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anonymous
writes: My girlfriend is my first sexual partner, I've been in relationships before but choose not to have sex. The problem im having is dealing with the thought of my girlfriend and her previous sexual partners. I know their names and even what she did to one of them in the bedroom. I think it could be because i dont know whats its like to have a previous sexual partner. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2008): I'm in the same boat! I don't want to lose her, and she really does not want to lose me either. But her past experiences does bother me. I guess i'll get over it. And so should you. Go skydiving. Do something much more cooler than sex, an act that EVERYBODY including your grandparents did.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI seam to have the biggest problem with knowing she's had sex before because i haven't i dont know if its something she'll or anyone thinks of when ex's names come up. I know what one of her ex's looks like and the sexual act she did with him, Im finding it hard to sake this image.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (27 January 2007):
Get used to this. As you get older you're going to find less and less people with no sexual experience and therefore everyone is going to have had past partners. The important thing to remember is that she's with you. If the sex had been that great with her previous partners then why isn't she still with them?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIm not a virgin but i was before i met her.
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