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Sex: Help and advice

Do men over 40 still get hard ons?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

2 September 2009 (F - I want to know if man over 40 will still have hard on. My husband lost it, and went limp. What is going on?It is hard to know, how common is that,when it happens to you.. You can't see others bedroom life. He also don't care about sex, and he used ...

G/f doesn't like sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

2 September 2009 (M - My girlfriend of almost a year now has recently told me that she doesn't like sex. She enjoys having orgasms but is never in the mood to have sex. When I pressed her for more information she told me that she thinks instead of having sex we could be ...

I don't feel sexually satisfied, any tips to make sex better for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

2 September 2009 (F - I'm in a relationship which is obviously more than just sex. However, when we do have sex i do not orgasm and i cannot tell when i am 'coming'. So while my partner is getting pleasured i dont find sex that great and end up unsatisfied and wanting ...

He's asking me to try things in the bedroom I'm not completely comfortable with.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

2 September 2009 (F - My husband's attitude towards sex has changed a lot in the last few months, it's not like his sex drive has shot up, that's stayed the same, it's rather what he wants to do to me sexually that's worrying. He's asked me to dress up like a fireman, ...

Married almost 25 years, are we falling APART or is he????

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

2 September 2009 (F - Hello, My husband and I have been married for almost 25 years. We have 5 children. Our oldest past away when he was 6, we have a daughter 21, son 11, daughter 8, and son 6. I am just really confused here. I work, one year ago he changed jobs so ...

Been with my gf for a year but we only have sex once every two weeks!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

2 September 2009 (M - i've been with my girlfriend for a year now and everything is going great apart from one thing, we hardly ever have sex im a 19 yr old man and feel i should be haveing sex more than once a fortnight, ive tried talking to her plenty of times but she ...

Is my husband still interested in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5551 days ago

2 September 2009 (F - Is my husband still intrestid in me? I've been married for 7yr, have 4 kids and dont understand my husband. I mean my husband dosent even ask for sex. I even started to buy sexy lingerie an wear it around for him. Figured I could turn him on, ...

Help! My boyfriend just can't sleep with me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

2 September 2009 (F - I am 21 and my boyfriend is 22. I was best friends with my boyfriend for four years before we started going out, we are madly in love and very happy. There is a lot of passion in our relationship with us both pleasuring each other daily but whenever ...

Boyfriend is selfish in bed, should I break up with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

2 September 2009 (F - I care about my boyfriend, but in bed there is no satisfaction. He won't do things for me and I'm beginning to think that he is very selfish. Although he asks me what I want him to do, I don't feel like he will listen so I don't bother. I'm s...

Wife goes bi to straight... now I'm lost.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

2 September 2009 (M - I am married. and yet i find myself wondering about other woman. I have these fantasies i guess you could call them, and my wife isnt able to make them happen. She doesnt fit the act. What should i do? Before we got married, we talked of having a ...

Married young and not sure if it was right.

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2 September 2009 (M - I am a 20. I am married. Have 1 son. and have been married for 2 years. My father told me before we got married, Are you sure your ready? This is either going ot be the best or worst choice of your life. Well I dont know which one it is, for it has ...

No sex on our anniversary! Is he cheating or tired of me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

2 September 2009 (F - it's my anniversary and my husband never thought of having sex with me. i wonder if he's cheating on me. we have sex maybe once a week or often longer. he's a truck driveer, we argued most of the day while he was warking. he came home a hour or so ...

Her bj technique is killing me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

2 September 2009 (M - Hello Recently I've been dating this girl, we're both 18 I've been with her for 2 months the problem is that when she goes down on me she kind of chews on my penis. I don't really want to say anything because I love her but if this carries on I...

Does your body change after first time sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

2 September 2009 (F - Okay I know im 17 and all but I hear so many things and I can't tell if its bullsh and it or not dose your body change after having sex? If so how Do your breast get bigger Hips expand(I think it dose duh!) What happens? Thanks for the h...

He says its "just sex and nothing more"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

2 September 2009 (F - I'm living in a house with 3 guys. I fooled around with one of the guys before i moved in but it cooled off and stopped before i moved in. But within the last month weve been cuddling, and started having sex. Were trying to hide it from the room...

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