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writes:Hey I would like to know how I can make my bf feel satisfied when we are having sex....how do I know if I'm good or not...what do men love in bed??I want him to say "wow you are good"....but how?? What would he enjoy best?? Guys any answers??girls to can give me advice.....tanks! Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (1 October 2009):
Walk in with heels, stockings and tease him like hell! You have to go in there feeling like a goddess! Then make him work! He'll melt away.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2009): If you want the big wow, do different things. During foreplay start by giving him a tongue bath all over. Do this only for a short while, then head for his genitals. If you rub, lick, and massage his body all over for too long he may lose interest in sex, because he will get frustrated. Girls like long drawn out foreplay, but guys want to cut to the chase. They want you on their penis as soon as possible, so don't tease too long. Try licking and sucking his balls in addition to his cock. Probe his ass with your finger. Just apply light pressure to his anus while giving him head or sucking his balls. If you aren't turned off by it, probe his ass with your tongue. Don't go inside unless he wants you to.After sexual foreplay get right to intercourse, don't start back in with the body rubbing or tongue bath or his frustration level will rise.After you have been fucking for a while, say 10 minutes or so, slide your hands down between the two of you and massage his balls during intercourse. I love to feel my g/f's fingers moving my balls around and squeezing them gently during sex, plus I find my orgasm to be more intense. If you are fucking doggy style, reach up under and cup his balls and massage them. He will really like that.As he gets closer to cumming, rub his balls a little more firmly. Jiggle them around, squeeze them and rub them. Mix it up. Once he starts to blow his load, back off on the ball rubbing because his testicle will retract up toward his body and you may hurt them.That should get you the big wow.
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reader, LessonsLearned +, writes (1 October 2009):
Guys love it when a woman lets us know what were doing makes them feel amazing. Just reacting like your really into it and engaged and turned on is usually enough for any guy. Don't get caught up in technique, stroke our ego as much as well, the other thing. Just try not to say no, and be down for anything, thats the best!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2009): relax and have confidence in yourself and what you are doing. really enjoy it and make noise, tell him what feels good and what you like and ask him what he likes. guys get off knowing how much you are into it so make sure he knows your fully enjoying yourself. also touching yourself not just in the obvious places but running your hands over your body will get him going. try different things and switch it up, being spontaneous makes it fun too. try different locations or positions.
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reader, HereAreMyTwoCents +, writes (1 October 2009):
 I think the best way to start is by asking him what he already knows he likes, and then doing that for him. Also, trying new things in sex, and seeing what he likes and doesn't like. Experiment and communicate. Always. Not just at the beginning of the relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2009): Find out what his fantasies are and fulfill them. Find out what type of porno he likes. And what ever you do sexually multitask, multitask and multitask. Lots of guys like different things. There's no way to make him go wow without finding what those things are.
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