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Archived questions from: September, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

Bleeding after anal sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - My husband and I have been experimenting with anal sex for the last year after wards there might be a spot of blood or two but this last time there has been more..now two days and there is still a little mainly with a bowel movement is this okay? I ...

How can I make him go WOW!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - Hey I would like to know how I can make my bf feel satisfied when we are having sex....how do I know if I'm good or not...what do men love in bed??I want him to say "wow you are good"....but how?? What would he enjoy best?? Guys any answers??girls ...

Is he getting it somewhere else?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - Men get off quicker when they havent had it in a while. Thats from my experience. Is that true or does it depend on the person? Because my b/f and I havent had sex in 3 1/2 months and then when we did he didnt go quickly. Not that I am c...

Isn't reality better than fantasy when it comes to sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - My Psychiatrist BF who is 41 has a 'collection' of over 100 DVD's almost ALL of which are about hetero anal sex, and a few male sex ones. He says he is only "curious" but this 'seems' different to me. I think in the past he had turned to it to ...

I want to know about oral sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

30 September 2009 (M) - Hi...i'm 19 yrs old boy i hav a gf and now she asked me abt sex but i wanna know abt oral sex eventually is it good to lick vagina or anus while having sex?will she like all this or to hav to hav penis in mouth? Please i want answer from ...

Like father, like son, in sexual habits! Should I talk to him or be worried?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - My fiance and I have been together for 2 years and have since the very beginning been very comfortable and sexually open with one another, more so than any of our previous relationships. He has several unique fetishes and I've never thought much of ...

Are my legs weak?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

30 September 2009 (M) - I am 21. I have been a strong masturbator in the past 3,4 years. I did it almost everyday but for the past 1 year, I gained control over myself and minimized this habbit a lot. Now I don't masturbate more than twice a month. But when I ejaculate, I ...

Its all about him getting off and he never takes the time to pleasure me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - why do men think it's okay for them to just raise up their woman gown and go in? the men get ready easy they can get horny just by looking at you or by kissing or just by rubbing your breast but yet they think that just because they are ready we ...

Which of us is the problem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - When we romance with my husband his dick is always strong but when we start having sex his dick becomes weak. who's the problem me or him?...

When it comes to sex I'm never pleased! Any suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - Well, me and my boyfriend are emotionally intimate and everything seems perfect but when it comes to sex im never pleased. I can only have an orgasm when im on top but im so tired of pleasing myself. I love having sex with him and even tried telling ...

Is it unusual to bleed when you first start having sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - Ok So hi again.. Im 19 and about a month ago me and my boyfriend started having sex. The first time it hurt like hell but didnt bleed alot. a few days later it hurt some and bled alot. since then we have had sex maybe 3 more times. Everytime we do ...

Dating 3 weeks, when do I shave my pubic hair, before we get married or before sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - i've been dating this guy for 3 weeks. i don't know if i should shave my private area before he and i get marry? or before we have sex? ...

Is it normal to feel dirty after fooling around?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - I recently started dating a guy. This is my first relationship. He was my first kiss, etc etc. We haven't had sex yet but we've been slowly moving forward. A few days ago, we were messing around, to the point where i took off my shirt. I was...

Is unprotected sex the only way to catch chlamydia?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - Hey, this is probaly a really stupid question, but is unprotected sex the only way to catch chlamydia? Im thinking of sleeping with my boyfriend for the first time, but I wont be his first. Hes had a test done and hes all clear, and they offer th...

Do you think a relationship is possible? We had the most amazing sex ever.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5523 days ago

29 September 2009 (M) - Last night, I had the most amazing night of my sexual life. I met a man, who is 33, and I am 18. I've always had a thing for charming older men, and he fits definitely fits that status quo. However, one thing I did not expect to happen, was for my ...

Where's the passion?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5522 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - Hello I have been in a relationship for 3 years. Our sex life is not that great, the passion is gone. And to honest Ive never been satisfied..(He is my first) But what bothers me is that there is no passion. I want a man who really wants it f...

