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Archived questions from: 29 July, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Boyfriend is a player but talks about starting a family? Whats wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5600 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - Hi there....ok I met this guy, realized he is a player, had sex and now we keep it cool, always talking with each other, but knowing that nothing serious will happen. Every time that I am with him, he talks about women, he flits with other women in ...

No Sex Nellie: thinking of having a fling!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - I am 45yr old female married for 16yrs.Is it abnormal for me to still want sex as my husband seems to be incenced if I approach him.I am getting desparate and thinking of having a fling. No Sex Nellie...

Who gets more pleasure from sex, men or women?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

29 July 2009 (M) - who has a better oragism men or women and who gets more plessure from masturbating man or women...

I had my first blow job but I didnt feel anything!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

29 July 2009 (M) - I'm kinda shy here, so this is a BIG step forward for me ^^' Anyway recently I finally got over a self-confidence issue of not allowing anyone to do anything to me, and I received my first ever blowjob! (YAY!) Unfortunatly for me, I couldn't reall...

Does less foreplay equal better orgasms?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

29 July 2009 (?) - My wife and I a wonderful relationship. She normally reached orgasm very quickly. She says that if we have too much foreplay, she loses the ability to have an orgasm or her orgasm is not very intense even with a vibrator. Is this common? I always ...

I used to go and hunt for sex, now I seem to prefer to do it on my own!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

29 July 2009 (M) - Hi, I seem to have lost my libido with other people. I don't really understand it. I am gay, have never had much of a problem having sex with people. Now I just seem to prefer doing it on my own. I used to go and hunt for sex but now I just think ...

14 years with my BF but I don't want sex anymore. Whats my problem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - I don't care for having sex with my boyfriend no more. We've been together since I was 15 years old, now 29. I keep having these dreams about him having sex with someone else. I don't like for him to touch me or nothing. I started to go to the ...

Guys - I need hints on talking dirty.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - this is for the males out there..well girls can answer too...My hubby wants me to talk dirty to him while we having sex..but im not sure what to say...i mean i know he wants to hear that im loving it and he's going a great job and feels good..but i ...

Is a clitoral orgasm easy to experience?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5600 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - I am 22 years old and have a partner. I have had one clitoral orgasm with a vibrator but never with my partner. I'm kinda scared to have another one, will it get easier to experience... a clitoral orgasm? Also, I'm not sure if I have had a gspot...

We want to have sex with another couple, is it fair to go ahead without the other husbands permission?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

29 July 2009 (M) - i am 35 years old married person and my wife is 29 years beautiful and charming lady. actually we both like sex very much and we have sex almost daily. now we are feeling to change some the partner for sex not permanent just for change only. we both ...

Should I go to Sydney to visit my online lover or forget about him completely?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - I really need some advice regarding a long distance male I have had contact with for the last 6 months. He lives in Sydney. I live in Perth. To cut a long story short when I found him on Oasis I was quite vulnerable and hadn't been long out of ...

Problems with sex in our relationship....we're only in our 20's!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - Hi I've been with my boyfriend for about 3 years but we aren't having sex anymore. We have probably had sex 5 times this year. We're both in our 20's so libido isn't the problem! He complains I am not horny enough- this may be because of the pill? ...

Struggling to have sex for the first time!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5600 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - So, I'm 24, still a virgin and have found the love of my life. We're getting engaged soon and I really would like to have sex. I have not had intercourse before because I'm afraid of the pain. We have tried before but it feels too weird and i feel ...

Just married and hardly having sex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5601 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - Hi, This is a very long post, sorry about that. I have been with my partner (now husband) for almost 10 years and we have had our share of ups and downs. However we have finally decided to spend the rest of our lives together. Before marriage...

I'm 16 and pregnant..my mom doesn't deserve this big disappointment from me..should I tell her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - I have a very difficult situation...2 months ago my mom finally accepted my boyfriend. I love him. and i;m so sure he's it. I'm 16 years old. My birthday is in two weeks...Anyway it was difficult to get him accepted because I'm the only girl and the ...

Do any of you ladies have trouble with two or more orgasms in one day?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - Hi ladies, I was just wondering. Do you have more trouble achieving an orgasm if you've already had one that day? Say you have one in the early afternoon, then try again at night. Just wondering. Thanks!...

My First Time

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - So your first times suppose to be special, right?. You dream about finding that one lad who will sweep you off your feet and make all your dreams come true? WRONG. I was 15, gulliable and young.So innocent.The only time i'd ever mentioned sex wa...