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Archived questions from: 9 February, 2010 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

I want to have sex with my boyfriend but I am scared of getting close because of the way my ex treated me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

9 February 2010 (F) - Hi Im 22 and have a lovely boyfriend who is 25 weve been together for one year but the problem is im too scared to get close to him physically and its starting to put a strain on my relationship. My previous relationship before my current boyfrien...

While aroused strange liquid comes out.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5368 days ago

9 February 2010 (M) - Hi, Well i am 18 years old and my penis is uncircumcised. My major concern is why when i am making out with a girl and i am erect, my penis produces a liquid? It is not cum, it's just something that i have no control over and i don't know what it is ...

My ex says he does not want to be held down and that women are arseholes, yet he has sex with me eveytime we meet up.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5405 days ago

9 February 2010 (F) - Hey, so i dated this guy for 3 years then we broke up and we both started dating other people. the girl he was with though lasted a year. after they broke up he took me to niagara falls and for the past year i have seen him 1-6 times a month since ...

I have a crush on a man-whore and want to loose my virginity to him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5403 days ago

9 February 2010 (F) - Hello im 13, and 14 in a few days i have this big crush on this boy and he has one on me, but he is known to be a bit of a man slut if you know what i mean. well he has had sex a good few times, i really want to loose my virginity to him, he is so...

Peer pressure about sex, should I give in?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

9 February 2010 (M) - Ok at my age not alot of the people i know are still virgins i sort of am. but its like it dont matter. it feels like if i have sex then i wont be invisible to them anymore. mu girlfriend want to have sex but i think its abit early. but do...

She wants to kick things up a notch and have sex!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

9 February 2010 (M) - ok new problem i have been seen this girl for a while now and its going great. she want to kick things up a notch as she want to have sex. we have done some of the other stuff like kissing and feeling each other but that was about it. i have been ...

I want to please my girlfriend more, should I buy her a vibrator?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

9 February 2010 (M) - Hey, I want to buy my girlfriend a vibrator for this Valentine's Day. I want to please her in different ways; kisses, caressing, massaging her breasts, going down on her, penetration, etc. And, well, now I wanna buy her a vibrator for a change. ...

HELP!! I had uprotected sex after two weeks of taking the pill!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

9 February 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex on saturday night,, eventhough he didnt ejaculate in me im concerned i could become pregnant as im only on my first packet of logynon contreceptive pills. Along from this i had sickness and diarhea on monday- ...

First time sex on my wedding night, what should I expect?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

9 February 2010 (?) - Okay, I've just got engaged :) and I'm waiting for my wedding night until I have sex for the first time and I was wondering if there are any first time stories people are willing to share with me. It doesn't have to be wedding night first time, any ...

Was this an orgasm or something else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5405 days ago

9 February 2010 (?) - Hiii, I'm 16 and I've got a question about orgasms. At least I think thats what I'm talking about. Anyway, I was with my boyfriend yesterday and he was fingering me for the third time (third time with him, AND third time in my life) and he suddenly...

I am a virgin but think about doing threesomes, porn and striptease. I am really confused about my morals!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

9 February 2010 (F) - I want to wait until i have sex so my first time can be with someone i am in love with...but at the same time the thought of having threesomes, for example, makes me feel really aroused. also i feel desperate to have sex, i matsturbate very often ...

My partner has not wanted sex ever since I had a baby.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

9 February 2010 (F) - okay ive been with my man for over a year now. when we first got together we had a great sex life! about 6 months ago right after we had a baby he never wants to have sex, he always has excuses.. and it really hurts i feel like he dosent find me ...

My husband get's mad when I wont have threesomes. How can I get out of this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

9 February 2010 (F) - I caved to a threesome with my husband, and I don't want to do it again ....but he gets mad and insists that we do. How do I get out of this situation?...

I've suffered from premature ejaculation for over 2 years and need to find a way to last longer.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

9 February 2010 (M) - I've suffered from premature ejaculation for over 2 years. Me and my girlfriend were going out for 2 years before we broke up. I always lasted about 15 seconds before I ejaculation. We tried different positions and everything but nothing seemed to ...

My vagina just does not look right.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

9 February 2010 (F) - heey. ive been wondering lately if my vagina lips are saggy or loose, they do seem different to others i have seen even though i havent seen many. mine just doesnt look rite and i need to know how to get rid of the saggyness, do you think excercis...

Is it illegal to sleep with my Uncle?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

9 February 2010 (F) - Is it illegal to sleep with my muums brother who has a different mum and hes the same age as me?...