Is it normal that I can't orgasm after a drink?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - Is it normal that I can never seem to reach orgasm when I have alcohol in my system? I don't drink often, but every time I've been anywhere from slightly buzzed to completely drunk, it seems like orgasms are out of the question. My boyfriend and I ...

Is it important to know your partner's sexual past?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - I am currently dating a guy who I like a lot. I have a feeling that he may have "got around" a bit when he was younger, but to be honest I just simply do not want to know. Is it immature for me to be thinking like this? Do you think it's important ...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

29 September 2009 (M) - I was at a party two weeks ago and a lot of kids were drinking beer. Not me cause I am only 17. A really really hot popular girl from my class was drunk off her ass and was having sex with guys at the party. She was with at least 3 guys that I ...

What makes a man lose his hard-on during sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - What makes a man lose his hard on during sex?...

What pubic hair design should I have for first time sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - Me and my Boy friend are planning to have sex for the very first time, at the moment i am a virgin and am ready to loose my virginity. And i do cut my pubic hair but i realli don't know how boys like it. boys do you like all pubic hair gone or a l...

I love her but am no longer attracted to her

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

29 September 2009 (M) - Can I endure a relationship with a woman I love very much but to whom I am no-longer sexually attracted to what-so-ever, even though as a result that would mean having to look for extra-marital sex? ...

Semen leakage normal?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

29 September 2009 (M) - Whenever I get sexually aroused due to my girlfriend in university or wherever, a drop or two of semin from my penis leaks. Is that normal? I workout 2 hours every day and do not masturbate more than twice a month. I haven't done sex as well uptill ...

My partner has gone off sex yet he still masturbates daily!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - My partner is not interested in having a sex life with me. He is under a lot of financial pressure which worries him constantly and living with me also means he has the added pressure of living with 2 children that aren't his own, which he finds ...

How do I overcome the pain during sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - i am married one month ago and I cant take the pain of having sex plz help me...

How do I talk about sex with my girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

29 September 2009 (M) - Hiii....i'm 18 year old boy i'm in true love with a girl.we are enjoying with each other but i feel shy in talking about sex with her,she too never asked me anything about sex but now i think we must talk about sex and have some sexual ...

Will my operation cause me problems during sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

29 September 2009 (M) - Hi there. I'm concerned because had had an operation nearly 2 years ago on my foreskin to remove a cyst but wasn't aware that they would remove such a large area and the subsequent nerve damage i would have. It was just below the frenulum and now ...

I want to give my boyfriend a blowjob but it will be my first time!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

29 September 2009 (?) - i want to give a blow job to my boyfriend but i am feeling scared, bcos i have not done this before. one of my friend told me that he will like it, he lets me touch his penis when ever i start playing with his penis pure water like fluid oozez out i ...

How do I make a girl say "wow he's good" after sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

29 September 2009 (M) - How do i make perfect sex? I mean as in, How do i start and end to make 'a lady say wow! he's good?...

My wife's pubic hair is a turn-off!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

29 September 2009 (M) - This is a bit embarrassing but by wife has a hairy vagina that I find quite a turnoff. I don't know how to discuss the issue with her without hurting her feelings. I trim and shave myself but my wife seems to prefer herself untrimmed. We've been ...

Curved penis better for hitting the G spot?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

29 September 2009 (M) - I have a curved penis so i want to know that it reaches the G-spot inside the vagina... some girl answer this question what they feel while having sex with curved penis guy do they get better orgasm then the straighter one....

How can I help my boyfriend get better at oral sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - So my boyfriend needs help giving oral sex. He's got the right attitude and loves doing it, but to be honest he's not very good at it. The thing is I've never had it done well so I have no idea what to tell him. Can some people give things to do ...

Will a sexual relationship enhance our love for each other?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5524 days ago

29 September 2009 (M) - I'm 18 years old and i love a girl and she too loves me but i never had a french kiss with her altough i have kissed her a few times on her cheeks.Actually i want to know is it good to have sexual relationship with her,i have never asked her ...

I think of others having sex and it gets me off focus!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

29 September 2009 (M) - im 15 year old and i have a problem i think of people and sex all the time and it bothers me and make do crazy stuff, i think of different people all the time picturing them doing stuff or saying stuff its like crazy entertainment in my head and it ...

