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writes:I am 13 and want to make out (or have sex) with a guy. i am afraid if i have sex i will get pregnant. besides i dont have a boyfriend so I can not satisfy my craving to make out. what should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, meenfriend  +, writes (26 February 2010):
at 13 you still got long time to dill with that.you need to find the right man and need to think more on school than sex. just use your head and not your body.
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reader, blahblah02 +, writes (26 February 2010):
being since you're ONLY 13, you don't even need to be thinking about sex! It's just this big hype! nothing you're missing out on.
Boyfriends are over rated, even though they make you feel special, it's not that big of a deal, because what happens when you break up and you're BEST FRIEND/ FRIENDS are there when you're heart broken!
Live life, don't worry about boys sure it's "cool" to have a boyfriend, but being cool isn't always the best thing, so don't fall into a wanting sex or "love" from a boy, it doesn't satisfy..
you will find a right guy, but just because a boy likes you doesn't mean he's right, ya know?
if you need ANY help, you can always email me, I've been through the road I think you're going down..
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reader, sammi star  +, writes (26 February 2010):
 Well it's quite natural to be thinking about this but even when you do get a bf I think you're still quite young to handle the emotional responsibility of a sexual relationship. I agree with the realist, get a sex toy or something. That said, if you do decide to become sexually active please be careful! You say you're afraid you'd get pregnant but that isn't the only worry, std's are something to think about so always use a condom (asell as the pill or whatever form of contraceptive you decide on)
I hope that didn't sound too patronising lol. Think carefully before you do anything hun x
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reader, The Realist +, writes (26 February 2010):
 Try not to just go with random guys just so you don't get stereotyped the wrong way. It would be good to find a bf or get some sort of sex toy that will be able to satisfy your needs without any of the risks.
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