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Sex: Help and advice

My boyfriend cums too early, help?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - Ok so my boyfriend can't have sex with me for over 5 minutes without orgasming. We do have amazing sex (during that 5 minute period) don't get me wrong, its just its not exactly a very long time for me. I don't know what to do. I know for a fact ...

What is the truth about anal sex?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - I want to know the truth about anal sex. does it hurt. and ive heard that you can poo, or there may be remains of poo on the condom after withdrawal, is this true???...

Why them and not me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5608 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - I'm confused. I've known this guys for 5 years. We never physically hooked up until 2 months ago, but were always good friends. We also live 3 hours apart. Before we took it to the next level I introduced him to my 2 best friends and he hooked up ...

What is it that causes pain for a woman when she loses her virginity?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - Hiya all, I have a question about first time sex for a woman. What is it that causes pain for a woman when she loses her virginity? Is it when the hymen breaks, or when the vagina stretches? Ive never really been sure? Any help would be great...

Shall I be honest and tell him when I fancy other people or simply keep him happy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is pissed off I keep telling him I fancy other men. Now. We have got a bit of a history. We've been together 3-4 years but I cheated on him quite a few times but recently I made a vow I'd stay faithful and he forgave me for straying in ...

Embarassing gag reflex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - I love giving my boyfriend head, but when he comes, I gag...It's embarrassing. Is there anyway to stop that from happening? It's not the taste or anything, usually I don't even notice it, it's just my reflexs. help?!...

Two UTI's in one month?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - Two weeks ago I got a UTI. After it went away me and my boyfriend continued to have sex with a condom on. Last night we had sex without one, I'm on the pill by the way and now I wake up and I feel like I have a UTI again. I'm scared to tell my mom ...

Possible to have a real relationship without sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - So is it possible to have a real relationship without sex? Im 16 and Im a virgin and in a great relationship but I just don't see the point in relationships if you're not gonna do anything else. I mean what good is a teenage relationship? So my ...

Theres always been something there but shes in a sexual relationship!

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21 July 2009 (M) - I fancy one of my friends, but she's been going out with a guy outside of school for 2 months. There's always been something there, and the relationship she's in now is almost purely sexual. What should I do...

He didn't cum in me, on birth control, could I be pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - hi what are my chances of getting pregnant. me and my boyfriend had sex 3 days ago several times, he never came inside of me just like on my stomach. i'm on birth controll but that night i took it later than usual. i'm not supposed to start for ...

Foreskin doesn't retract! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5608 days ago

21 July 2009 (M) - i am 20 years old and a hindu. when my penis is erect , my foreskin gets tight and doesnt pull back... plz tell me some soluton to it as i fear that it will affect my married life? [email address removed per DearCupid guidelines] plz r...

Any ideas on how to make the smell go away 'down there'?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - Hi, recently my boyfriend told me when ever we have sex that I dont smell very pleasant down there. I went and had a pap and everything was fine. i dont know what else to do?! any recommendations in how i can make the smell go away?...

Help me with my relationship, please!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - Well i am 25 and have four children, three from a previous relationship, and yes i started really young, But i need someones help, my fella is a gambler and goes to the pokers five days a week, now just to be clear, he doesnt spend my money and he ...

I have some sex and health issues and questions!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

21 July 2009 (?) - [Moderator note: I combined two questions into one for space and continuity.] 1: i hate anal sex it hurts me really bad but my boyfriend loves to give it to me. lastnight we ued lube but still i was in alot of pain. i want to mke him happy so i jus...

I trusted my long-term boyfriend enough to stop using condoms with him, but now I am itchy! Could it just be thrush or something more?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - I need help. I hope I am just worrying for nothing. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years and been completely faithful. Before him I have only had sex with 3 other guys all who were my boyfriends. I was safe with all of them (using ...

Heartbroken over 2 guys!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - I dont know how to stop this heartache feeling, it never seems to fade. I lost my virginity to this guy in december after a few too many drinks, we meet each other in the summer and liked each other but nothing happened because i was scared because ...

How do I come clean to my mum that the condom she found was mine and my boyfriend's?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - my mom found a condom that me and my boyfriend used but i couldnt find any excuse but to tell her that it was one of my friends from work that put it in my bag but i find it hard to believe that she believed me and im 16! i dont know how to tell her ...

Is there something wrong with only wanting to have one sexual partner?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend says that I have "twisted view" whatver that means. He and I been together for almost 2 years now and he took my virginity. According to him he wants to have sex with other people now because he is too used to me. He is 19 years old. He ...

