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Archived questions from: September, 2012 (see latest in Pregnancy category)

Pregnancy: Help and advice

How do I tell my husband that I'm pregnant with another man's baby?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - My husband and I have had alot of issues that we just cant seem to get over. 3 months ago I told him I was unhappy and didnt love him anymore and didnt want to be with him. we have 2 children together and he said to me if I left he would take the ...

How do I talk to boyfriend about having children?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

28 September 2012 (F) - Ive just learnt that my bf would want me to have an abortion if i were to fall pregnant now as he doesnt want a kid For at least a few years. He was serious. We've had this talk before but it has never said that. We have been together for 3 years....

Things have gone downhill with my boyfriend since I had a termination...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

27 September 2012 (F) - Hey everyone I have been dating my boyfriend for 8 years now, our relationship is the best thing in my life. About 3 months ago I got pregnant but I wasn't ready to have a child cuz I'm working and so is my boyfriend and I just wasn't ready to ...

A girl I had sex with is pregnant.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

27 September 2012 (M) - Girl i know is pregnant? well there is this girl that i slept with on aug 27, i(A) did not ejactulate in her at all, she told me that she slept with another guy (B) in the same week which was on august 29 and 30, comes to find out on that she is p...

I'm pregnant trying to be friends with ex and the girl he got pregnant but its making me sick

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4443 days ago

25 September 2012 (F) - I am 6months pregnant with my first child.The father and I are not together because he was very mean to me and mentally abused and took advantage of me and lied all the time.But for the sake of the baby I still remained friends with him because he ...

Should I have another child or pursue a career?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4445 days ago

24 September 2012 (F) - I just turned 36 and my husband is 50 and we have a 6 year’s old beautiful smart son together. Our marriage is not 100% perfect but it is ok. We have some financial issues at this moment but down the road we are in a good shape. My husband has a ...

I need to get over him. I need any ideas you can suggest to help me get over him completely

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

22 September 2012 (F) - Hi I need Advice here is the case: before 4 years my BF and I were together for about a year then I got pregnant. That time he didn't have job I have a job, he told me we gonna be together and he will do his best to get a job, a give birth and af...

How can I tell if I've had a miscarriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4449 days ago

19 September 2012 (F) - so today i got my period well i think i was about 2 months late and didnt know if i was pregnant or not i took a at home pregnancy test and it came out negative but i still thought i was pregnant. so what if im having a miss carriage would i know? ...

Is this implantation cramp or normal cramps?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4450 days ago

19 September 2012 (M) - A few days ago i fingered my girlfriend that might have traces of dry precum on my finger,4 days later she is feeling these cramps,she said that it feels like her period is coming earlier than usual. Our clothes and everything were on so there is ...

Pregnant and in love with someone else ..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4450 days ago

19 September 2012 (F) - I dated a guy for almost 2 and a half years , he was my high school sweet heart. I literally love everything about him. We've been through so much an supported one another through many many problems. Unfortunately a few months ago we broke up. One ...

Am I over-reacting? He thinks he may have got a girl pregnant before he me me. I don't think my heart can take.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4451 days ago

17 September 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together going on seven months now I love him and he is the best thing that has happen to me in a long time. He is as good as they come I couldnt ask for a better man. We were expecting our first child together but I mi...

He cheated on me in the past but now he is trying to make up for it, even though he is engaged to someone else. I love him so what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4452 days ago

17 September 2012 (F) - HI all iv posted on here before about an ex that seemed to trying to get back into my life, just wanted a little more advice. We split because within the first year of the relationship he cheated. We have a child together now. Hes showi...

How do I get over my backstabbing boyfriend who cheated on me with my cousin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

17 September 2012 (F) - My question is, how do I get over the fact that my heart belongs to a lying, cheating, sneaky, manipulator bastard who had sexual intercourses with my younger cousin who is now 21 and pregnant by him supposely? I been knowing this guy for 2yrs now ...

I got along great with my boyfriend's sister, until I found out she has gotten an abortion and doesn't seem to care about it.

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4429 days ago

15 September 2012 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over 3 years now. In that time of course, I've got to know his family and the person I've always got on with the most is his sister. Most of my boyfriend's family are quite rough (swear a lot, drink etc) but his ...

After a year of trying we still haven't conceived. Are there any tests doctors can do to find if I am ovulating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4454 days ago

14 September 2012 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been trying fir a baby for a year now. I am worrying im not ovulating. Because i know you can still have periods and not actually ovulate. My periods are pretty much like clockwork and i am monitoring my mucus. Does havi...

Is my self medical abortion unsuccessful?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4455 days ago

14 September 2012 (F) - Dear cupids, Help!!!. I recently had a strip test and found a slight second red line. By my calculation, I was 32 days pregnant. So I used the misoprostol alone procedure to terminate it for I have been taught on how to take the medicine in a two ...

I may have miscarried recently. It's made me want a baby. Should I wait like my Bf says? I worry waiting could destroy our relationship.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4456 days ago

13 September 2012 (F) - I'm 18 and going to be turning 19 in 3 weeks. I have a boyfriend who I have been with for 5 years and he is turning 20 in 2 months. He was the person I lost my virginity to and we have only slept with each other. I started taking the pill as soon ...

Keep the baby, adoption, or abortion?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4456 days ago

12 September 2012 (F) - Im 19 yrs old and i just found out that im pregnant. I was taking the pill, have been for 3 mos. Idk how but i must have taken it wrong or maybe it just failed. Anyways my current bf and i have been dating 8mos. He is rather self absorbed, and is ...

