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Archived questions from: February, 2010 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

My bi-sexual, drug addict husband gave me an STD!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - Two years ago, my dr said I had trich, and that someone was messing around. I wasn't a happy camper. Then in Oct 09, my pap smear came back normal with the HPV virus also. I was devastated. My hubby hasn't been working since Dec 03. I suspected he ...

My wife has gone off sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

28 February 2010 (M) - Hi i need help! me and my wife heve been happily married for 16 years, My wife is 37 and i am 40. we have two lovely girls no money worries what so ever, everything is fine apart the fact she has gone from little sex drive to none. she has gone off...

Concerned by same-sex masturbation fantasies

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - Thinking of being with woman in a relationship feels wrong. Thinking of actually doing anything with woman feels wrong! But when i masterbate i think of woman. I dont want to be a lesbian or bisexual, but does this mean i am ?? I'd never actually do ...

Masterbation tips, from men!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

28 February 2010 (M) - when your masturbating i was just wondering once you have a cumming does it feel any better if you keep going? i just stop after cumming does it get better?...

What should I expect during a french kiss?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - [Moderator note: the OP is clearly much younger than the age stated] im young but not that young and i wanted to know how to french kiss some one and how you work up to it and what to exspect...

Some ideas needed on sexy pictures I can send my boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - i want to take some sexy pics of myself for my boyfriend, and would like some ideas on how to do so, poses etc... he is away alot with his job so i want to suprise him if you are going to write to me saying i shouldnt because we could break up a...

What the hell is wrong with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

28 February 2010 (M) - Sex has always been an issue in our marriage. I've always wanted it more than my wife and it'll often only happen if I initiate it. But I find I'm quite sulky about it at times. If she says no I'll become moody and if she says yes, I'll someti...

I'm afraid of what the reprocussions of losing my virginity!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - Please help! I am a 20 year old virgin and not sure about losing my virginity yet. My problem arises when I'm around my boyfriend-whenever I'm around him, I get massive sexual urges. I mean REALLY strong urges. I just want to touch him all over and ...

My mum is offering me money NOT to have sex. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - i really love this guy i know for 2 years. i want to have sex with him, he does too. but my problem is that my mom will give me $950 if i keep it till i'm 17 or 18. wat should i do?...

My girlfriend and her bisexual friend want us to have a threesome but they won't elaborate further

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

28 February 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and i tie each other up during sex. I'm male and when she's fully bonded she loves me rubbing my penis along her body. She recently suggested her female bi sexual friend wants to join in. I am very open to the idea but they wont tell ...

Why is sex the key to a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

28 February 2010 (M) - Why is sex the key to a relationship?...

My wife wont share all my sexual fantasies and called me a bully

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

28 February 2010 (M) - My wife and I have been married for over 20 years. Sex life has been a bit hit and miss down through the years, mostly due to her low sex drive. Leading up to Christmas, we'd been arguing a bit and hadn't had sex for about 6 weeks. The argue...

Too afraid to ask again.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

28 February 2010 (M) - hey ok me and my best friend are really close but he is straight and i am bi we are both guys and one night he slept at my house and we went for a walk at about 11 at night and he told me that he trusts me heaps then eventually he said that he ...

Want to return the favour.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - Hey well i been dating this guy up till now we have not had sex and i really want to, he makes me horny he makes me feel these crazy sensations everytime he touches me. Ok well i just want to know how to please him? What can I do to really get him ...

Worried about him using my friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5387 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - Hey guys, I went on here for my own problem once and have never been happier and all my problems were solved. Since then...Iv even become a little agony aunt for my group of girls..but one im really worried about. Ill tell her story, no real n...

I'm ready to have sex with my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - Hey ppl so ive been dating this guy and well we had never had sex im a virgin and well i think its time to please him can u guys give me some tips to please him mostly with my boobs :) -thanks...

Virginty not fully taken?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

27 February 2010 (M) - Hello, I have a partner she was married for 9 years and she lost her virginity to her husband. They have a child but she gave birth through ceserian. She is now divorced. We have perfect sex with her and we love each other so much. During our sex,...

Am I fling or something more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5387 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - So there's a guy who I'm talking to right now. We've talked a lot for the past three weeks. Some days we talk/im/webcam three hours, others we talk maybe one hour, then other days, we're texting nonstop. His girlfriend of a year and half just died a ...

