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Archived questions from: January, 2007 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

Foreplay, cum, fantasy etc, etc...Explain all these 'sex' words to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6393 days ago

31 January 2007 (F) - what is fore play?..fantasy a girl?..is orgasm same thing as cum?..how do you know when you orgasm?..what is all this sex words!!..i dont get it!! plz explain! tnx!...

He's a selfish kind of lover in bed. I told him this and he said he'd try harder. But now nothing has changed. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6509 days ago

31 January 2007 (F) - me and my bf were talking about how we enjoyed the sex we had. He said everything was fine and he couldn't think of anything he'd perfer me to do. I told him as nicely as I could that he was selfish when it came to doing me. Which it ture, after he ...

He tells me I can date otheres, even though we sleep together! What should I make of this guy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6108 days ago

31 January 2007 (F) - Sorry, I know your probably sick of hearing about my "relationship" of the guy who Im friends with and sleep with but, I had a conversation with him a few nights ago before I went away on holiday and he said I could sleep with another guy if I ...

Could our rough sex have caused the pink spotting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6510 days ago

31 January 2007 (F) - Hello girls i need advice, im worried! Recently i have been bleeding inbetween my period its not a lot, but there is a bit! Its bright pink? What does this mean...i had sex the other week with my boyfriend which was a bit rough, could this be the ...

Why do people lie about there sexuality?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6510 days ago

31 January 2007 (F) - Why do people lie about there sexuality? i understnad if they dont want to shout it from the roof tops but why lie? why are they ashamed of the person they like?...

He is never the one to initiate sex, so I stopped doing it for two weeks - he still hasn't made an effort! I feel totally unattractive.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6501 days ago

31 January 2007 (F) - I've been going out with my boyfriend for nearly three years, things are good although he is stressed at work. My problem is that he hardly ever initiates sex, I've been happy to initiate in the past but its starting to annoy me. I tried to ignore a...

How could I get him to go down on me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6509 days ago

31 January 2007 (F) - any ideas on how to get him to go down on me? He never has once in 3 years.......

Leaky condom or not? What do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6510 days ago

30 January 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I had sex earlier today. We used a condom and when he finished and was out of me we noticed cum on him in his pubic hairs. By the way, the condom seemed to have the normal amount of semen in it and didnt appear to have any rips. ...

I'm having 'pre-threesome-nerves!' I'm scared he might enjoy it too much!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6278 days ago

30 January 2007 (?) - hi there this may sound extreme to some of you but i want some practical advise. me and my partner are planning a threesome with another male and i want my partner who is also male to be fully envolved which he wants to be and this is his first time ...

Admitted to the sex... but there's more.. I'm so guilty - I can't hurt him more!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6501 days ago

30 January 2007 (F) - i am 24 and been with my boyfriend for 7 years , we have a child together, 4 years ago i had an affair and i recently decided to tell him, we are working through it even though i hurt him alot, i have also done other things with 2 people not full ...

Will he go off me if I don't make him come?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6510 days ago

30 January 2007 (F) - right im nearly 18 btw!..i have given head twice b4 in my life! but now i got a bf obviously im willing to give it to him however cause i like him so much i get shy and im scared to give him head incase im crap! first time i gave it he did cum but ...

He told all our friends in front of me, that sex with me was not 'hot' at all. I'm so turned off him,as a result..what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6510 days ago

30 January 2007 (F) - I have been with my partner for over two years. We don't live together. We were at a friend's house the other day and there was a bit of an argument between myself and my other half. He wasn't being particularly nice and even told me to p*** off...

I'm scared to have sex b/c of pregnancy and b/c my parents might find out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6511 days ago

29 January 2007 (F) - I am with a great guy but no worry we dont plan on sex right now. Not until I'm 16 and then for the right guy but im just scared i will never lose it. I am scared about pregnecy and the first time and everything. Really it is because if i want to do ...

I only found out my fiance cheated b/c her friend and mom told me! I split, she wants to get back together but shows no remorse!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6487 days ago

29 January 2007 (M) - Hi, I recently broke up with my fiance. She went to visit a man that she had previously slept with before when we were in an open relationship. She is 20 and I am 25. I confronted her when I found out (her best friend told me) and she denied a...

I'm scared for my friend who has casual sex with any age guy who asks her. She's only 15!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6512 days ago

29 January 2007 (F) - hi i have a problem its my friend she is well seeing this guy who is 28 years old and engaged and well she knows this and she is only 15 yrs old and shes having sex with him and many others ever since she turned 15 she has being having sex with who ...

Whenever we want to do it, she says she's on her period! Is a period really every 3 weeks? I feel our sex life is lacking.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6511 days ago

29 January 2007 (M) - Ive been with my g/f for 3 months now(but we've known each other for about a year)and we've only had sex a couple of times(4 in total). It'll be wks in between each time. She keeps coming up with reasons not to, the most common of which is her time ...

