex. We were arguing until we hung up the call but then 20 mins later she called back she was crying why i always ask question she doesnt want to answer.She then said that she did made him cum and there was a time that guy also made her cum but around 10 minutes later she was secretly crying , i stopped asking more since she was crying.So can any of u tell me why was she crying 10 mins after her orgasm? Thank you
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (16 March 2017):
 Time to end things completely stop allowing her to guilt trip you and end all contact. Move on with your life and never allow someone to treat you like a doormat.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2017): It's a lost cause brother. She's with him now and they're gonna get physical at some point if it hasn't already happened. She's not your girlfriend. She's your ex. Stop obsessing, accept it and move on. One of the hardest things to do in life, but it needs to be done; for the sake of your own sanity.
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reader, N91  +, writes (12 March 2017):
 I didn't read what you were asking properly.
Thing is who cares why she was crying? She is a cheater, forget about her and move on.
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reader, N91 +, writes (12 March 2017):
Dude are you being serious?
She is cheating on you, this is a lost cause, stop wasting your time.
If you even attempt to fight to save things then you are allowing yourself to be treated like a doormat.
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reader, RubyBirtle +, writes (12 March 2017):
Okay, so your girlfriend of 5 years is currently studying abroad and has recently admitted to you that she is having an affair - an affair that she wants to keep on having until she finishes her studies so she doesn't have to be alone.
Do you really want to stay with a girlfriend who cheats on you? - regardless of whether they have has sex or not.
Why did she cry 10 minutes after her orgasm? Orgasms are powerful emotional moments for women. And I guess she felt a bit guilty too - but this guilt comes a bit late because she knew it was something that she shouldn't be doing from the beginning but she did it anyway. And I expect she only furnished you with this piece on information to mimimise her mistakes.
And don't tolerate having your feelings pushed to the bottom of the pile. If YOU are her long term partner and that's the way she wants things to be, she should prioritise YOUR feelings above her little fuck-buddy's. As it stands at the moment she's prioritising her needs first (so she won't be "lonely"), her fuck-buddy's needs second (doesn't want to mess up his studies) and YOU are at the bottom of the pile. She cares jack-shit for anyone except herself.
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reader, Faint +, writes (12 March 2017):
Faint is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok guys sorry , i wasnt able to think straight and now that i read my question again i feel like its a mess. Let me explain the whole situation and how it happened.She is in her early 20 and we were together for 5 years, she went to study abroad for around 16 months but there were times felt so lonely as dislike being alone and facing only 4 wall in the room she rent and i wasnt paying much attention to her cause i only cared about gaming and then she met someone friends and there is a ``nice guy`` that developed feeling for her knowing about my existence, they started getting closer and closer, there were hard times for my GF that she wanted me to talk to her but i always talk to her in a superior state as if im always correct adn without caring much of her feeling but that boy is different and then asked her to give him a chance...and so they started their relationship on december.My GF/ex didnt want to tell me cause she is affraid that she made the wrong decision to date him and decide to keep it a secretly and make a choice after our trip on April (we planned our trip before everything happen) but then again when she wanted to talk to me, i didnt pay much attention to her and she was mad, sad and told me everything that they started a relationship for a month already, i was in shock...cause i always thought she would never betray me.After that i wasnt able to eat, sleep (no more than 2 hours daily) and my daily routine is ruined, i feel like i cant afford to lose her so all those time i didnt give up on her, i sent her valentines gift and messages.(she likes my Valentines gift more)Her best friend know whats going on and we sometimes talk (my ex doesnt know we talk) she told me that her feeling for that guy started to change, not as sparky as the first month, she thought of me when they kissed and sometimes miss me, she said that this boy isnt that compatible with her compared to her feeling with me.But she doesnt want to break yet cause she doesnt want to be alone for now and that all their final is coming, doesnt want to affect each other feeling in case might lead to affect their finals, asked me to wait until april cause the boy is a good guy and want to treat him nicely for the last month (i cant understand this reason as she made a decision already)and that she made her decision to come back to me and break up with the guy after finals (during our trip).and this is what happened and please read what i wrote on the post to understand my question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2017): You open your post with the words 'my girlfriend '. How exactly is this the case? Do you mean your ex? Surely you must do, for she is not your girlfriend is she? If she is then you are mad. If she isn't then what she does is up to her, stop pestering her, she doesn't owe you any explaination
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reader, Denizen +, writes (12 March 2017):
 Look fella you have accept that this is over between you, and let her go. She may be crying for a number of reasons, but probably because she knows it's finished between the two of you.
Gather yourself together, chin up, and move on. Sorry but it happens, and sadly it has happened to you.
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