Boyfriend's blue balls.....he says if I don't give him head he will leave me!

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend says every time we hang out he gets blue balls and is in pain for hours, even days. It causes him headaches and muscle cramps too. I do plenty of sexual things for him almost every time we hang out. He's tried masturbating beforehand, ...

My husband loses his erection during sex, what is this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5608 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - My husband gets a good erection sometimes,but when he starts having sex he is losing it. Like instead of he would get really hard from playing with him, he gets limp.Like from any stimulation of his penis.. So ,the opposite happens, what should, ...

Can men still be turned on without having an erection?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - I was sleeping with this guy I'm seeing and we had both been drinking the night before. The next morning, we laid in bed for hours just cuddling and snuggling next to each other. At one point, he started getting really touchy feely and started to ...

Squirting worries

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5608 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - hello, iv noticed that when i cum its alot and its a very pale yellow colour, i know im not pissing because i go to the toilet before hand, could anyone please explain this to me?...

Questions abot the female form!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

21 July 2009 (M) - i feel weird asking this this but does the libia of the vagina "stick out". because a few people when they are in their swim suits something sticks out a little and i was wondering if it was her libia...and what is a hymen?...

I know stuff will happen in my hot tub on Thursday, how do I know what to do and how do I control myself?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - heyy. i'm really nervous. i've got this guy coming round mine on thursday. we're going in my hot tub. i know stuff is going to happen and im so nervous about it. how do you give a blowjob? i dont want to do it wrong. this is really important. ...

Can anyone tell whether I will bleed the first time I have sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - okay... i masturbate quite alot. but i guess its just something us girls dont admit to lol! anyway ive been with this guy now for a little under 7 months, and im not stupid i know sex will happen pretty soon! but we've not rushed anything.. my que...

Oral sex with a prostitute and now I'm scared!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

21 July 2009 (M) - I had oral sex with a prostitute on a stag do. I wore a condom, she also inserted her finger into my rectum but she put a condom on her finger too. I kissed her on the lips and tongue a little bit but now i am scared i have caught something, ...

I'm grossed out by my BFs sexual past with his ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - Hello, I have been dating my boyfriend for about a year now and I still get grossed out because he did it bare with his ex girlfriend who doesn't have good hygiene... he told me that he did it bare with her bare when they were together and I've had ...

Should I tell more people I am bi? Do guys like girls who are bi?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

21 July 2009 (?) - hi well im bi and my girl friend is my best friend at school people know she is bi but only like 5 people know i am should ilet more people know that i am? and do guys like bi girls just wondering plz help...

How do I ask my girlfriend to masturbate with me? I don't want her to break up with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

21 July 2009 (M) - I was wondering if girls masturbate as often as boys? I want to ask my girlfriend to do it with me, but idk if shell break up with me or something. How should I ask her?...

It bothers me that she's slept with so many people. I value sex, and she has just been giving it away

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

21 July 2009 (M) - my girlfriend is 19 and so am i. She has had sex with seven different guys, including me, while i've only had sex with her. Ever since she told me about that, i haven't had the same respect for her and i feel like i cant see her the same way. a lot ...

I attract quiet innocent guys, how to attract sexually adventurous ones?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - I look very sweet, lovely and innocent and so I tend to attract guys who are looking for those qualities, especially because I'm quite shy with people I've just met. The thing is, I'm actually nothing like that - I'm really wild, free and sexual. So ...

Do some guys prefer drugs over girls, as in a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - I dated this guy for several months and he still wouldnt say we were in a relationship and kept asking for sex. I didnt do him any "favors" and one day, I got really fed up with all of it and left. The thing that I dont understand is that he has so ...

Just had sex for the first time and it was painless! I don't understand.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - hi i am 15 and just lost my virginity today to my boyfriend. it was also his first time too. anyways he is like about 6 inches or something like that and when we had sex it didnt hurt me at all! i was already used to being fingered. anyways i didnt ...

Will he ever be serious with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5609 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - I dated a guy three years ago and although we live in different countries we've stayed in touch. When we dated there was a huge amount of chemistry, we couldnt keep our hands off each other. I didnt feel important to him, i never met him on weeke...

The "wet" feeling after sex makes me cringe!

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21 July 2009 (F) - i enjoy foreplay and i enjoy sexual activitied with my boyfriend, he makes me orgasm just about every time we do anything!! but i absolutly hate the 'wet' feeling, it makes me cringe! is this a common thing?...