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writes:ok my last post was about being insecure with the curve of my man hood.... the comments were very helpfull due to the fact I was about to be with this woman in bed you guys were right on she never made a mention of the curve my issue is that she is very agressive and rough in bed not that I mind but she bites me like I am a piece of meat and actually drew blood at one point down there...... how do I tell her to cut it out without sounding like a wimp. I don't mind a nibble but I have teeth marks all over me. I do like her a lot and she seems to like me quite a bit but this is freaking me out
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reader, Cowboy255 +, writes (27 February 2010):
Vampire..... LOL I'm just joking but tell her you don't really care for that so much but say it nicely and if she gets offended just say your not very comfortable with that. if she can't except that then give her the boot so to speak. When blood is drawn in my eyes that's a little to rough some rough is ok but that much that's not so good
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reader, FogMontblanc +, writes (27 February 2010):
I agree with "Not My Name" here. Just ask her to cut back a little. My hunny loves me biting her, but I'm so thin that her teeth dig right through me... Its a matter of taste, because I love to dish it, but can't take it... And just a small note, if she doesn't let up, don't keep her around and die of blood poisining... We'd miss you
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reader, Honest Answer +, writes (27 February 2010):
 I would be willing to bet that all she wants to do is please you. So to insure that she is, you need to tell her what pleases you and what doesn't. She won't quit until you tell her exactly what your likes and dislikes are.Good luck!Jeff
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reader, Not My Name  +, writes (27 February 2010):
 Just tell her that you know everyone is different, but that for you, pain distracts from the pleasure you are getting, so lighten up on sinking the teeth right in.
I can't see why it should be a big deal to voice your preferences in bed, ... and if she is considerate of your experience too, then she should be ok with sticking to things that are mutually acceptable.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2010): ha ha...okay, it's okay and 'normal' to not want to be bitten to the point of being excessively bruised and spilling blood. just tell her you don't mind her biting you...you like the idea of it, but could she please be a bit gentler with it. you aren't going to sound like a wimp. most guys and girls don't like to be hurt during sex. masochists, yes they do, but you're not one of them, so don't act like one of them. standing up for your physical well-being isn't wimpy by the way...but being passive about her continually injuring you is wimpy. draw your boundaries clearly with her and that will make you feel less like a 'wimp.'
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