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Pregnancy: Help and advice

Eight months pregnant with twins, but should I break up or make up?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - I am eighteen years old and i am eight months pregnant with twins . Idk what to do but first I'll give you the background: My bf is 19 years old and his ex gf lets called her C cheated on him numerous time , she got people to kidnapped him etc and ...

I'm eight months pregnant and the baby's father is incommunicado.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - Hello, I need some advice please, I'm 35 weeks pregnant and the baby's father hasn't been in contact with me since we split up 3 month ago. I've tried ringing him and have had no answer to my calls or texts. Its like he isn't interested, and I hear ...

My b/f got both me and his ex pregnant at the same time

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4683 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - Hello I am eighteen years old and i am eight months pregnant with twins . Idk what to do but first I'll give you the background: My bf is 19 years old and his ex gf lets called her Chantel cheated on him numerous time , she got people to kidnap...

I just get turned off by his double checking the condom

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - Hi everyone, I didnt know who else to bring this up with so thought i'd see what other people on here think... Basically my partner and I are in a very loving relationship. We both want children and plan to start trying in ...

PREGNANT! Help! How do I tell him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - Hello all, I think I may be pregnant. The issue I would like to ask you all about it how to talk to my boyfriend about it. First off, should I tell him right away before I know for sure? Or should I wait until I do know, and then tell him? I feel l...

Bleeding while not on my period, am I pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

28 January 2012 (F) - Recently my boyfriend was fingering me and I started bleeding but I'm not on my period. This has never happened to me before and I never bleed when I'm not on my period. Two days later I went to the bathroom and discovered blood on the toilet paper. ...

Why is my sister in law and friend is backstabbing and acting up to me as if I've wronged her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

28 January 2012 (F) - ModNote: two almost identical questions combined. She (P) was my friend before i even met her brother, my now boyfriend. I also have a mutual girlfriend with P called (E) When i started dating her brother she would back stab me and stuff, sayin...

Everything seemed perfect before I got pregnant!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

28 January 2012 (F) - hi cupids! im getting a bit fed up and stressed out with this now if im honest! my boyfriend and i have been in a relationship for almost 4 years, because i was only 15 and he was 22, it was difficult to spend time with each other at first! but our ...

My life is a mess!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4686 days ago

27 January 2012 (M) - So I have a list of issues and I do not deny I need therapy but I am here to vent something...I would love the comments and the advice but I'm not really asking for it, I am but im not. I want guidance but I know what to do I'm educated intelligent ...

I feel depressed and sad that my parents are still trying to have children and they aren't thinking about me and my feelings!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

27 January 2012 (F) - i recently came to know that my mom had a missed abortion with a 9 week fetus. I feel so embarrassed and angry and sad because i am 20 and old enough to have my own kids but they want a second kid after so many years. I found out that she had a ...

I want a baby but I don't want a relationship just to make babies.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

27 January 2012 (F) - Well, I am 19 years old and want a child so bad I can hardly wait. Yet I have been waiting for 2yrs now and am tired of waiting. I am mature, live on my own, have a job and everything else I need. I even have taken parenting classes and already have ...

His behavior is out of order! How do I tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4687 days ago

26 January 2012 (F) - Is there some that could help me? Im in a messy relationship and im 5 months pregnant. Im 27, hes 53. Yes i know huge age gap but age is just a number. we've been together a year/was friends for a year before we got together. When we first ...

Was it right to tell the father of my child, someone on drugs who has been harassing me, that the child isn't actually his?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

26 January 2012 (F) - hi. ok so i really do understand about all the parental rights and everything (i think!) but could really really use a bit of advice!! please be honest.. please dont judge but please dont just be nice to me... im 19 years old and im 20 weeks pr...

Pregnant and having cramps. Should I go to the doctor?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4688 days ago

25 January 2012 (F) - hiya! i feel really silly asking this, especially on here lol! but i know how amazing you guys are :) so.. im 20 weeks pregnant! finding out on monday whether im getting a little him or her :) this is my first pregnancy (second.. i misscarried in ...