How come when I do sexy stuff he doesn't get an erection?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - I love my boyfriend very much , and he loves me. So when I try to do sexy things for him , or sit on his , lap or kiss him , he doesn't get a boner , or anything. Is this normal ? Does he still find me attractive ? What to do ??? =(...

He tried to force himself on me. Am I over-reacting?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4334 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - I've been going out with this guy for a few weeks. he was really nice, opened doors for me, said sweet things, and seemed real cool. He seemed patient, didn't mind spending time with my family, and was real smart. he was older than me and seemed so ...

I am "too large" for my girlfriend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

27 February 2010 (M) - Alright, well I have a pretty large penis. About 7" and over 3" thick. I never had an issue with my penis size until now. I am seeing a girl that I really like. So far the sex has been amazing, but the other night we did it "doggie-style", and after ...

I don't want to be romantic with a boy who likes me, I just want to get dirty with him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - So this boy likes me but I think I just like him because I want someone to make out with and have fun with. I've known this boy since middle school and he liked me in middle school too but I NEVER even thought of liking him. Now we're in hi...

My adult daughter's boyfriend "gropes" her in front of me... How can I deal with this?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - I recently welcomed a young adult daughter back home after she started self harming because her same age boyfriend was disregarding her sexual wishes. He wanted to do some things she did not and forced these things on her. She is still his girlfr...

Why is he sexually abusing me? We're married, but he demands sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - My husband of many years has always acted as if I am here for his sex needs. He has also said he married me for sex. He expects I will give him sex. Not that he doesn't tell me other things to do. The best he has improved on is to tell me hours be...

Is it normal for an erection to be this sensitive?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

27 February 2010 (M) - Quick question... I've noticed that when I'm fully erect, my penis is nearly impossible to bend downwards without it becoming very sore. I understand this is meant to be natural, but I feel as though mine is overly stiff. As reference, in most porn, ...

I'm tired of crying over him. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5387 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - at nights is the hardest n im tired of cryin. there is this guy im in love with. he liked mi first but when he liked me i didnt return the feelings then when i liked him i jus didnt wanna date him. but we admitted to liking each other. ive seen him ...

I think he is telling lies and is with another woman

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - OK it's this guy I Been seeing for like two months but knew him for about 3 years we live in the same building the time was never right for us to hook up until like 2 months ago he is 40 and I am 28 we spend ever night together and he haven't ask me ...

We are meant to keep things casual but I am having feelings for him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - Well i've been seeing this guy for nearly 6 months and in the beginning we agreed to keep things casual but in the past couple of months i've started to have feelings for him but i haven't told him this. He has said that what we have is just a fling ...

Sex before marriage Part II

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - I recently asked a question about being intimate with my boyfriend, but keeping my virginity at the same time (http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-want-to-keep-my-virginity-until-i.html)and got a lot of really insightful responses. (Thanks 2 all who ...

I like having sex but that's all we got... Should I move on or keep at it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - Well I knew this guy for about 3 years now and recently we had sex a few times. I liked it and all but we were never together. I know that he only wanted me for sex but right now I dont want to get together with anyone so I would always have sex ...

My wife bet a BJ to another man and he's won the bet... what should we do?!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

26 February 2010 (M) - My wife made a bet that I don't want her to keep and now she has to pay up, or default on her word. What to do? A couple of weeks ago, my wife, some friends of ours and myself were drinking at my house. The conversation got heated regarding...

My boyfriend doesn't understand that women can "get off" through other means!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - Ok so my bf and I have been having sex for almost 2 months now. We've done it about a dozen times, I have orgasmed once out of the 12 times. While I realize that I'm lucky enough to be able to get that point since I know some girls never orgasm from ...

He says my actions prior to our dating permits him to have sex with other girls

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - Hi, my boyfriend of 3 and a half years suffers from retroactive jealousy. I was no slut in the past, far from it actually, but still, he thinks I was and that's what's ruined us. He knows a guy to whom I gave a BJ to, he knows that guy was a close ...

Not a wimp but can't stand the teeth.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

26 February 2010 (M) - ok my last post was about being insecure with the curve of my man hood.... the comments were very helpfull due to the fact I was about to be with this woman in bed you guys were right on she never made a mention of the curve my issue is that she ...

