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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Well, me and my boyfriend are emotionally intimate and everything seems perfect but when it comes to sex im never pleased. I can only have an orgasm when im on top but im so tired of pleasing myself. I love having sex with him and even tried telling him the way i want and like it but it still doesn't work...Even when he performs oral sex and then gets on top of me i still can't cum. He can cum at anytime no problem with him but i never get my share. Im always left sore from trying and not getting any progress. We have sex all the time, (sorry) so just imagine the frustration im going through...please help i want to enjoy this with him.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (30 September 2009):
I'm sorry to say that men can just climax far more easily, because it's easier for us. Women need to spend a lot of time becoming aroused and havng a lot of stimulation on their clitoris. Some seem to prefer being on top. The important thing is to relax, because if you don't, you won't climax. Make sure before sex that you're relaxed and make that boyfriend of yours work! When you do orgasm, you'll have a far better time than him (female orgasms are longer and more intense). Also, maybe reseach some techiques over the internet.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (30 September 2009):
 If you can orgasm when on top, as you say, then I'd suggest that you include the "Cowgirl" position every time. But you contradict yourself when you claim "im never pleased." Seems confusing.
In my opinion, many women are better pleased with "woman-on-top," so why not do it that way? I think that, as you further mature, you will gain pleasure in more and varied ways.
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