Why do teenagers get more criticism, when they become pregnant?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

21 January 2012 (F) - ok im 18 now and before i tell u my story i have a question.. why is it that when somebody young ends up pregnant they are judged and discouraged. sometimes even pretty much told to have an abortion..when we can be just as good as parents as some 30 ...

Why are more guys choosing to father children in their 60s?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

21 January 2012 (F) - This seems to be a growing trend especially with celebrities. E.g Alexander Skarsgard's dad having a second child, with his second wife. He is in his 60s. Even though he has adult children already. Why do people do this? Don't they want to enjoy ...

Is he worth waiting around for? Commitment phobic boyfriend of 4.5 years!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4689 days ago

20 January 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 1/2 years now. We have lived together for 3 1/2 years. Whenever I bring up marriage or our future he doesn't say anything. He says he will propose some day, but that's not good enough for me. He says, ...

My gf is pregnant with her abusive ex-bf's baby! What do I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

20 January 2012 (M) - I met a girl 3 months ago, and we fell madly in love and were both 39 and have talked about marriage and we both feel we have found our soul mates in each other. During these 3 months ive found out that her last relationship the guy cheated on her ...

Sticky Situation pregnant and confused.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

19 January 2012 (F) - So im currently 5 months pregnant, and have been in this relationship for a little over 10 months. We certainly rushed into things real quick and not I am not only regreting the fact that we rushed it so quick but the situation im in as well. I stay ...

We didn't actually have full blown sex, but could I be pregnant?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

19 January 2012 (F) - Ok, this may sound weird, I've never had sex before, but I am planning on with my boyfriend in a few months. Anyway yesterday me and my boyfriend tried putting his member in down there just to see if it would work/fit, he took it out after 5 seconds ...

My ex has been going through a lot and I feel somewhat responsible!

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18 January 2012 (F) - So im not going to lie, I'm sort of confused. I recently broke up with my bf of almost 5 years about 5 months ago. We do have a 3 yr old daughter together which makes my situation so much harder. We still live together and work together. I did move ...

Does my wife love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4695 days ago

17 January 2012 (M) - lm a guy aged 24 and im married.my wife she is pregnant,the problem is that all the time she want to fight with me and she hate me.the other thing is that she likes sex everytime when i am at home even im tired coming from work,tell me did this ...

Does he deserve a second chance after he lied about wearing a condom?

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 4695 days ago

17 January 2012 (F) - I have been dating this guy for a couple of months. He's nice to me, although he has a bit of a problem telling the truth. He does not like wearing protection as he says he doesn't feel anything and the rubber irritates him. I finally agreed t...

I'm distraught. She's pregnant with the baby we have longed for. But she's not sure who the father is. Do I stay to father a child who may not be mine?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

16 January 2012 (M) - Any advice would be great because my head is fried, I'm not sure I even want to be with her now. Hi not sure where to start so will start from beginning, me and my fiancée have been together for 4 years. 19 months ago we had a little girl who was ...

My bf wants a child with me! And I don't want that because he's so unstable..help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

16 January 2012 (F) - So, my boyfriend of 7 yrs is giving me an ultimatum of leaving me in March because he feels he doesn't have a "family" with me. Mind you he has a 13 yr old daughter and a 17 yr old son who he thinks might be his but he's not really raising either ...

I'm not as happy as he is in our relationship. I think I'm falling out of love!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

13 January 2012 (F) - Hey readers, I think I'm falling out of love with my bf and need some help to understand my emotions and what to do to preserve what we have, or whether we should preserve it, please. We've been together 1 yr 5 months. I no longer get excit...

My FWB wants to have a baby with me!!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

13 January 2012 (F) - ok so im 18 and ive been a friends with benifit with this guy but it has grown into where neither of us are with anybody else but he wont say that we are in a relationship... so now we are having trouble seeing each other because his family doesnt ...

