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writes:Is it normal that I can never seem to reach orgasm when I have alcohol in my system? I don't drink often, but every time I've been anywhere from slightly buzzed to completely drunk, it seems like orgasms are out of the question. My boyfriend and I don't have sex, we just do fingering and oral sex. Usually that does the job, except for when I've had even one drink. I can barely orgasm from masturbation if I'm even slightly drunk (and masturbation allllways works for me). It seems like if I have as much as one and a half beers, I'll just be sitting there when I can feel my extremities (hands, feet) start to go kind of numb and my girl parts get this warm fuzzy feeling, and then I'm almost completely numb to any kind of stimulation down there. After that point getting fingered is kind of like being in one of those dreams where you're running in slow motion; you know you're doing everything right, but it's just not working. And the ironic thing is that I'm even more capable of being aroused when I'm drunk, and that's the only time I can't reach orgasm.This isn't a big problem or something I'm upset about. I was just wondering if it's normal. Because usually I always hear people recommending a little alcohol to induce female orgasms, but all it ever does is kill mine ha.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks guys. Like I said, I don't drink often, and my boyfriend is really good at giving me orgasms when I'm sober. I was just wondering if this numbness after alcohol was normal or not.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (30 September 2009):
Alcohol doesn't help sex at all. If you want an orgasm, be sober, relaxed and get that boyfriend of yours to treat you like a goddess
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reader, softtouchmale2003 +, writes (30 September 2009):
 Alcohol ruins sex. It really does. So do most drugs. The reason why is it interferes with the brain chemistry you need to send that signal down to release the orgasm. You need arousal to get to climax and resolution. The liquor gets in the way of those signals.
If you want orgasms, don't drink or do drugs. Sex, by the way, is much more enjoyable and vigorous without drugs or alcohol.
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