New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

245057 questions, 1084625 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in July, 2009, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day in this category)

1 (24), 2 (20), 3 (22), 4 (19), 5 (12), 6 (20), 7 (20), 8 (12), 9 (21), 10 (25),
11 (16), 12 (16), 13 (37), 14 (21), 15 (26), 16 (26), 17 (24), 18 (19), 19 (14), 20 (22),
21 (35), 22 (17), 23 (19), 24 (19), 25 (18), 26 (19), 27 (36), 28 (18), 29 (17), 30 (16),
31 (19),

Archived questions from: 3 July, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

(More questions from July, 2009)

Sex: Help and advice

Does liking transsexuals make me gay?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5626 days ago

3 July 2009 (M) - So I've recently developed a pretty strong fetish for Shemales (yes, I know the term is offensive to some, and I'm sorry, but that's the best way I know how to describe them - that is, transsexual men - women who have penises). Does it make me gay ...

Since we've gotten back together I haven't orgasmed and my boyfriend thinks it's him that must be the problem. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5626 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - Hey, so I'm with my boyfriend of just over three years. We have been in love for these three years since we met, though we broke up after two years as we were both worried we were getting tied down too early, and both saw other people. However after ...

Is it okay to have sex on your period?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

3 July 2009 (?) - so i`m on my period and me and my boyfriend want to have sex but i`m not sure if i should. is it okay to have sex when on your period? what should we do, like lay down a towel?...

I want to have sex with my first cousin

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

3 July 2009 (M) - i was wondering what other people thought about this. For many years me and my older cousin(female and 17 years) have been REALLY close.we talk each other often about sex,life and that sort of thing.Is stuff like this normal for first cousins? By ...

My pubic bone hit her nose....I can't seem to contact her since!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

3 July 2009 (M) - Ok so this is kind of embarrassing for me and the girl. Iv been messing around with this girl, who i like alot, but two weeks ago while i was receiving some oral sex she decided to stick her finger in my anus. Well i jumped and my pubic bone hit her ...

I want to be his everything but he looks up things I dislike...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - I was just on my partner's internet history and I saw that he had been looking up "pegging". For those who don't know this is when a woman penetrates a man's ass with a strapon. I've known for a while he likes femdom [even though I hate it] a...

My husband wants penis enlargement!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - I discovered from a Firefox tab left open by my husband that he'd been viewing pornographic sites with "MEN WITH BIG PACKAGES!! HOT GUYS!" I asked him why he was looking at it, and if he was gay, and he ranted at me about it, saying it's none...

I'd like to hear from lads who've actually received this kind of sex.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

3 July 2009 (M) - I'm a gay lad and my new boyfriend has offered to give me anal intercouse. I've never experienced it but would like see what it feels like. I've read all about it and know it can be extremely pleasurable. My boyfriend says he can give me a ...

Why do I make this sound during sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - My vagina has been making this queefing(fart) sound and im just wondering if this is caused because my vagina is loose? The sound is very embarassing and i hate it. My boyfriend said that my vagina is the tightest vagina that he has ever had and i ...

She says she's tired and doesn't feel sexy. What does she mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5626 days ago

3 July 2009 (M) - I am a little concerned about my girlfriend, because a few times when we've been laying on the bed we both know we can feel the sexual tension building up and all of a sudden she will say im tired, or something and then 10 minutes later we might ...

Do girls enjoy anal sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

3 July 2009 (M) - I know this is a really weird question but, do girls enjoy anal sex and anal play?...

He says he loves me, but he'd like to have sex with other women!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5626 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - I've been with my b/friend for 5 yrs. I'm very open minded as in making allowances for other peoples idiosyncracies...But there's never any kissing -which I need to light my spark, and he only ever likes to enter me from behind. It makes me feel ...

What can I do to make him comfortable with me using a vibrator during sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - I find it extremely difficult to become aroused from manual stimulation, whether it's by myself or by my boyfriend. So I purchased a rampant rabbit which is wonderful - but the only downside is I don't like the penis part (it's too hard), so I came ...

Sexual fantasies and jealousy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend just told me that he has had sexual fantasies about a few girls, two of whom I was already extremely jealous of, but he said they were one time things and for only about thirty seconds. He also told me that he never masturbated and ...

Does this look like I have an STD?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - I have had a tingling feeling in my genital area and legs all week. I have these tiny open sores all on the left side of my vaginal area. I think I may have herpes. I am planning on seeing a doctor but can't until monday due to the holiday. in the ...

My guy pleasures me but stops himself from climaxing

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - Question for you guys: my man says he would rather go down on me than have sex! He says he loves that and would rather do that than worry about him. Everything else about our relationship is great, but we don't have sex too often and half the time, ...

He had issues with an exclusive relationship and wanted to play around

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - We were together for a few months and did everything like a real couple but he wouldnt call himself my boyfriend. He said he thought of us as dating but not in a relationship. I asked him if I was his girlfriend and he started freaking out. He said ...

I want to orgasm too, but she finishes before me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

3 July 2009 (?) - Dear Cupid, Ok well i have been with my girlfriend for about a year now, and we have been having sex for about 6 months...my question is that now since we have been having sex a lot more lately, she finishes before i do, and for about like the l...

There was some miscommunication between us and he's stressing over it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5627 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - Yesterday night after I got off from work I went to a movie, and after it was over I texted my boyfriend saying I'll stop by his house since he was just getting off work. Well I was planning on having sex with him before I left but when he got back ...

If a guy loses erection during sex, is it the woman's fault?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - Guys and ladies please I need your pespective! My ex bragged that it was my fault he lost his erections while we had sex. Lets keep in mind that all this time he teased me by saying that I am a saint to others and a horny bit*ch in bed. Guys, can a ...

I've had 4 sexual partners, is that a lot for a woman my age?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - I'm 23 and have had 4 sexual partners. Is that a lot for a woman my age? My last ex told me during our break up that guys will think I'm really slutty now that I've been with 4 different men, but he might've been trying to make me feel bad. ...

Is it normal to get turned on thinking about attractive guys I don't know?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - Okay I have kind of a weird question for you… So lately I have noticed that when I am turned on and I start to pleasure myself it takes a long time for me to hit my high because out of habit I start to thing about my ex boyfriends or guys I know w...