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How do I talk about sex with my girlfriend?

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Question - (29 September 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 30 January 2010)
A male India age 30-35, *treme writes:

Hiii....i'm 18 year old boy i'm in true love with a girl.we are enjoying with each other but i feel shy in talking about sex with her,she too never asked me anything about sex but now i think we must talk about sex and have some sexual relationship.

Another question this is exclusively for girls I wanna know which skin complexion of man really attracts them i mean to say which color white,brownish white,brown or dark attracts them a lot or they feel its sexy and hot.

Plz answer this one as well.......

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A male reader, AaronM United States +, writes (30 January 2010):

I am shy also and I found a website where you and your girlfriend can take a sex test and then see a report which shows only the things that you both like. It's a really easy way to know what the other person likes without having to have an embarrassing conversation. Here is the site: https://mysexcode.com It really helped me and I hope it can help you too.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2009):

Just kiss her passionately one day then start feeling her about and if she moves with you a bit more she wants to if not she doesn't but you could talk to her she dosn't and ensure her not to worry.

HOPE THIS HELPED!!!

I prefer tanned but u cant changed the colour so it doesn't matter.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2009):

ffs u can't change your skin type so wtf wuld you ask?!!?!?! Btw, just ask her how she feels about it

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (29 September 2009):

You do have to talk to her about it. The best thing to do is to be very gentle and ask her how she feels about sex. Listen to her and DO NOT make her feel pressurized. Let her talk to you about how she feels and see what happens.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2009):

You really have just got to talk to her about it. Don't act all shy and hesitant because it will make the whole situation seem more embarrassing than it is. However, you should ask about her feelings towards sex, etc, rather than telling her that you want her to have sex with you now. She may not want sex until she's been with you for how ever many years, or until she's married, etc. So you need to make sure you clearly know hers and your views on the matter before you ask for anything.

As for skin tone, that is the wierdest question I've probably ever considered answering. It all depends on the person but I would suggest that as long as you weren't see-through she won't care in the slightest- I've certainly never thought about it.

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