Is the pill free? Is it okay to stop taking it for a while and then start up again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6511 days ago

29 January 2007 (F) - Do you have to pay for the pill? And is it ok to say, take it for a while, stop for a month and then start taking it again? ...

I think I'm being used for sex! But am I expecting too much? What are your thoughts?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6506 days ago

29 January 2007 (F) - Im having a casual relationship with this man i met on the internet and a number of times after having sex he doesn't cuddle me for long and starts to quickly get dress and carry on with something else in his flat.Am i expecting too much in wanting ...

If I have sex w/ my ex, will that ruin our chances of having a relationship in the future?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6511 days ago

29 January 2007 (F) - I spilt up with my ex in November as he was working long hours and has a child (genuine reasons and nothing between him and ex)he doesn't have the time to commit to anything else at the mo. He said that its not me, and he would ask me out again in ...

I masturbate a lot-does being a virgin have anything to do with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6512 days ago

29 January 2007 (M) - im 16 and masturbait alot. i do this mostly 3-4 times a day. i want to know if it is addictive.i dont if wether me still being a virgin has anything to do with this....

I have gone off sex with my husband...how do I get back on track. Any suggestions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

29 January 2007 (F) - OK, so here's my problem. I have been married to my husband for nearly a year now, we get on great and he is a total gent to me (most of the time), except when it comes down to sex. I have totally gone off it, I'm just not interested in it at all. ...

He couldn't orgasm! Was it because he was drunk or was I not good enough?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6512 days ago

29 January 2007 (F) - why couldn't my boyfriend come?? on saturday me and my boyfriend went out together, he got drunk, we then went to havre sex in his car, however after an hour he still hadn't come, so he 'had to finish him self off'...was it because he was d...

Why do I get bladder infections after having sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6501 days ago

29 January 2007 (F) - half of the time when me and my boyfriend have sex i pee and pretty much always get a bladder infection afterwards even when i dont pee. why?...

My boyfriend won't reveal his sexual fantasies to me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6512 days ago

29 January 2007 (F) - I need help on getting my bf to open up sexually! My bf and I have been dating for quite some time. We are both mature adults, have both been married before, so it's not like we are inexperienced, but his timid sexual habits are driving me crazy...

How do you orgasm when masturbating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6513 days ago

29 January 2007 (F) - dear cupid. i want to know how to orgasm while masterbating. how do i do this?...

Feeling uncomfortable about the thoughts of first time sex...what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6459 days ago

28 January 2007 (F) - im 14 and so is my boyfriend. We have been seeing each other for about a week. Im still a virgin bt my boyfriend isnt. Every time i am with him i want to do more than kiss and touch each other but im scared. Hes always tryin to touch me but i feel ...

How do I 'finger' my gf without hurting her? Any tips?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

28 January 2007 (M) - Hi my I was wodering how is the best way to finger girl freind becuse last time i seemed to hurt her and she started lieing saying it was fine but i no it isnt so Please help me !!!...

During sex he got too rough and wouldn't stop! I love him but this has me hurt and confused..what should I do?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

28 January 2007 (F) - well last night i went to the pub, with my boyfriend and our 2 mates. we were all having a good laugh and drinking. and me and paul* were pretty horny, so when we got home we had sex. bout an hour after we did it again. and for some reason it kinda ...

After we had sex--I found out he injects heroin! Can I get HIV from him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6512 days ago

28 January 2007 (F) - hi ppl.this is a really serious question. I have just split with my boyfriend and yesterday i found out that while i was with him he was on heroine, and in fact has been injecting for 12 months. I had no idea about this!!anyway i had sex with him, ...

He fingered me..can I get pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6513 days ago

28 January 2007 (F) - Dear ANYBODY, I'm really freaked out i am in the prosses fo moving and me and my boyfriend of 8 months new we both wanted to have sex with each other before i left to a city hours away. The whole sex thing was a safe as can be (painful 2) condom i...

It's just sex and he hides his feelings! How can I tell if this relationship is right for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6512 days ago

27 January 2007 (F) - how can tell if this relationship is right for u right now its just sex here and there thats how we were when we were kids 5 years ago i feel like ive gone back 4 steps. he hides his feelings and i dont know where i stand anymore what to do. i t...

I have a boyfriend but I'm thinking of meeting up with this guy online who promises to give me 'wild sex.' Is this a good idea, or not?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6509 days ago

27 January 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid- Here is the problem: I've been dating my boyfriend for over a year, and I love him very much, but our sex life is a little boring. We usually have sex in the bedroom in the same position. I'm very sexual and I like to try new things in ...

It hurts everytime I have sex. Why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

27 January 2007 (F) - Hey everyone, I'm 19 years old and when me and my boyfriend have sex, it really hurts me. I am sore when he enters me and when we're actually having intercourse. Afterwards i am really sore aswell. I have had a test for chlamydia and that came ba...