Girls: Can you help give me a female perspective?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

29 September 2009 (M) - Hi i'm 18 years old and i'm a virgin the problem is that i have a slightly curved penis, its a bit curved downwards and very little to the left ,its very little curve not a big one.this makes me a bit distressed.Altough i have read many topics ...

Does anyone know what the difference between body rubbing and dry humping?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

29 September 2009 (M) - Does anyone know what the difference between body rubbing and dry humping ( i have no idea if thats even something) ? Or are they both the same thing ? Anyone care to axplain. Thanks....

Should I worry about being pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - Alright. So I met this guy about a month or so ago that works with my mom..This sounds really bad but he is only 19, I will be 18 in October...he already has a baby that is 13 months old. Well..my mom decided to let me start staying the nigh...

My boyfriend's brother molested him! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - hi i need help with my boyfriend he was molested when he was n little boy by his brother at the age of 7 to 9 and at the age of 12 he was molested again by a man in the hostel and now he is like a angry bom at work and with me and i really wanne ...

How do I get past this sexual block?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - I have been with my husband off and on since we we're both 17 and married him at 22. Once we got married we were completely faithful to eachother, though things didnt stay that way. back in the beginning of "04 i became friends with this girl. i had ...

I can't stop flirting and sleeping with men!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - I am 21 yrs old and have 2 beutifull children with my boyfriend of 5 yrs who i love dearly and who dearly loves me, but I cant stop flirting and sleeping with other men. I flirt all the time online as i cant sleep with the men online, but if i go ...

Black discharge? Could it be a side effect of the morning after pill?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - I'm due my period on the 9th. But i'm currently getting a very dark brown/black discharge coming out of me like a thin period. I've never had this sort of thing before, only AFTER a period, never before. What could this be? I had unprotected sex ...

Ejaculation accidentally touched my vagina

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - Before you all say I am too young(or something) for this, I would like to say. I have made a huge mistake by doing this. I know what I did wrong, and is very regretful. Any nurses/doctors/concerned adults please help! I touched male sperm on my...

Intimidated in the bedroom

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

28 September 2009 (M) - so i have been with my girlfried for about four months but we really never did anything. we had sex about two weeks ago or at least attempted to. some one came home and we were forced to stop before it really began. with that being said she never ...

Confused about first time sex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5524 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - Ok, so i'm just going to get this out there, in my high school everyone has either lost thier virginity in 9th or won't until marrige. and i absolutely LOVE my boyfriend, we've been togethe so much its probably not healthy but i love it : ). now, ...

Does she just look at me as a friend and not fancy me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

28 September 2009 (M) - I'm a married professional man and have befriended a younger woman at work. She has just got over some mild depression, which I may have helped a little with supportive chats and some confidence building (positive comments and so on). We talk quite ...

How can I tell if I'm tight enough?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

28 September 2009 (?) - im always self conscious that im not, excuse me here, "tight" enough for my boyfriend. im gona be 16 soon and hes 3 years older. hes not that big, just average, but everytime we have sex or he fingers me, i feel like im not as tight as i should be. ...

How do I make him understand I'm not a machine?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - I am almost thirty yrs old, I am married to a man who is four years younger than me and has a sex drive of a sixteen yr old. We have 3 children together, all between the ages of 6 to 1 yr old. I work full time as well as have the children in various ...

Am I a straight? Bi? Or lesbian?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - I have been staright all my life and had boyfriends etc, but just recently i feel like i have a crush on a female teacher. Everyones started calling me a lesbien, but im obvisly not a lesbein cos i like boys, but am i bisexual? or is it just a phase ...

Threesome but I don't want him to fall for the other girl!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - Its bothering me.... My best male friend and i have been talking about a threesome, i would really love it i know he does too but the problem comes in that i'm afraid once we have actually had a threesome he will end up like or even loving this ...

Visit to brothel did not make me feel better

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

28 September 2009 (M) - Hello I few months ago i visited a brothel... and it was a bad bad experience as i didnt get any pleasure out of it and it made me realise what i want in life ( a slow meaningful relationship) I taught me alot and show me that sex is crap and ...