A
female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hi I've been with my bf for almost a year now. We used to have sex and I used to make him excited but we recently moved in with my sister and her daughter so we share the living room. We have sex yeah but its not ideal considering its either on the floor or the couch. Most of the time I am down to do it but a lot of the times I do say no because I just don't feel like doing all of it.. Having to hold back.. Be quiet.. Any of it but he doesn't understand he thinks I'm not in to him. Also sometimes!es I do find it hard to get turned on what do I do? I want to make him happy
View related questions:
moved in Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (5 April 2017):
 It is normal to want to make him happy, but he should want to make you happy also, and if you are not comfortable then you need to tell him.
Having sex on your sisters floor or couch when their is a child in the house really is not ideal and I do get why you are not turned on. You just need to sit with him and tell him the truth about how you feel. Maybe you both need to think about moving in together so you have more privacy?
A
female
reader, Youcannotbeserious  +, writes (27 March 2017):
 You want to make HIM happy but does he do anything to make YOU happy? Does he take time to ensure you are turned on before having sex or does he just expect you to be "up for it"? If the latter, then I don't think it is just the lack of a bed that is dampening your sex drive.
Can you look around for somewhere else to live? Perhaps a house share with other people but somewhere you will have your own room?
...............................
|