I'm sad I had my baby and now he's just going to get bigger! Has anyone felt this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

12 January 2012 (F) - Hello everyone. this is my question. i just had a baby 3 days ago, and, well instead of having post partum depression, im having quite the opposite. It seems im sad now because hes out of my tummy and is only going to get bigger from here on out :( ...

How can I get over him when we just had a baby together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

11 January 2012 (F) - i'm going to try and make this as short as possible. me and my boyfriend have been dating over a year we have a 5 month old daughter together. he broke up with me today cause he said now is the time he don't want a relationship, i asked him why he b...

My husband is set on naming our baby after a child his mother miscarried years ago and I know I will regret chosing this name....what should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4339 days ago

10 January 2012 (F) - I am officially 3 months pregnant!! I have been thinking of names... The only problem is that my husband is set on the name Zoe, which i love, but i know he wants that name because his mother had picked that name for her baby that she miscarried a ...

Unfaithful husband with problems. Should I keep trying to fix our marriage or just call it a lost cause?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

8 January 2012 (F) - I have been married for 4 year with a beautiful son. I have found out my husband was having a affair with his ex friend's girlfriend and that he was using again. So christmas eve of 2010 he had broke up with me and for the past year we had argu...

14 and pregnant

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

8 January 2012 (F) - Hello, im 14 and i think im pregnant, what do i do?...

How do I tell my fwb guy that I am pregnant?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4704 days ago

7 January 2012 (F) - Hi everyone I really need your help I have just found out I'm pregnant by my fwb of 9 months I have asked him if we are gonna be together someday and he said yes but how am I gonna tell him I'm pregnant he has a daughter from a previous relationship ...

I'm pregnant and he is threatening me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4706 days ago

7 January 2012 (F) - Need some advice. Ive been with my partner 2 yrs I am now 22 wks pregnant with a baby girl. My partner never wanted the baby he demanded an abortion which I booked and.couldn't go through with. Made it clear he doesn't have to be here ive made the ...

Why are people extremely against abortion?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4706 days ago

6 January 2012 (F) - abortion is accepted in society now, its not an illegal act and a majority of people worldwide have had it. i understand that there are extreme ethical and social issues, and dont get me wrong, i dont aprove it, i would hate to kill a precious ...

Getting a contraceptive implant in my arm tomorrow...any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4706 days ago

4 January 2012 (F) - i'm getting the contraceptive implant in my arm tomorrow and i'm really scared of getting it done. any one got any ideas on how to not get scared and to not focus on it? thanks...

Losing the baby, financial difficulties, my drinking, his insensitivity... it's all a big mess!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4706 days ago

4 January 2012 (F) - Hi all. I have a very difficult situation and am very torn as to what to do. I have always had a difficult situation with my bf but recently things got worse. In October we bought a house together and we have a joint mortgage. I also found out that...

Boyfriend telling me that there is not money for another baby, I don't want an abortion!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

3 January 2012 (F) - i dont know what to do. my boyfriend 5 years made me move to the states with my two kids telling me storys like we gonna get married and so on. it didnt happen yet the marriage but yesterday i just found out that i am pregnant. today i was all exci...

I want to have a baby but it's not happening!

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 4478 days ago

3 January 2012 (F) - So I'm 19 and me and my fiance live together..everything is perfect! I am beyond in love with this man.the problem is,I want to share more with him..I bet you're thinking "what more could she want?" this may sound crazy but I want to have his ...

Pregnant to my married ex lover!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

2 January 2012 (F) - Hi I had been having an affair with a married man for nearly two years when it came to an abrupt end 6 weeks ago when his wife caught him on the phone to me. We have not spoken since however we did work at the same company and he got me dismissed...

Even though we took all necessary precautions, I'm not feeling well, could I be pregnant?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

1 January 2012 (F) - I recently lost my virginity to my boyfriend (21st Dec) ... it was an a amazing experience as we had waited for ages to show our love and commitment to each other. We of course took the necessary precautions before we made love to each other, w...