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Archived questions from: 31 July, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

I've been avoiding sex because I'm afraid of being compared to her other 30 partner!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

31 July 2009 (M) - I have a girlfriend and we have been official for just over a month now. I've known her for 3 years prior to getting involved with her. She is a lovely person, and I'm so glad we are together, but she recently confided in me that she has slept with ...

How can I make this not hurt?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - heyy. my name is C******, and i am 15. okay here's my question. -i like to masterbate the same as everone else does. i only like rubbing my clit though. well everone else can go inside the hole, i cant. well i can but it hurts, why? help me ... ...

He hasn't approached me for sex in a year, what's the problem?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - I am really concerned about the lack of a sex life between my partner and I. We have been together for 2 years and are both in our early/mid thirties. We've only managed to have full penetrative sex twice since the start of the relationship as I ...

How can I convince my fiance to perform on me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - My fiance has always told me " If it bleeds for 7 days and doesn't die, I'm not eatin' it!". Oral sex is something I personally have never experienced, and would like to. How can I convince my man of 20 years to try this with me, for it is a bad ...

Cheating, Love, and Hate.. I don't know what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5598 days ago

31 July 2009 (M) - Me and this girl have been friends for a while and her boyfriend and I have been friends for even longer. I am talking many years and I would consider him my best friend. Anyway one day she starts to touch my arm so I start to do it back. This es...

Please help me not to concentrate on sex so much!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

31 July 2009 (M) - i am 22yr old guy and my problem is i just feel very horny all the time there is sex in my mind all the time coz of witch i just cant concentrate on any other work. i have a girlfriend and i have sex with her every time we meet but still i feel the ...

Could this be causing my premature ejaculation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

31 July 2009 (M) - I suffer from frenulum breve and phimosis. My foreskin can just about be pulled down past my penis head and then my frenulum starts to pull my penis head downwards. Could this be why i suffer from premature ejaculation?...

I am pondering an affair because my husband won't initiate intercourse!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - Thanks for reading my question... My husband has over the last few months lost interest in me sexually. At first i didnt notice, we are busy and all. But suddenly realised that it had been 4 months... I spoke to him and said hon, whats happenin...

How long will it take for me to start enjoying sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - I had 1st time sex with my boyfriend last weekend and we plan to have sex again after a night out this weekend. I knew to expect a bit of pain and discharge 1st time so we used a towel to keep any mess off the bed (my boyfriend also wore a c...

What should I do to just relax and be able to have sex with my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - Well. Its been sometime since i had sex. Counting now i thinks its 4 years. And i want to have sex with my boyfriend but I'm afraid it would hurt and besides the fact im much bigger than i was before meaning weight size what should i do to relax and ...

I feel like our sex life is drying up. Any suggestions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

31 July 2009 (M) - Hi, i don't know if i have a problem or if it's just me, it's that i have been married to my wife now for 27 months and although i love her with all my heart, and i know she loves me, i feel like our sex life is already drying up. Before we had our ...

Did my husband text her acknowledging a lunchtime blowjob?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - Hi again everyone. Just an update about the 'situation' and more need for help. I am the wife trying to come to terms with the texting husband and discovered more texts on his old phone, one calling her a 'dirty little minx' but none of ...

My girlfriend and I would like to have a threesome. Is this healthy for our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

31 July 2009 (M) - my gf and i were discussing our sexual fantacies and we both realised that we both would like to have a threesome but with each of us present when it goes down i would like to know if this is healthy for our relationship...

Everytime I hook up with my girlfriend I feel sick and I hurt "down there"!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

31 July 2009 (M) - Ok I have a girlfriend right? And we hook up or cuddle or whatever you want to call it, and when we do it gets really intense but, I havent had sex with her yet. Shes had it before but Im still a virgin. Now the thing is a couple of hours after ...

It's his first time getting a blowjob, can I get a std?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5599 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - I've been dating this guy for months now, and we are absolutely crazy about each other. I know him well, and know for a fact that he has never been sexually active with anyone. He is super shy, and has told me he hasn't, and I can honestly say I ...

Dry humping....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5599 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - hey there, whenever me and my boyfriend are dry humping, semen never comes out, and i was wondering why that is ??? thanks a lot, i really appreciate it =]...

My wife had filed divorce because of my internet addiction, how can I get her back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

31 July 2009 (M) - My wife and I have been married for almost six years. It is a second marriage for the both of us. When we first started dating the passion and love making was amazing. As we continued dating and became engaged, things stayed fantastic. As we ...

If two fingers hurt a penis is going to horrible!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - the other week i was at a party and ended up making out with a guy i like, he fingered me but he only used one finger and when he tried to use two it hurt alot, how can i make it looser? cz i'm 17 and wanna have sex but if two fingers hurt a penis ...

I'm in love with an 18 year old I met on the internet. He told me he wants sex, and I do too.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - I am 14, and have fallen in love with an 18 year old over the internet, we have been on webcam, shared pictures, text and call eachover. he is already in a relashionship with a 16 year old but i love him andd he feels the same, he wants to come and ...