I had sex with my cousin

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

9 February 2010 (M) - (parts re-written by mod for improved clarity) hi mr cupid, im 28 years old and single. when i got into vacation from abroad,i went to my grndma's province to visit them,then i met my pretty cousin. at her age of 18 she has lots of friends. she...

Am I just being paranoid that he will use me for sex due to the way I have been treated in the past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

9 February 2010 (F) - ive been getting to know this guy.. he calls me a lot.. and he actually does call me when he says he will:) the thing is he keeps asking me if i like him..i like talking to him.,,hes good looking, sweet..he seems like a gentleman.. b...

Is it safe for a woman to take viagra?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

9 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriends got some viagra from his dad and wants us to take it together. Iv read the packet and health risks but it stil says its for male erectile disfunction. Is it safe for women to take viagra (pfizer 25mg)? And if so what are the known ...

Is it a bad idea to mention threesomes to girls that I might be risking not having 1-on-1 sex with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

9 February 2010 (M) - So I just got out of a 6 year marriage and for the last two years or so I've been obsessing about threesomes. I'm a very people-oriented guy and make friends fast and keep them for a long time. I always love being in groups and I've always thought ...

I am confused about orgasms.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

9 February 2010 (F) - me and my bf r confused about orgasm..last month he fingered fast and i moaned with excitement(the excitement was at its height)..and sudddenly there was some jelly like substance...is this known as orgasm?and how to self masturbate?and how to ...

How do I go about having sex with my cousin?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

9 February 2010 (?) - ok so im 14 almost 15 and so is my cousin only she turns 15 a few months before me. ever since we were about 6 weve played sexual games like "show me urs ill show u mine" and doctor and we also watch porn together almost everytime we see each other. ...

Would I know an orgasm if I felt one?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

9 February 2010 (F) - This may be kind of long... Ok, so ive been dating my boy friend for over seven months now. He is two years older than i am. The farthest him and i have ever gone is hand jobs (we are both virgins). So heres the deal, before him and i started d...

Is he a pedophile for dating a 13 year old when he was 17?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5403 days ago

9 February 2010 (F) - I am in a relationship with an amazing, mature and positive guy, who is also my age (27 -28 years old). We are inseparable and I feel happy when we are together. When we are apart (we live in different countries) for longer than 3 weeks, say, I ...

He has ejaculated in me numerous times and I still haven't gotten pregnant. Is it me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

9 February 2010 (F) - ok so i have been having sex for the last 5 months not very often but i will say like at least more then 8 times... each and every time the guy ive been with has ejaculated in me ...but i cant seem to get pregnant ... what may be the problem.....

My boyfriend said he had hair in his mouth after oral sex with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

9 February 2010 (F) - me and my bf r in a comitted relationship.he stays far from me..and we have sex only once in a month!well few days back we were talking on phone..and he said that wen he was trying to give me oral sex,my hairs got into his mouth..and dat was ...

Will it be a mistake to have sex with my sister-in-law?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

9 February 2010 (M) - I have a sister in law whom is living with us in the same house. She wears clothes where her nipples are visibly mark, wears shorts where her most private part is also marked. I can't evade fantacizing her. Whenever the door of her room is open, I ...

How would I go about turning on my shy and bi best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

9 February 2010 (F) - What does another girl do to turn you on or warm you up? I'm bi curious but not sure how to get my bestfriend who his bi curious too to warm up to me? We have always talked about messing around but we've never done it. Should I start by rubbing her ...

I seem to "cum" throughout the day. Is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

9 February 2010 (F) - im a girl, i seem to 'cum' throughout the day making a mess in my undies. its very annoying and im wondering if it is normal or if i should get it checked out ? :/...

Should I go for him or to forget him completly!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5361 days ago

9 February 2010 (F) - okay so theres this guy, ill call him joe. joe is new this year. im 13, and hes 14 and were both in 8th grade. ever since he got here i thot he was cutee and nice. we became instant friends. but then he broke his leg and wwas out of school for a ...

I am inexperienced, did I put her off?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

9 February 2010 (M) - I am inexperienced when having sex and need some advice. 1st, I hung out with this girl for a while (one month) and always pleased her. We had sex once and my nerves got to me and I came pretty fast. For about a week we still messed around bu...

I don't mind being a little kinky, but I don't like pain either!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

9 February 2010 (F) - I am 19 years old and I have been dating my boyfriend for close to a year now. We started having sex a couple of months ago. He is the first guy I've had sex with. I love him and I know he loves me as well. My problem is this. I know that he has s...