Erection on and off. Is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - me and bf were pleasuring each other but he kpt going soft then hard and he'd lose his erection but then in would come back. Whats does this mean? he didn't seem embarressed or anything he just said that he masterbated that morning. then we ...

How can I lose weight and sexually satisfy my husband after giving birth?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - Hello Aunts and Uncles, My question is relatively simple. I just had a baby two weeks ago. Can someone tell me what really works to help get off the baby weight and help tighten the skin back up? Also, right now my husband and I cannot have sex for ...

Unable to perform yet still aroused.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

26 February 2010 (M) - dear cupid my problem is i am 52 my partner is 40 its a new relationship although we did have one a long time ago we both regret not staying together 23 years ago we lost contact all this time but met again recently and realised we still love each ...

Does the penis stop growing or is it a continuous process?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - I'm nearly 20, was raised in a strict home, my mom remarried 6 years ago after loosing my dad to a car accident. My mom and I are close. We can wear each others clothes. She and I go a lot of places together and my friends that know her know she is ...

I want to keep my virginity until I am married, but my current boyfriend wants to get intimate. How do I deal with this?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - I recently started getting "serious" with a guy I like and we are pretty happy, except I'm really nervous about one thing: sex. I'm still a virgin and no, this is not my 1st relationship-the problem is that my last one ended because the guy was ...

Is it ok that I have protected sex with people when I am not in a relationship?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - im currently single so im just having fun, but do u think its ok that i have protected sex with people? the only reason i ask is because my friends say im dirty but i dont have one night stands after a night out, i know the people i have sex with....

Should I consult a doctor because I am having trouble getting an erection?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

26 February 2010 (M) - Hi I am 20 years old I have not done sex anytime but when i have gone to do it my penis dosent stand ,I dont know y but when I was seeing some adult movies it was regularly standing what might be the reason behind it? either to consult a docto...

I'm having trouble with my virgin boyfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - Hi i am 17 and i need help. im not a virgin and my boyfriend is and we were planning on haven sex one day but he chickened out, and then told all his friends that we had sex and i was wondering what to do about it? and also how do i give him ...

No pleasure having sex...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

26 February 2010 (M) - Hi, im a 19 year old male, and ive just started having sex, yet all of the times ive done it i havent felt anything, its warm and all but no real sexual pleasure like when i masturbate, ive considered the fact i may be gay but that doesnt appeal to ...

Am I so wrong for not wanting to have sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - I'm not quite sure what has happened to me, but my sex drive has gone way down and it's putting a strain on my relationship. My boyfriend feels that because I don't want to have sex with him, the passion is gone and that I find him unattractive. He ...

Without a boyfriend but the urges are strong.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) - I am 13 and want to make out (or have sex) with a guy. i am afraid if i have sex i will get pregnant. besides i dont have a boyfriend so I can not satisfy my craving to make out. what should I do?...

Pubic hair has to go. Any advice.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) - Okay, I feel little bit embarrassed to ask this question but I`m not comfortable to talk with persons face to face about that. Here`s the thing: before I get into sexual activitys with my boyfriend I want to remove all of my pubic hair. I already ...

Are my rough tendencies in bed the same as abuse?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

25 February 2010 (M) - So, as you all are pretty much aware, I am against hitting women. However, I like to whip and spank women during sex, and I like sex to be as rough as possible. (consensual of course) Anyway, I know who I am and that I don't pose a danger t...

I moved into my friend's dad's house, and I'm starting to become really uncomfortable. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) - Hi Im Blue, Its my first time asking a question on here so bare with me. I am 20 years old and have just recently moved into a friends dads place, I am studying. He saw a note on my nannas table that said I was moving out to the Caravan Park. He ...

Am I doing the wrong thing trying to change sexualities?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

25 February 2010 (?) - I am really confused. I left my husband 3 months ago because he was abusing me...he was hitting me.....anyways right after that i spent a very short time with a loser who only wanted to use me for sex and obviously that didn't work out either.....so ...

I think I'm too self-conscious to orgasm!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) - I think I'm too self-conscious to orgasm. I've orgasmed in the past with previous boyfriends but with my current one, whenever he pleasuring me it feels good but then it starts to feels really intense and sensitive and rather than come, I start ...