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I moved into my friend's dad's house, and I'm starting to become really uncomfortable. What can I do?

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Question - (25 February 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 25 February 2010)
A female Australia age 30-35, *lueBird1990 writes:

Hi Im Blue,

Its my first time asking a question on here so bare with me.

I am 20 years old and have just recently moved into a friends dads place, I am studying. He saw a note on my nannas table that said I was moving out to the Caravan Park. He didnt like that idea or something so he told my nan I could move in to his place.

His daughter was worried and at first would not tell me why I soon found out.

We were talking on Facebook and she out of the blue said 'Please, please what ever you do hun, lock your bedroom door at night!!" Exactly how she typed it. Anyway I questioned what it was about. Thats when she said, 'My dad raped me." I was in total shock, I have been there myself.

I now catch him eyeing me off, last night I walked in after a shower, his eyes started at my legs and worked up, when he got to my eyes he smiled and winked.

I seriously feel uncomfortable and I cant get my own place yet. What should I do??

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2010):

go stay with your nan.

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A female reader, chloeapple United Kingdom +, writes (25 February 2010):

GET OUT. Do not risk being put into a horrifying situation for convenience- if you told your gran about this would she hesitate at you moving back in? What about the caravan park? on a friends couch, a shelter would be better than your current arrangement. Do you believe your friend? I'm not sure why you didn't leave straight away, though if you needed someone to clarify your feelings i think its best to get out now. Call or text a mate now- heck, just show up on their doorstep and tell them you discovered that your living with a rapist.

Get out.

Be safe and take care of yourself! x

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