Am I really unloveable?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4457 days ago

12 September 2012 (M) - I’m 27 and have never had a girlfriend or any kind of relationship for that matter. I just can’t understand the why of it all. No woman has ever wanted me. My love just isn’t good enough for some reason. I’ve gone so far as to ask my friends f...

No condom, took pill next morning. Is that enough?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4458 days ago

12 September 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have had sex only twice before. The last time we did it, we didn't use a condom and he pulled out before anything happened. The next morning I took the pill. Is this safe enough to prevent pregnancy?...

My cheating ex seems to be trying to inch his way back into my life

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4458 days ago

10 September 2012 (F) - Hi all got a problem with the ex. We was together for a year or so and things was great between us,lived together, we was like best friends until i noticed he was a bit controlling, didnt like me going out without him drinking, was always on my ba...

Ex had miscarriage, took her back, although the feelings aren't there

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4460 days ago

10 September 2012 (M) - About 3 weeks ago, my girlfriend of two and a half years had a miscarriage, neither of us knew that she was even pregnant, until this started. Literally 2 days before that I had broken up with her because the feelings just weren't there, and she was ...

Ex said baby wasn't mine, but it resembles me and I feel guilty

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4460 days ago

9 September 2012 (M) - My ex n i broke up when she was 2 mnths pgnt.She later said that its cz pregnancy wsnt mine. We lost contact, she gave birth, baby is 5mnths. Have only seen baby's pics, we resemble. I feel guilty all the time, i cant move on, I dont know what ...

Why do women get post natal depression, while others haven't found love/ struggle with infertility?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4455 days ago

8 September 2012 (F) - Why would you get post natal depression? What is there to get depressed about? As I haven't had children I can't understand. As opposed to be single and getting depressed because you haven't met The right person yet and don't know if you will...

How else could we have a baby considering that I am HIV positive? My Bf is HIV negative..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

8 September 2012 (F) - my b/f want us to have a baby,and my problem is i m HIV positive and he is negative and we are so much inlove so please help us the is alternative to have a baby without infecting him please help me I am confused...

I feel emotional and grieving over losing a child that was goin to terminate is this normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4460 days ago

6 September 2012 (M) - Hi guys just looking for support or advice Found out i was pregnant 2 weeks ago after a routine blood test at the doctors it came as an absolute shock as me and my boyfriend were on a rocky road and the fact i had thought i got my period a week be...

Is she telling the truth about miscarrying?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4464 days ago

5 September 2012 (M) - A girl i was seeing told me she was pregnant with my child and after stating her reasons she decided to terminate it as she said he wasnt mature enough or financially ready to bring up a child and also since alot of stuff had gone on between us she ...

What to do? I don't want our relationship to be based on amazing sex

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4460 days ago

5 September 2012 (F) - Well me and my baby's dad have crazy sexual chemistry...its off that charts... I just had a baby 3 months ago and don't want anymore for a while. But anyway because of our attraction it seems like we can't even be around each other without havi...

B/f cheated, got her pregnant but says he loves me more. What do I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

5 September 2012 (F) - my boyfriend of 3years cheated on me for 3monthes with a girl much younger than me and even got her pregnant. i found out recently from the girl her self. i asked him but at first he was denying later on he told me the truth but he says he loves me ...

Before I speak to a doctor can anyone tell me about Cerazette (birth control)?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4465 days ago

5 September 2012 (F) - Been on the cerazette pill for quite a few months now and I hate it. I would bleed constantly for 3 weeks have a week without bleeding and then bleed for another 3 weeks. It's just a nightmare. I've taken the pill correctly everyday and have never ...

A baby 3 months ago. So why do I feel so dispirited all the time? Should I start afresh, or is there other options?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4465 days ago

4 September 2012 (F) - So had a baby been together for two years and I dont think I want to be with him anymore.I love him but I'm falling out of love. Lately I've been sleeping on the couch in the living room, I dont enjoy kissing him or being all cuddly with him. I dont ...

I'm 14 and I'm pregnant by my 15 year old B/f who talked me into sex. What do I do now?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

4 September 2012 (F) - Hey!:) Ok, I have a huge problem and really need some help! I'm 14 years old, and have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 4 months. He is 15, and in the year above me at school. At the beginning of the relationship, everything was absoutol...

I'm still in love but can't take the hurt anymore

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4464 days ago

3 September 2012 (F) - How do get over this guy I am still very much in love with? He says that he loves me too and I believe that he is be cuase we did grow up together and have been friends since birth. However we just recently got into a relationship six months ago ...

I feel like my love for him died.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4466 days ago

2 September 2012 (F) - I had a pregnancy scare a few days ago, I told my bf and I took a test, it came out positive. But, just to be sure I made an appointment for another test. At first, my bf seemed supportive and soothed my nerves. On our way to the appointment though, ...

No to a tubal ligation. But I never want to be pregnant. Terrified of it. What can I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4464 days ago

1 September 2012 (F) - I’m a woman aged 28 years old and I’ve very big trouble. I’m dreadfully afraid of pregnancy and it affects my sex life more and more. I’ve a boyfriend, we’re together for two years, but sex has always been a stress for me. I want him and I want s...

We were fooling around but stayed in our underwear, I am worried I could still get pregnant.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

1 September 2012 (F) - My guy and I were hooking up last night in our underwear. He was wearing boxer briefs and I was wearing lace underwear that had a sheet of fabric between the lace. I was worried that since I think he precame and though I didn't remove my underwear ...