Update: How do I introduce my vibrator to the bedroom with my boyfriend? I need ideas for Vibrators now!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

27 January 2007 (F) - First of all Id like to say thank to to everyone who answered a recent question i posted (How do I introduce my vibrator to the bedroom with my boyfriend)It really helped!! The two of us talked about it and hes totally ok with it..and probably cant ...

He's the sweetest guy but he's a zero in bed! Should I stay or go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6513 days ago

27 January 2007 (F) - I am in relationship 15 months with great guy i really love, but in bed he is zero. he is sweetest thing in the world and i can't tell him about this problem or even leave him.i feel that i could cheat, but i don't want it would be humiliating.what ...

I am thinking of working a "sex chat' job..will my bf think worse of me if I do this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6504 days ago

27 January 2007 (F) - Hi I just want some advice. I'm very much in love with my partner and I would never do anything to break or harm the trust that we have for eachother. I've been thinking recently about getting a part time job to help us get by a little easier, but ...

Friend suggest some pills to help me relax during lovemaking with my bf. What do you all think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6235 days ago

27 January 2007 (F) - Hi I've written in before, ive recently been trying to have sex with my bf of nearly a year we love each other lots im a virgin and im terrified of the pain and as soon as he tries to go 'down there' even with his finger i panic and tense up and no ...

Do girls masturbate as much as us guys do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6498 days ago

27 January 2007 (M) - i am 15 year old boy and at school all the boys talk about them w**king all the time, but it seems that girls dont and never have done, is this true....

He loves BJ's and I hate giving them! How do I tell him without losing him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6495 days ago

27 January 2007 (F) - hi iam 35 and waited my whole life to meet a man like this,that treats me like gold,only problem is he loves blow jobs and i hate it so much,how do i explain to him with out loosing him....

Can I reach my girlfriends G-Spot without breaking her hymen?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5984 days ago

26 January 2007 (M) - My girlfriend is a virgin (no sexual intercourse yet) and I was wondering if it's possible to reach her Gspot with my fingers without breaking her hymen....

I'm a virgin but my girlfriend isn't... but I know what she's done with other guys!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6124 days ago

26 January 2007 (M) - My girlfriend is my first sexual partner, I've been in relationships before but choose not to have sex. The problem im having is dealing with the thought of my girlfriend and her previous sexual partners. I know their names and even what she did to ...

Can I learn to deepthroat?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5897 days ago

26 January 2007 (F) - my boyfriend says that the only time a girl is good at giving head is when she can deep throat. how do you do that? he's fairly large in the trouser department. 8 inches. so i'm guessing it wont be easy but i want him to enjoy it so i gotta learn ...

I don't get enough sex. Is it because I am too easy-going?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6515 days ago

26 January 2007 (F) - My b/f and I have been together about a year and we do lots of things together, hang out, watch movies, go shopping, work on the house together. But sometimes I realize that he doesn't hold my hand, or look at me in a sexual way. We have sex, but ...

How can i tell if my gf is faking it??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6199 days ago

26 January 2007 (M) - Hi I've been seeing a girl for a few months now and have been enjoying a mutually very fulfilling sex life with her. Then, one day she told me that she used to fake orgasms with previous partners and regarded herself as a pretty good faker. I asked ...

We're planning to get married but he doesn't seem to desire me sex-wise...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6500 days ago

26 January 2007 (F) - Hi My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year now and plan to be married August of this year. We are both 34 years old. I work mostly days and him nights. We get along well for the most part. The main problem is sex actually. I want to ...

I'm the only vgirl he knows that is still a virgin and I think he wants it! What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6510 days ago

26 January 2007 (F) - hello everyone am 15 years old and am talking to this guy who is 17 years old. he says that am the only virgin he knows. he always wants to talk about ''sex''. he always wants to know what i think or what i do since am still a virgin. he is very ...

I need my vibrator to orgasm! How do I introduce into my lovemaking with my bf?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6515 days ago

25 January 2007 (F) - k..i been w my bf for years..we live together..our sex life has gone down a bit since were both working full time, don't have quite the same schedules and also because the passion and excitement of a new relationship is wearing off a bit. So here i ...

He expects me to have sex with him because he thinks I'm not a virgin! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6489 days ago

25 January 2007 (F) - I've liked this boy in my tutor for a while now and i've just told him and he asked me out but he expects me to sleep with him because he thinks that i've lost my virginity when i haven't. i don't know what to do :(...

I want to have more sex and eventually have a baby - but my husband has a VERY low labido! I'm worried and depressed.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

25 January 2007 (F) - please some one give me some advice. I am very recently married - we have known eachother for years and our sexual dinamics are definately different - i have always enjoyed sex but although I love my husband in other ways I wouldnt say we have ...

How do you know when you're ready for sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6101 days ago

25 January 2007 (F) - How do you know if you are ready for sex? Because i want to and i feel like im ready but i have a really big problem with a fear of pain! ...