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Archived questions from: 4 July, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

I'm so confident in everything except the bedroom!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

4 July 2009 (M) - Hi, I’m really shy when it comes to sex, I usually have to know someone for quite a while before I’m comfortable sleeping with them. Only…I haven’t been with anyone in almost 5years now! – I haven’t so much as kissed a girl! I’m a fairly attractiv...

I'd like to ask my girlfriend for oral sex, but I don't want her to feel rushed

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

4 July 2009 (M) - ok well i am 14 and i want to ask my gf for a bj (blow job) idk i have give her some hints about it and stuff but idk i mean i love her and all i just kinda feel we can move on into more stuff then just kissing and hugging...idk am i rushing into ...

He wants me to talk dirty...what do I say??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

4 July 2009 (F) - My man wants me to talk dirty to him - what do i say exactly?...

I've never had sex, but I've masturbated before and bled. Am I still a virgin or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

4 July 2009 (F) - Hi, i was wondering about my virginity. I masturbated a lot when i was a teenager but not as often now. The reason i stopped was i bled a little when i inserted a handle into my vagina.then tonight i decided to try masturbating using ice. the thing ...

We're having oral sex problems...help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

4 July 2009 (F) - Kind of a weird problem, but I need help. Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and a half, and this problem started about a month ago. We have sex every day and recently I haven't been able to give him oral, not at all, the thought...

Can homosexuals practice tantric sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

4 July 2009 (F) - Is tantric sex only for heterosexuals? can lesbians/gays practise tantric sex? any guidance? i dont wish to buy any books or videos.......

How do I escape this silly routine and take the plunge?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

My wife and I have too many disagreements! I feel like not having sex with her...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5625 days ago

4 July 2009 (M) - Hi, My wife and I have been married for almost 17 years. We have three great boys. The relationship has had arguments in between, but I think it is normal. Lately, I have not felt like making love to my wife. It's not that I am having an affai...

She wants us to remain friends, I'd like to ask her for sex...but how will she react?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

4 July 2009 (M) - i love her but she want us to remain as best friends, she sleeps in my house and vice-versa, we do a lot of things together, we kiss, but i am afraid to ask her for sex because i don't know how she will react...what do i do? ...

Ladies...regarding sex, how much is enough?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5625 days ago

4 July 2009 (M) - Ladies How much sex is enough? Is more always better, time-wise or orgasm-wise, or do you get to a point where you're feeling "enough's enough, I need to get some sleep or I need to go shopping" .... let's assume for the sake of argument, that i...

Ejaculation Confusion?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

4 July 2009 (F) - i had dry sex with my boyfriend. he Ejaculate on my thong but he also had his boxers on. i am a few days late on my monthly period. am i pregnent?...

Husband has gym addiction!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

4 July 2009 (F) - My husband told me I should get a sex buddy on the side because he's not into sex for now. He insisted sex would affect his ability to do well in the gym. I asked him why, and he said there's no-one else, he's just become TOO addicted to the gym,...

He says I've cheated because "it doesn't fit right anymore"!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

4 July 2009 (F) - I have a sex question. Me and my boyfriend have been together 6 years, he is the only person I've ever slept with- about 6 months ago when he have sex my vagina started making a "farting" noise- used to it would only do this in doggie style. For ...

I want to use a vibrator but it hurts so much!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

4 July 2009 (F) - Okay so im a virgin and i dont masterbait very often and when i do i just use my hands but today i disided to see how big my hole was (idk it was a random thaught). So i started to slide the vibrator in but about an inch in it began to hurt worse ...

I'm pregnant, but I don't want him to get in trouble.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

4 July 2009 (F) - I am 15 and I'm pregnant with my boyfriend that is four years older than me i need help i don't want him to go to jail i live in florida he wants to be there for me and the baby and he plans to marry me i love him to death is there anything i can ...

Brother molested me

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

4 July 2009 (F) - when i was 5 years old my parents went out for a couple of hours so my oldest brother who is 14 was baby sitting me and my 6 year old brother, we were all in my parents room watching tv and my oldest brother told my younger brother to go down stairs ...

I'm not sure if I am ready...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

4 July 2009 (F) - I just started dating this guy i have liked for 3 years and he lives 30 min. away fro me and so we can't see eachothe as often as we like and we are going to hange out on mon. and i am 13 and all my friends are having sex but not me and he asked if ...

What can I do to cum sooner?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

4 July 2009 (M) - What can I do to cum sooner? I'm 52 gf is 34 I take cialus and still most times can't cum in her she has a great pussy, help me if maybe I don't jack off or have sex for 3 months I might cum in a few min but otherwise no! Help!...

Is this normal... or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

4 July 2009 (F) - Tell me if this is normal or not. I am a 14 year old girl who occasioally likes watching sex scenes from movies... Not real dirty ones just ones that make me " hot" if you will. Some of you may know how it feels ... How good it feels when you are ...